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2024.05.15 09:05 TheosTavern AITAH for refusing to go into work and losing several friends over it?
i’m not one to usually come on here and ramble about my problems, but i feel like i have no one else to hear the story. the only person who actively listens is my boyfriend, but obviously he’s gonna be biased since we’re together. (small trigger warning for mental health/being suicidal, and i’m sorry the post is so long.)
i (M21) had a friend we’ll call taylor (F25), who is a manager at a semi-popular clothing store. she was desperately hiring for shift leads in order to finally be able to fire someone who was also our mutual friend but turned out to be a bad person (but with the way the story is and how our relationship turned out, i’m starting to think she did nothing wrong.) i applied and was hired almost immediately. the first few ish months of the job were great, but i am autistic as well as a lot of mental health problems so i warned taylor i will need more time to learn things, and that there may be days i can’t do much, if anything at all. she said that was fine and she understood because she was also autistic.
about three months go by, and i’m starting to get autistic burnout BAD. it’s to the point i’m visibly suicidal to everyone around me, because i haven’t had a chance to take a breather and calm myself down for several weeks. i had a few days off in a row and was glad, because i could finally rest and have time to decompress. well, the store manager called me asking me to come in, then followed by taylor spam calling me 5+ times. not asking, TELLING me i have to come in. incase you don’t know how autistic burnout works, it’s like sensory overload but to the point you can’t physically get out of bed or your resting spot until your “battery” is recharged. your (at least for me) body does not let you do things you could normally do. it’s near impossible.
i knew that if i told taylor the truth and that i was having burnout/actively suicidal, she would just yell at me and tell me to work regardless (i’ve seen her do the same to other coworkers by this point.) so despite it being a shitty move, i lied and told her i was at the hospital with my boyfriend (M20) who was getting a scan on his legs. (i had to make it something urgent so that i wouldn’t be yelled at, and everyone already knows he’s disabled in his legs.) taylor still yelled at me through the phone and DEMANDED i got an uber to work since my bf was also usually my ride and we had just gotten paid the day before. i told her i had no money because of bills (that was the truth), and that i couldn’t go in even if i wanted to. she had a field day with this, calling me incompetent and slow/careless at my job despite me warning her previously that i would be.
i decided to let her anger cool down a few hours, then texted her a long paragraph about how i wanted to resolve this like adults and didn’t want to lose our friendship over something so stupid. she decided to keep yelling at me, threatening ing to cut my hours because “we’re supposed to be running the store together and i can’t give hours to people who refuse to work.” she also mentioned how she was currently in the office having recovered from fainting. i asked if she was okay and that she should go to the hospital if this really did happen, to which she flat out refused. (i’m not sure if she was even telling the truth here, since she lied about being autistic and doesn’t have a diagnosis nor did ANY research into the disability.) she called me a number of names and at this point i just got so overwhelmed i quit.
this leads into the losing multiple friends party. taylor is dating my long time friend of 7 years i’ll call george. taylor immediately went to george, calling me an awful person and saying i abandoned her when she needed me most. because of this, george stopped talking to me. (george has known taylor for 6ish months. he never said we weren’t friends anymore, but he’s cut all communication with me, refused to talk about the situation to me and muted me from seeing any of his social media posts.) now that i can’t talk to either of them, i’ve lost contact with about 4-5 of our mutual friends associated with george.
so am i the asshole in this story? can i do anything to gain my friends back? i genuinely did not want things to blow this out of proportion, but now i feel like i’m in the middle of some sort of high school drama.
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i (M21) had a friend we’ll call taylor (F25), who is a manager at a semi-popular clothing store. she was desperately hiring for shift leads in order to finally be able to fire someone who was also our mutual friend but turned out to be a bad person (but with the way the story is and how our relationship turned out, i’m starting to think she did nothing wrong.) i applied and was hired almost immediately. the first few ish months of the job were great, but i am autistic as well as a lot of mental health problems so i warned taylor i will need more time to learn things, and that there may be days i can’t do much, if anything at all. she said that was fine and she understood because she was also autistic.
about three months go by, and i’m starting to get autistic burnout BAD. it’s to the point i’m visibly suicidal to everyone around me, because i haven’t had a chance to take a breather and calm myself down for several weeks. i had a few days off in a row and was glad, because i could finally rest and have time to decompress. well, the store manager called me asking me to come in, then followed by taylor spam calling me 5+ times. not asking, TELLING me i have to come in. incase you don’t know how autistic burnout works, it’s like sensory overload but to the point you can’t physically get out of bed or your resting spot until your “battery” is recharged. your (at least for me) body does not let you do things you could normally do. it’s near impossible.
i knew that if i told taylor the truth and that i was having burnout/actively suicidal, she would just yell at me and tell me to work regardless (i’ve seen her do the same to other coworkers by this point.) so despite it being a shitty move, i lied and told her i was at the hospital with my boyfriend (M20) who was getting a scan on his legs. (i had to make it something urgent so that i wouldn’t be yelled at, and everyone already knows he’s disabled in his legs.) taylor still yelled at me through the phone and DEMANDED i got an uber to work since my bf was also usually my ride and we had just gotten paid the day before. i told her i had no money because of bills (that was the truth), and that i couldn’t go in even if i wanted to. she had a field day with this, calling me incompetent and slow/careless at my job despite me warning her previously that i would be.
i decided to let her anger cool down a few hours, then texted her a long paragraph about how i wanted to resolve this like adults and didn’t want to lose our friendship over something so stupid. she decided to keep yelling at me, threatening ing to cut my hours because “we’re supposed to be running the store together and i can’t give hours to people who refuse to work.” she also mentioned how she was currently in the office having recovered from fainting. i asked if she was okay and that she should go to the hospital if this really did happen, to which she flat out refused. (i’m not sure if she was even telling the truth here, since she lied about being autistic and doesn’t have a diagnosis nor did ANY research into the disability.) she called me a number of names and at this point i just got so overwhelmed i quit.
this leads into the losing multiple friends party. taylor is dating my long time friend of 7 years i’ll call george. taylor immediately went to george, calling me an awful person and saying i abandoned her when she needed me most. because of this, george stopped talking to me. (george has known taylor for 6ish months. he never said we weren’t friends anymore, but he’s cut all communication with me, refused to talk about the situation to me and muted me from seeing any of his social media posts.) now that i can’t talk to either of them, i’ve lost contact with about 4-5 of our mutual friends associated with george.
so am i the asshole in this story? can i do anything to gain my friends back? i genuinely did not want things to blow this out of proportion, but now i feel like i’m in the middle of some sort of high school drama.
2024.05.15 09:02 This-Beautiful1071 Heartbroken and Confused After My (M19) Girlfriend (F19) Left Me for Someone Else and Called Me a 'Shitty' Partner. How Can I Move On?
TL;DR: My (M19) girlfriend (F19) broke up with me a month ago for another guy. We were together for about two years with some breakups in between. She recently told me I was a "pretty shitty" partner, even though I felt I was trying my best. I'm heartbroken and confused, especially since she seems happy with her new partner. Any advice on how to move on from this would be greatly appreciated.
My (M19) Girlfriend (F19) broke up with me for another guy about a month ago. We were together for just over a year, briefly broke up, got back together for a few months, broke up again, and then rekindled things for the ladder half of our first years of university before she ended things fully. This all happened over about 2 years. I had had a brief and insignificant relationship before, bur she was effectively my first, as I was hers. I was crazy about her, and can confidently say I was fully in love, and it seemed like she was too at times.
She fully ended our relationship about a month ago over text, and a week later informed me that she had found a new parter. We have been on good terms since then. We have several mutual friends and had seen each other in groups a couple times, and our relationship was cordial, no bad blood either way. I hadn’t spoken to her 1 on 1 since, but earlier tonight I phoned her.
Basically, I had been quite upset about the breakup and it wasn’t getting easier, so I decided to tell her that I missed her, and suggested that she give me another shot if things didn’t work out with her new partner (as respectfully as possible to her and her partner). I figured that I would be able to move on easier knowing I had at least taken some action to possibly get her back eventually.
During the conversation, she stated that I was “pretty shitty” to her throughout our relationship as a reason for leaving me. The problem is not only that I lost the girl I love, but that I was actually trying during our time together, and have fond memories of it - but she tells me I was a shit partner. I am absolutely distraught. Like I said earlier, we broke up three times, and she came back after the first two which adds another layer of confusion. I was her first parter, and now she has someone else who she seems very happy with, so it seems my chances of getting her back are near zero.
I guess my question is simply, how should I proceed? I don’t know what to think. I know I wasn’t the perfect partner, but I did try, and to hear that she thinks I was basically a piece of shit has left me shattered. Any advice would be so appreciated, this is quite possibly the low point of my life.
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My (M19) Girlfriend (F19) broke up with me for another guy about a month ago. We were together for just over a year, briefly broke up, got back together for a few months, broke up again, and then rekindled things for the ladder half of our first years of university before she ended things fully. This all happened over about 2 years. I had had a brief and insignificant relationship before, bur she was effectively my first, as I was hers. I was crazy about her, and can confidently say I was fully in love, and it seemed like she was too at times.
She fully ended our relationship about a month ago over text, and a week later informed me that she had found a new parter. We have been on good terms since then. We have several mutual friends and had seen each other in groups a couple times, and our relationship was cordial, no bad blood either way. I hadn’t spoken to her 1 on 1 since, but earlier tonight I phoned her.
Basically, I had been quite upset about the breakup and it wasn’t getting easier, so I decided to tell her that I missed her, and suggested that she give me another shot if things didn’t work out with her new partner (as respectfully as possible to her and her partner). I figured that I would be able to move on easier knowing I had at least taken some action to possibly get her back eventually.
During the conversation, she stated that I was “pretty shitty” to her throughout our relationship as a reason for leaving me. The problem is not only that I lost the girl I love, but that I was actually trying during our time together, and have fond memories of it - but she tells me I was a shit partner. I am absolutely distraught. Like I said earlier, we broke up three times, and she came back after the first two which adds another layer of confusion. I was her first parter, and now she has someone else who she seems very happy with, so it seems my chances of getting her back are near zero.
I guess my question is simply, how should I proceed? I don’t know what to think. I know I wasn’t the perfect partner, but I did try, and to hear that she thinks I was basically a piece of shit has left me shattered. Any advice would be so appreciated, this is quite possibly the low point of my life.
2024.05.15 09:01 Shex_Zana I want to know why.
When you can’t afford therapy you come to reddit 🤷♀️
Jokes aside I really want to know why I feel the way I do. I used to like a girl for a while, she was physically my type and the personality had its ons and offs. We were going good for a while and kind of being close friends until shit went downhill for some casual reasons nothing too serious. The last string for me was something she did was along the lines of petty theft kinds (she bought me something that id pay back for lets say it cost 5$ she made me pay her back 25$) the money itself does NOT matter to me its what she did. I didn’t appreciate being ripped off but I also try to consider she is a girl and they get emotional and do stupid things sometimes. Basically it led to us falling apart, no big fight just going our respective ways. Heres what really fucking bothers me. SHES IN THE BACK OF MY HEAD LIKE 70% of the day. Sure she had her sweet moments and I liked her looks but I do not feel any strong love or lust for her so I just want to know why the fuck is she in my mind rent freeee. I even got in a rs after that (while the rs was going good i honestly forgot about her and I was giving the girl my all but then we broke up due to some toxicity and incompatibility) but then she comes back to my mind like that? Like I want to know what it is and if I could move on or if it’s something stuck how do I deal with it? Im like 24yo M feel free to ask any question. Would appreciate any insight.
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Jokes aside I really want to know why I feel the way I do. I used to like a girl for a while, she was physically my type and the personality had its ons and offs. We were going good for a while and kind of being close friends until shit went downhill for some casual reasons nothing too serious. The last string for me was something she did was along the lines of petty theft kinds (she bought me something that id pay back for lets say it cost 5$ she made me pay her back 25$) the money itself does NOT matter to me its what she did. I didn’t appreciate being ripped off but I also try to consider she is a girl and they get emotional and do stupid things sometimes. Basically it led to us falling apart, no big fight just going our respective ways. Heres what really fucking bothers me. SHES IN THE BACK OF MY HEAD LIKE 70% of the day. Sure she had her sweet moments and I liked her looks but I do not feel any strong love or lust for her so I just want to know why the fuck is she in my mind rent freeee. I even got in a rs after that (while the rs was going good i honestly forgot about her and I was giving the girl my all but then we broke up due to some toxicity and incompatibility) but then she comes back to my mind like that? Like I want to know what it is and if I could move on or if it’s something stuck how do I deal with it? Im like 24yo M feel free to ask any question. Would appreciate any insight.
2024.05.15 09:00 mad87645 I got flirted with by 3 "taken" women in the same night and now I'm confused
So this happened a few days ago on Sat night/early Sun morning. I know people are going to dismiss it as being untrue but I promise it's 100% true and factual to the best of what I can recall despite being on MDMA at the time.
On Saturday night I went out by myself to a drum n bass rave. I'm a single guy in my early 30s so since I was heading out I made sure I was dressed up in case I met someone. My flirting style is kinda casual I guess, in the sense that I like to start out friendly to see what sort of vibe I get and then go from there, being ready to match it if she gets flirtier back.
So I get there probably 30 mins before the headliner starts. So there's 2 local dj's on first, then the headliner, then 2 more local dj's to close out the night. I wiggle my way through the crowd and find a spot on the floor to dance.
So first girl: This group of 3 girls ended up standing behind me so I turned around and motioned them all a "hi". One girl gave me a much stronger reaction than the other 2 so we started having some fun. Talking a little about the headliner coming up, fist bumps, dance moves, side hugs, stupid little things like that. She had this paper fan so I got her to fan air over my face, then she gave my beard a stroke. I thought things were going well. Then at one point I turn around and she's in the middle of a conversation with some guy that's literally popped up out of nowhere, and I mean like they were properly trying to hash something out, not even a little like "hi how's it going" like we were doing. So I come to the conclusion that she's got a boyfriend I somehow missed and distanced myself a little. Questions of loyalty aside, I don't intend to get my ass kicked over a girl, nor do I like starting arguments between people, so I opted to let that one go.
Second girl: Probably 30-45 mins later, after the headliner had come out (first girl having not left the other dude's side the whole time still talking about whatever they were talking about). I'm dancing and vibing and enjoying myself, now front and centre on the dance floor. This new girl ends up off to my side so I say hi and we start the whole thing again, more silly dance moves and such. At one point a spot opens up right at the front so she grabs my wrist and walks us up. We talk a little more and hug again. Then at one point she looks at her phone for a sec, and then maybe a minute later a dude appears behinds us and she tells me "this is my husband." I'm kinda shittin myself at that point and just say "nice to meet you" and hoped he didn't see me just dance with and hug his wife, but he seemed cool so once again I distanced myself and let them be.
Third girl: And this is the one that confuses me the most because not only did I not even try and hit on her, the revelation of her having a boyfriend came even quicker than the other 2 and she still hung around. So now the headliners gone and it's about halfway through the local dj's sets to close. I'm now at the back to keep some space between me and the other girls. I literally turned around and this new girl is standing next to me. She says hi first and starts asking me about DNB (apparently she'd never been). We chat for a bit and she asks for my name. Then she dips out for a second and when I spot her again she's off to the side talking to some dude that's absolutely plastered and can't stand up without swaying. Initially I didn't even think much of it since I didn't even try to flirt with her, until she came back. When she did she slid right up next to me and said "I came back because I wanted to see you again" in a tone of voice that I can only describe as "being in love" (not even sexily/flirtatiously, like I mean in those 5 minutes she went through falling in love, breaking up and getting back together) and started dancing with me, I obliged but sort of err'd on the side of caution given how my night had gone. Then she did that 2 more times, dipped away to check on/talk with her very intoxicated boyfriend then came back to dance/talk/stare at me like I was going to resolve all her problems. Then half an hour before the club closed she dipped for a final time and I didn't see them again, so I assumed they left. But then as the club closed and I'm walking out guess who's standing outside by the top of the stairs, the girl and her bf. She yelps out my name and runs over to give me a hug and tries to stutter something out for like 10 seconds but just says "it was lovely to meet you" (lovely being the exact word, I'd probably not have paid that any attention if it weren't for everything else). I just said likewise and said my goodbyes to them and skidaddled out of there.
So what I'm confused about is what are the odds that I get flirted with by taken women 3 times in the same night? It happening once or me trying to flirt with 3 different women only to be told straight away they're taken I wouldn't have thought much of it, but this? It confuses me because I'm genuinely not sure if I just hit some astronomical odds to meet 3 cheaters/serial flirts/open relationships/cuckholds in a row or my approach is just that bad (or good? is that a good thing? idk anymore) that I made it happen? I'm interested in hearing what you all think even if you think this post is stupid and fake so please let me know.
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On Saturday night I went out by myself to a drum n bass rave. I'm a single guy in my early 30s so since I was heading out I made sure I was dressed up in case I met someone. My flirting style is kinda casual I guess, in the sense that I like to start out friendly to see what sort of vibe I get and then go from there, being ready to match it if she gets flirtier back.
So I get there probably 30 mins before the headliner starts. So there's 2 local dj's on first, then the headliner, then 2 more local dj's to close out the night. I wiggle my way through the crowd and find a spot on the floor to dance.
So first girl: This group of 3 girls ended up standing behind me so I turned around and motioned them all a "hi". One girl gave me a much stronger reaction than the other 2 so we started having some fun. Talking a little about the headliner coming up, fist bumps, dance moves, side hugs, stupid little things like that. She had this paper fan so I got her to fan air over my face, then she gave my beard a stroke. I thought things were going well. Then at one point I turn around and she's in the middle of a conversation with some guy that's literally popped up out of nowhere, and I mean like they were properly trying to hash something out, not even a little like "hi how's it going" like we were doing. So I come to the conclusion that she's got a boyfriend I somehow missed and distanced myself a little. Questions of loyalty aside, I don't intend to get my ass kicked over a girl, nor do I like starting arguments between people, so I opted to let that one go.
Second girl: Probably 30-45 mins later, after the headliner had come out (first girl having not left the other dude's side the whole time still talking about whatever they were talking about). I'm dancing and vibing and enjoying myself, now front and centre on the dance floor. This new girl ends up off to my side so I say hi and we start the whole thing again, more silly dance moves and such. At one point a spot opens up right at the front so she grabs my wrist and walks us up. We talk a little more and hug again. Then at one point she looks at her phone for a sec, and then maybe a minute later a dude appears behinds us and she tells me "this is my husband." I'm kinda shittin myself at that point and just say "nice to meet you" and hoped he didn't see me just dance with and hug his wife, but he seemed cool so once again I distanced myself and let them be.
Third girl: And this is the one that confuses me the most because not only did I not even try and hit on her, the revelation of her having a boyfriend came even quicker than the other 2 and she still hung around. So now the headliners gone and it's about halfway through the local dj's sets to close. I'm now at the back to keep some space between me and the other girls. I literally turned around and this new girl is standing next to me. She says hi first and starts asking me about DNB (apparently she'd never been). We chat for a bit and she asks for my name. Then she dips out for a second and when I spot her again she's off to the side talking to some dude that's absolutely plastered and can't stand up without swaying. Initially I didn't even think much of it since I didn't even try to flirt with her, until she came back. When she did she slid right up next to me and said "I came back because I wanted to see you again" in a tone of voice that I can only describe as "being in love" (not even sexily/flirtatiously, like I mean in those 5 minutes she went through falling in love, breaking up and getting back together) and started dancing with me, I obliged but sort of err'd on the side of caution given how my night had gone. Then she did that 2 more times, dipped away to check on/talk with her very intoxicated boyfriend then came back to dance/talk/stare at me like I was going to resolve all her problems. Then half an hour before the club closed she dipped for a final time and I didn't see them again, so I assumed they left. But then as the club closed and I'm walking out guess who's standing outside by the top of the stairs, the girl and her bf. She yelps out my name and runs over to give me a hug and tries to stutter something out for like 10 seconds but just says "it was lovely to meet you" (lovely being the exact word, I'd probably not have paid that any attention if it weren't for everything else). I just said likewise and said my goodbyes to them and skidaddled out of there.
So what I'm confused about is what are the odds that I get flirted with by taken women 3 times in the same night? It happening once or me trying to flirt with 3 different women only to be told straight away they're taken I wouldn't have thought much of it, but this? It confuses me because I'm genuinely not sure if I just hit some astronomical odds to meet 3 cheaters/serial flirts/open relationships/cuckholds in a row or my approach is just that bad (or good? is that a good thing? idk anymore) that I made it happen? I'm interested in hearing what you all think even if you think this post is stupid and fake so please let me know.
2024.05.15 09:00 Accomplished-Gur1888 AITAH for telling my husband he needed to kick his brother out of my house?
I(25F) have found myself in a situation where I am not sure what to do. My husband (35M) and I have only been married for a year and I half. When I was 8 months pregnant, my brother in law (29 years old) moved in with us because he had nowhere to go. When we said he could move in, we made it clear that this would not be a permanent thing, that he needed to work on saving money, and be willing to help out around the house. We set ground rules as well: no drugs, ask before having your girlfriend over.
We are in month 9 of him living with us and I have had to beg numerous times for him to clean up after himself. I am a SAHM to my 6 1/2 month old and already clean up after her, my husband and 3 dogs. He uses our guest room and guest bathroom and they are constantly trashed. The girl he was dating when he started living with us, (we’ll call her L), he would always bring over without talking to us and it would turn into having her stay the night. I liked L, she was always super respectful so I brushed it off but I feel like he still should’ve asked. 3 weeks ago he broke up with L after cheating on her with his ex multiple times. We’ll call the ex C
Now C was terrible. She would use him, cheat on him, left him homeless and was an all around terrible influence. Since getting back with his C he is out all night partying. Yesterday I heard from L who reached out and told me my BIL had been doing Cocaine with C when they would go out. It was confirmed by my BIL’s best friend. I told my husband what I had heard and he brushed it off like it didn’t matter, said L was hurt and it couldn’t be true. I went out and bought a drug test and when my husband and BIL got home I had my husband talk to him. The immediate denial came and he said I was being crazy. He tested positive for cocaine and my husband and MIL just think I’m out to get my BIL.
I’m not sure what to do because my husband seems to think it’s not a big deal. I told him I want my BIL taking weekly drug tests and that this is not okay. My husband immediately shut that down and said no, not happening. He refuses to believe it. My daughter is in the phase where she is starting to put things in her mouth and is about to start crawling. She currently rolls to get places and this isn’t an environment I want her in.
Since my husband said no to the drug tests they’ve just been acting like nothing happened and that it doesn’t matter. I don’t know what to do.
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We are in month 9 of him living with us and I have had to beg numerous times for him to clean up after himself. I am a SAHM to my 6 1/2 month old and already clean up after her, my husband and 3 dogs. He uses our guest room and guest bathroom and they are constantly trashed. The girl he was dating when he started living with us, (we’ll call her L), he would always bring over without talking to us and it would turn into having her stay the night. I liked L, she was always super respectful so I brushed it off but I feel like he still should’ve asked. 3 weeks ago he broke up with L after cheating on her with his ex multiple times. We’ll call the ex C
Now C was terrible. She would use him, cheat on him, left him homeless and was an all around terrible influence. Since getting back with his C he is out all night partying. Yesterday I heard from L who reached out and told me my BIL had been doing Cocaine with C when they would go out. It was confirmed by my BIL’s best friend. I told my husband what I had heard and he brushed it off like it didn’t matter, said L was hurt and it couldn’t be true. I went out and bought a drug test and when my husband and BIL got home I had my husband talk to him. The immediate denial came and he said I was being crazy. He tested positive for cocaine and my husband and MIL just think I’m out to get my BIL.
I’m not sure what to do because my husband seems to think it’s not a big deal. I told him I want my BIL taking weekly drug tests and that this is not okay. My husband immediately shut that down and said no, not happening. He refuses to believe it. My daughter is in the phase where she is starting to put things in her mouth and is about to start crawling. She currently rolls to get places and this isn’t an environment I want her in.
Since my husband said no to the drug tests they’ve just been acting like nothing happened and that it doesn’t matter. I don’t know what to do.
2024.05.15 09:00 Jeremy_Lepak I’m running out…
My wife has major BPD and schizoaffective symptoms as well. She’s done SO MUCH for me. TONS of new ideas for me (I’m an entertainer), we have a beautiful apartment and a wonderful dog, bought me a couple guitars, overall is pretty loving for the most part.
As of late, she is hitting severe mental health problems again. She is sleeping next to me as I type this. She is drunk and she slashed up BOTH her forearms and her chest area. She needs to get admitted for the 3rd time I’ve been with her (4 years).
Will this ever get better? Her mom had some issues in the past, but she outgrew them and is a loving mother with mental stability now.
I’m torn up right now as she’s peacefully sleeping. Everything I know right now is what her and I created. This is generally a lovely home life. She’s usually very sweet. Far more than her woes.
At the same time, I’m running on fumes.
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As of late, she is hitting severe mental health problems again. She is sleeping next to me as I type this. She is drunk and she slashed up BOTH her forearms and her chest area. She needs to get admitted for the 3rd time I’ve been with her (4 years).
Will this ever get better? Her mom had some issues in the past, but she outgrew them and is a loving mother with mental stability now.
I’m torn up right now as she’s peacefully sleeping. Everything I know right now is what her and I created. This is generally a lovely home life. She’s usually very sweet. Far more than her woes.
At the same time, I’m running on fumes.
2024.05.15 08:59 OptimisticOtterz 19M. End of the road?
I apologize if I do not meet the requirements of posting on here, as I am not in imminent distress(I do not self harm and do not plan on ending my life right now. I am scared of pain)
At 19 I feel like the world is collapsing around me, and I don’t feel the need to be alive. I wish I did not feel this way. I would like to dive into each aspect of my life so people know why I feel the way I do. I just need support or someone to talk to. Please do not judge.
My relationship: My relationship is rocky, and very complicated. I’ve tried breaking up in the past, but it only leads to anger on her part and an unwillingness to understand my point of view. She struggles with many mental health issues but I love her even so. I just don’t know what to do. I feel trapped. If I tell her how I feel, it always seems to backfire and be my fault.
Family relationships: My single mom is depressed as she tells me daily. My father has been abusive and is still harassing my mother. I luckily have not seen him since I was 18. He had left me and my mom homeless, but we had gotten back on our feet after years of harassment and physical abuse.
School: I don’t know what I want to do with my life. I’m currently enrolled to get a BS in Econ with a minor in psych from a small public university. I’m struggling with grades and it has been difficult for me to even pass my basic macro/micro courses. I thought I had a passion for consumer studies, but I’m second guessing my interests.
Friendships: Everyone has left me since high school has ended. I’m so lonely. I have one friend right now but it’s not like how it was in the past. Everyone has moved on. I used to be track+soccer captain and lead musical cast and business leader president, but nobody even says hi anymore. I’m burnt out trying to talk to anybody. I deleted my social media accounts that had hundreds of thousands of followers because I had thought they were cringy, and there was no point to any of it.
Routines: It’s summer now. I get up. Help around the house. And play video games. Ever since college has started I’ve been struggling with anxiety and depression. I take pills often now to cope. I’ve obtained a horrible p*rn addiction, and it’s been ongoing for a year or two now. I feel empty inside and full of lust. I don’t go out of the house anymore and have been experiencing a lot of body pains. I’m a small built guy, but I’m gaining weight since I have nobody to do anything with. My girlfriend calls me constantly and we hangout occasionally, but I hardly enjoy it. I don’t feel productive and I feel like I’m wasting my life.
2024.05.15 08:57 Asleep-Mycologist333 Clash of Kings v9.19.0 MOD APK (Unlimited Gold, Resources)
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👆👆👆👆Download Link👆👆👆👆 https://t.me/official_modyolo HISTORICAL CIVILIZATIONSClash of Kings begins by showing players a battle in a kingdom’s citadel, and with the context they see, they also know the future of this kingdom. The dragon appears to mark the end of a dynasty, and the soldiers destroy the wall to occupy it. From now on, you will be the new owner of the castle and build for yourself a larger and more developed kingdom than before. For war reasons, you cannot reuse buildings that were built by the previous dynasty. In other words, you will start everything from scratch.
KINGDOM BUILDINGCollecting resources in strategy games is absolutely necessary, especially with Clash of Kings. Players will find different resources, and the amount you are holding can absolutely be used for a period of time, but you should also have a strategy to continue increasing it. Therefore, buildings for collecting resources will be created so that you can let the people in the city collect them, and you will be the one to decide what to use what you have. Build other buildings, train troops, or upgrade existing things to take advantage of the benefits they bring.
EPIC BATTLESOne kingdom was destroyed, and a new one was built, so you can see there are many empty areas you need to fill. These empty areas are usually reserved for new things to be built later, so you can absolutely add anything you want as long as it qualifies. For example, barracks are often a place for you to create strong warriors suitable for conquests. You will spend resources to train these troops, and if the barrack level is higher, the training efficiency will improve, and even new troops will appear. Therefore, building and upgrading is always a process that receives a lot of attention and is carried out almost continuously.
TACTICAL GAMEPLAYDuring the construction process, if you don’t know what you should do next, do what the mission instructions say. Quests are definitely indispensable as they guide your growth and you can get additional rewards from them. At the same time, the requirements are completely diverse and spread across all aspects of a kingdom so you will not get bored and will try to find every way to gradually perfect it. Completing missions will often coincide with the player’s development goals, and seeing what they own develop is always something that motivates players.
STUNNING GRAPHICSIt can be seen that soldiers can be trained from barracks but the generals are not like that. Some heroes need to be recruited in different ways, and during the game, some unexpected things may happen. The surprise comes from the fact that some soldiers and generals will come from different regions and join your kingdom if your good reputation spreads. Therefore, you will be motivated in building the kingdom and once you have a strong army, battles will no longer be a threat to you. In the mythical world of Clash of Kings, dragons are a power that you should try to take advantage of.
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2024.05.15 08:57 Cheesy-Tube Chapter 2 is now ready with an image attached
 | Chapter 2 - Scouting and Selection submitted by Cheesy-Tube to httyd [link] [comments] On the ships, the vikings had reached the foggy place they went to before, in the previously failed attempt to take the nest the previous time. And while Stoick looked out on the blinded horizon, he would call out orders until he was approached by another viking. Phlegma: “Erm, Stoick?” Stoick: “What is it Phlegma?…” Phlegma: “Is everything alright?… You’ve had your nose incredibly out of joint after what Hiccup revealed and now this?… Is there any reason to it at all?” Stoick: “The plan is simple Phlegma… Find the nest, destroy it and kill the dragons off…” Phlegma: “I know but why attack now? It doesn’t seem… You know… Quite as planned out as the last few times we did this…” Stoick: “Why are you questioning me about this?” Phlegma: “You’ve hardly said a word besides barking orders at us, even Spitelout is getting concerned…” He just ignores her, and continues to stare out into the fog. Phlegma: “Did something else happen with Hiccup?…” Stoick: “Don’t ever mention his name again…” Phlegma: “What? Why?…” Stoick: “He’s nothing to do with me anymore…” Another viking on his ship who hears this, then approaches Stoick with a question. Hoark: “Stoick?… Did you disown your boy?… Over this?…” Stoick: “Well I’m not holding a banner about it but yes… He sided with the dragons and now my credibility here is just about ruined…” Spitelout: “Well good riddance I say, that kid’s been nothing but trouble, I just hope he hasn’t influenced my boy-o to do something similar.” Phlegma: “Hey! Don’t you start Spitelout, or I’ll toss you overboard!” Stoick: “Everyone shut up! This isn’t helping… Just get back to the search.” He barked out as everyone with disapproving, tense or frightened looks continue to manage their posts. Avoiding sea stacks, and keeping an eye out for any dragons that would try to approach. Meanwhile back on Berk, Hiccup and Astrid reach the arena, eyeing off a cage thinking about the dragon that would suit her best, as well as trying to look for Toothless. Astrid: “This is… Definitely crazy…” Hiccup: “Like I said earlier Astrid, crazy is what we do best here.” They then hears footsteps approaching, which Hiccup didn’t anticipate since everyone else had left the island. After a few seconds they stop, and as they turn around to look who it was, they see the other four dragon training students. One of them, Fishlegs, then starts to speak. Fishlegs: “If you’re planning on getting eaten, I’d definitely go with the Gronckle." Astrid: “What are you guys doing here? And why would you say something like that Fishlegs?” Fishlegs: “Sorry… Group anger makes me nervous and I’m just trying to fit in with it…” Hiccup: “Save your breath… It’s not like you’ll be using it much to curse me out anyway…” Snotlout: “What even are you planning?” Hiccup: “Self imposed exile… It’s better off this way given the circumstances, and don’t you guys try and talk me out of it… There’s nothing left for me here on Berk, I’m essentially just another mouth to feed and I’ve just eaten my last morsel…” Fishlegs: “Hiccup, I know what I said earlier may have come off as harsh, but we’re not here to ridicule you.” Hiccup: “You aren’t?” Tuffnut: “We aren’t?” Fishlegs: “Of course not guys, we talked about this earlier?” Ruffnut: “Oh right, we just tune out a lot of the time.” Snotlout: “Ugh… You two…” Fishlegs: “Anyway we’re here because we want to come with you both.” Hiccup: “Wait, what!?” Astrid: “And how do you know I’m going with him?” She asks in shock, as Snotlout then points to her basket of assorted items. Snotlout: “We figured it out as soon as you ran out of the house with that basket.” Fishlegs: “And after what we saw you attempt to do today, we connected the dots with the previous lessons we all had.” Hiccup: So… You knew?…” Fishlegs: “Yes.” Hiccup: “And you’re not upset at this? You don’t think I’m a traitor?” Fishlegs: “Absolutely not.” Snotlout: “Not really.” Ruffnut: “I’m actually very impressed by this.” Tuffnut: “I’m still slightly confused but it seems everyone’s in agreement with you here so, I’m with you little dude.” Hiccup: “Guys… I- I don’t know what to say…” Astrid: “Well you can start with what your plan is for us to leave here.” Hiccup: “Good point, but what I need to do first is find Toothless.” After he explains this, he hears Toothless’s trademark roar in a cage next to the Gronckle’s, and saw a flash of purple underneath the door. Deducing his best friend was locked up in there, he approaches the cage, opens the door and in a flash ends up on the floor with the Night Fury licking his face. Hiccup: “Aaahhhh! Agh, hey, I’m glad to see you too bud! It’ll be okay now that you’re out of there.” Toothless ends his lick barrage and lets out a purr, before seeing Astrid, and smiling at her. Eventually turning to the rest of the teenagers with a snarl, and charging up a fireball until Hiccup intervenes. Hiccup: Whoa, whoa, Toothless, Stand down! They’re not going to hurt you. The dragon then lets the fireball dissipate in his mouth, after letting out a cough and continues to stare at them. Fishlegs: “Oooh! A Night Fury! I never dreamed I’d see one in the flesh!” Tuffnut: “Um… What happened to his tail?” Hiccup: “Oh, er… Well you guys remember when I said to my father that I shot down a Night Fury and none of call believed me?…” They all nod with scattered ‘yes’s and ‘uh-huh’s after he asks this. Hiccup: “Well that was the result of it…” Fishlegs: “And did you make that artificial one for him?” Hiccup: “Yes, because otherwise he wouldn’t be able to fly.” Snotlout: "Oh great, not just great, perfect even. The dragon lover has hurt one of his closest friends.” Astrid: “This was before he and Toothless became friends” Tuffnut: “Why does he call him Toothless? All dragons have sharp teeth.” Hiccup: “Show ‘em bud.” Toothless then demonstrates to them all his retractable teeth, forcing them into his jaw and allowing the group to admire it for a while, before unsheathing them again. Hiccup: “That is why.” Ruffnut: “That’s incredible! I’m very impressed Hiccup~” She responds in a strangely flirty tone, causing Hiccup to become nervous and Astrid to stare her down. Fishlegs: “So… Um… How do we get our own dragons?” Hiccup: “I’ll show you, just do as I tell you, and you could very well make a fire-breathing friend for life.” He begins to explain with a more confident smile, as he approaches the Deadly Nadder’s cage, and opens it. Back with the boats, Stoick’s crew ends up becoming more despondent as after a considerable amount of time they still don’t end up closer to the nest. Assuming they merely went in circles, he then orders the ships to split up and take other paths, causing more confusion in the soldiers. Stoick: “I don’t care if you don’t like it, I’m the chief, and my way goes!” Spitelout: “Stoick, we’ve done this once before and we never return with a full crew afterwards!” Stoick: “Oh would you like to be running this particular mission?” Spitelout: “I’m just pointing out that maybe-” Stoick: “Well you’ll have time to point things out when we get there, now keep your positions!” He goes back to eyeing out the fog, while Spitelout angrily informs the rowers to keep moving, and orders two ships to split from the main group and row further to the starboard side. Back at the arena, and Hiccup gently coaxes the last dragon to exit his cage, the Monstrous Nightmare. Hiccup: “It’s okay… We’ve done this once before big guy.” He leads him further out into the arena. Even though the teens had already seen him doing this with the Gronckle, the Zippleback and the Nadder, they still watch on in awe. Hiccup, then having lead the Monstrous Nightmare out, then leads him to Snotlout. Snotlout: “Wait! What are you-!?” Hiccup: “Whoa, just relax… It’s okay, It’s okay.” He replies to both Snotlout and the dragon, as he grabs Snotlout’s hand. Putting it gently on the Monstrous Nightmare’s nose, causing the dragon to purr, and Snotlout to have a small giggle in disbelief. Snotlout: “Okay, this is amazing! Hey, where are you going Hiccup?” Hiccup: “Well, you’re all going to need something to help you hold on for a while, because we’re going to be riding these guys, to find ourselves a new home. Now there has to be some rope in here somewhere…” He begins to look through the munitions trough, then hearing a voice by the gate calling out to them all. Gobber: “Actually Hiccup, you could make them their own saddles, you have the time after all.” Hiccup: “Gobber? How did you know about that? And why are you not with the rest of the village?” Gobber: “I heard there was a slight tiff between you and your father, and wanted to at least try and help you out.” Hiccup: “Well that’s an understatement… As far as he’s concerned he’s not even my father anymore…” Gobber: “So I heard, and that was wrong, so I didn’t join him on his insanely deadly mission. What I will do though is help you kids out, so what can I start with?” Hiccup: “Well if you insist Gobber, and we’re going to need measurements for everybody and their new dragons. Just to make sure we have enough material to make the saddles, and ensure they don’t come off while we’re flying.” Gobber: “Righty-ho, I’ll see if I can find the tape measure!” He replies with determination, as he and Hiccup rush off to the smithy to get the saddles ready, while the rest of the teens acquaint themselves with their new dragons. Tuffnut: “I still don’t get why we have to share one…” Astrid: “Because all the other dragons have been taken by the rest of us.” Fishlegs: “Plus, among certain disciplines you guys work far better together, instead of apart.” Ruffnut: “No denying that!~” Fishlegs: “The Zippleback is much the same way, and with you guys sharing him, it would be far easier for things like rescue missions, search and seize-” Tuffnut: “Ultimate destruction?” Fishlegs: “What!? No!-” Snotlout: “Leave it Fishface, they’re already engrained in it…” An exasperated sigh escapes Fishlegs’s mouth, as he, Snotlout and Astrid are forced to watch this spectacle go on. Hiccup meanwhile, ends up having another heart-to-heart with Gobber. Gobber: “So how long has this thing with dragons been going on?” Hiccup: “Er… Sort of on and off since the early morning, raid months ago.” Gobber: “When you said you hit a Night Fury?” Hiccup: Yeah… Anyway it turned out you and everyone else were right… I’m not a dragon killer… Not even a proper viking in their eyes… But what I became, was something more valuable. A dragon trainer.” Gobber: “Dragon trainer?” Hiccup: “Understanding their ins and outs, gaining trust with tossing away weapons and feeding them fish, and in Toothless’s case, helping him regain his ability to fly.” Gobber: “That’s quite the achievement.” Hiccup: “Heh, you must be the only adult here that thinks that… Everyone else had kind of deemed me as an outcast… No one looks in my direction just like they used to before all this, and now even my dad doesn’t want a bar of me…” Gobber: “Hiccup… I know you’re going through a rough time at the moment, but is this really the way to go?… You’ve got an entire lifetime laid out ahead of you lad. And I-” Hiccup: “What life?… It honestly feels like I’m no longer welcome here by anyone, especially my own father… I’ve mentioned to you before that he doesn’t listen to me… I just wish for once he would realise that I could have valuable insight into all this stuff about Berk, vikings and the dragons, but he’s just too… Stubborn and set in his ways…” Hearing this soliloquy, Gobber simply sighs and puts his hand on Hiccup’s shoulder. Gobber: “I’m sure things will turn around for you soon Hiccup… In the meantime at least you’ll have your friends around you… Speaking of which, we should make a start on their saddles, shouldn’t we?” Hiccup: “Yep, you’re right Gobber, now let’s get that forge lit-” Not realising Toothless had followed them there, he lets out a plasma blast reigniting the coals. Giving Gobber a surprised gasp, but Hiccup looks over at the both of them with confusing before turning into amusement. Hiccup: “Just so you know Toothless, you didn’t have to do that, because you’re not a tool, but thanks.” He replies to his best bud as he sets some old discarded metal on top of the hot coals, and begins pressing on the bellows. After some time, they arrive back at the arena with the finished saddles. And after putting them onto the dragons, get ready to set off. Hiccup: “Well I guess this is it Gobber, I’ll make sure to write every so often.” Gobber: “Och, I have faith in ye, lad. Don’t ye worry” Snotlout: “Yeah, but it’s going to be ages before the mail arrives at either location.” Hiccup: “But it won’t have to” He replies to Snotlout with a grin, as he unleashes another secret weapon, in the form of a Terrible Terror with a cylindrical container loosely tied around his neck. Snotlout: “Whoa!” Tuffnut: “What the-?” Fishlegs: “Wow.” Hiccup: “Gang, this here is Messenger. He’s going to be part of our new mail delivery service, or Terror mail as I like to call it” Gobber: “Terror Mail?” Hiccup: “Yep, this little tube around his neck, will be used to store telegrams and all sorts of written documents, and transport them to the recipient carefully without getting dropped, drenched, or torched” Astrid: “And what if Stoick were to see him arriving on or leaving Berk?” Hiccup: “Honestly, I can’t even try think about it… But that’s why Gobber when he arrives with anything, you are to keep him in the shop, hidden up in the back corners so no-one discovers him.” Gobber: “Er… Righty-ho, I’ll do my best…” Hiccup: “Good, ready to fly gang?” Teens: “Yes!” Hiccup: “Alright, now hold tight.” He informs them as he sets his leg into Toothless’s mechanical stirrups. Hiccup: “Let’s go bud.” With a mighty roar, Toothless rushes upwards into the air, the rest of the teens follow suit. Astrid taking the position directly behind Toothless and Hiccup, Snotlout close behind them, the twins slightly lagging due to another argument, and Fishlegs pulling up the rear with his Gronckle. Gobber watches them fly off, giving them a send off wave as he heads back to the blacksmith stall. And that's the last teaser I put out, the rest will be on Wattpad https://preview.redd.it/19yin686gj0d1.jpg?width=787&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f7618d0eed0a2586ac4998d507c32f0df171350b |
2024.05.15 08:56 BoiYeager I feel at peace this time to do it
Hi, I’m not sure how exactly to go about this but. I made some very fucked up choices to someone I loved deeply. I cheated on my ex from time to time in our relationship and questioned why but kept going about it. Caused our breakup with her finding out. I don’t have an answer besides stupidity because I very much wanted to spend my life with her. After the break up I wanted to better myself for us, for her. To be the man she deserves. A couple of things have gone on during our “maybe we can work things out” process but ultimately she moved on which I found out recently and started dating one of my friends. It’s been a lot for me to go through on losing her, especially more so after tonight we said our final goodbyes and had our final conversation. I won’t ever find someone who loved me the way she did nor that I will ever connect to in that way. It’s my fuck ups that causes it and I know that. Some people would probably say it’s a good thing I do and I kind of agree.
I also took on a new job and that’s also been messing me up pretty good. My ex was my motivation for getting into it and my why for going in everyday. When we first broke up I had a failed attempt and it scared me about going back to it. This time though. Knowing there really is no second chance on getting back. With the stress of my job. Being isolated from friends and family since I’ve moved halfway across the country. I’m finally coming to terms and finding peace in going ahead and moving on from this life. I’m gonna stay up for a bit to just. Do what I need to do to prep and make sure family has access to all my stuff.
All I can say is. Please cherish those people you love and who love you and really do good by them. Don’t be an idiot like me and take shit for granted. Much love to everyone who’s dealing with tough times. I might not have been able to fight past it but maybe you can. At least you have to try.
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I also took on a new job and that’s also been messing me up pretty good. My ex was my motivation for getting into it and my why for going in everyday. When we first broke up I had a failed attempt and it scared me about going back to it. This time though. Knowing there really is no second chance on getting back. With the stress of my job. Being isolated from friends and family since I’ve moved halfway across the country. I’m finally coming to terms and finding peace in going ahead and moving on from this life. I’m gonna stay up for a bit to just. Do what I need to do to prep and make sure family has access to all my stuff.
All I can say is. Please cherish those people you love and who love you and really do good by them. Don’t be an idiot like me and take shit for granted. Much love to everyone who’s dealing with tough times. I might not have been able to fight past it but maybe you can. At least you have to try.
2024.05.15 08:56 No-Cod-2553 AITA, for moving on from my old gf so soon?
But if backstory, we’ve been dating for around 8-10 months (idk exactly cause it was on and off) but by the end of it I found out that she was cheating on me. So that all happened and it was shitty, fyi I’m not a person who can hate another person, I just rlly can’t. But anyway I asked her if she was, and she said ‘you upset’ in a really taunting tone which is the worst part about it. But I have found a girl who I rlly enjoy talk to and she has a lot of the same interest as me, so I’ve been talking to her over the last like 5ish days. Anyway, so me and the girl who cheated on me were talking, I was trying to find out why she did it so I can have some closure. She said that she didn’t want to hurt me more than she has already. But I got with the new girl yesterday and it’s going good. But there’s a part of me that thinks I still might be the asshole, AITA
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2024.05.15 08:56 Hennythingoes My mom has stage 4 cancer and thriving
If you could’ve seen my mom in July, you honestly would’ve thought that we were going to lose her. She was diagnosed with stage four metastatic breast cancer that had spread to her skin bones and lungs. Now if you see my mom you wouldn’t even know she has cancer and she isn’t doing chemo right now. Just hormone blockers.
You want to build your immune system up. I had her taking, zinc, quercetin, vitamin D, to keep her immune system up. And we bought an ozone generator on Amazon for $50 and make ozone water. Ozone is an activated more concentrated oxygen and when you’re sick your body sometimes lacks oxygen, making it harder for your organs to function. So drinking the ozone infused water helps your body function. My mom said the first thing she noticed when she started drinking the ozone water was that she had more energy, she was using the bathroom more often, which I think mean her organs were functioning better and she was sleeping better. If you’ve heard of hyperbolic chambers that’s ozone. Oxygen therapy.
Another thing she started to do was drink organic soursop tea leaves. Supposedly the soursop fights cancer cells and she was drinking it daily. Along with taking apricot kernels every once in a while supposedly the cyanide in the apricots does something to the cancer. When my mom started doing this stuff she gradually continued to get better. it was around the time when she stopped chemo too after the first round because her lungs were filling up with liquid. So she has only been on hormone blockers and this regiment and we saw a huge improvement. But what the big game changer was when we learned that cancer is extremely acidic and we had to make sure my mom practiced an alkaline diet but we started to implement a baking soda and water with lemon and drinking it.
Sounds crazy right? Well here’s the science. Cancer is acidic at pH 5.5. This treatment is Alkaline pH8.5..to neutralize!
1/2 a squeezed lemon, in a cup…add 2/3 tsp of alkaline: baking soda not arm and hammer that contains aluminum buy bobs red mills baking soda.
It will fizz, quickly add water and drink!
This is alkaline pH8.5 when consumed.
Do 2x day, 3 if your strong! Drink at least 30 minutes before or after meals, to not clash with digestive acids. Do for 2 weeks, then stop for 5 days. For body to adjust. Then. Repeat process!
Buy PH test strips and you test yourself in the morning and in the evening, once your PH levels get to 7.4 alkaline stop the drink until your PH levels drop again.
This has definitely worked as my mom’s thriving and people don’t even think she’s sick now when they see her. It is possible! You have to heal your body. Another good thing is to take one teaspoon of magnesium hydroxide powder add to seltzer water, shake it and place in fridge for 30 mins after 30 mins shake it again, keep in fridge for 8 hours, then you can consume. Don’t shake anymore and avoid white setiement at the bottom.
They say that when you’re deficient in magnesium the cancer progresses quickly. And magnesium strengthened the T cells against cancer cells it helps fight off the cancer!!
she has been taking digestive enzymes. Digestive enzymes is what helps break down your food and we believe that it helps break down the cancers as well. Once she is feeling crappy we make sure she does a coffee enema cleanse to get the toxins out her body. Look into Nicholas Gonzalez studies on digestive enzymes.
Another thing she does she had in the beginning a golf ball sized tumor on her chest and it has noticeably shrunk more than half.. it’s nearly flat.
My mom is thriving while we still have a long way to go but I am telling you the things we are doing are working! And cancer treatments is a billion dollar business so they don’t really help people!! Just cutting out the cancer and not changing anything about the way you’re living you have high risks of dealing with it over and over again! Our bodies are meant to heal ourselves if you just give it the right tools to do it. Look into Barbara oneil she talks a lot about these types of methods. IT WORKS! There’s hope! Don’t give up!
You’re seeing this message for a reason, please spread this info far and wide because big pharma and the government want to poison us and keep us sick! I’m not saying be anti all cancer treatments but HEAL YOUR BODY and find what works!
Good luck, Godspeed.
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You want to build your immune system up. I had her taking, zinc, quercetin, vitamin D, to keep her immune system up. And we bought an ozone generator on Amazon for $50 and make ozone water. Ozone is an activated more concentrated oxygen and when you’re sick your body sometimes lacks oxygen, making it harder for your organs to function. So drinking the ozone infused water helps your body function. My mom said the first thing she noticed when she started drinking the ozone water was that she had more energy, she was using the bathroom more often, which I think mean her organs were functioning better and she was sleeping better. If you’ve heard of hyperbolic chambers that’s ozone. Oxygen therapy.
Another thing she started to do was drink organic soursop tea leaves. Supposedly the soursop fights cancer cells and she was drinking it daily. Along with taking apricot kernels every once in a while supposedly the cyanide in the apricots does something to the cancer. When my mom started doing this stuff she gradually continued to get better. it was around the time when she stopped chemo too after the first round because her lungs were filling up with liquid. So she has only been on hormone blockers and this regiment and we saw a huge improvement. But what the big game changer was when we learned that cancer is extremely acidic and we had to make sure my mom practiced an alkaline diet but we started to implement a baking soda and water with lemon and drinking it.
Sounds crazy right? Well here’s the science. Cancer is acidic at pH 5.5. This treatment is Alkaline pH8.5..to neutralize!
1/2 a squeezed lemon, in a cup…add 2/3 tsp of alkaline: baking soda not arm and hammer that contains aluminum buy bobs red mills baking soda.
It will fizz, quickly add water and drink!
This is alkaline pH8.5 when consumed.
Do 2x day, 3 if your strong! Drink at least 30 minutes before or after meals, to not clash with digestive acids. Do for 2 weeks, then stop for 5 days. For body to adjust. Then. Repeat process!
Buy PH test strips and you test yourself in the morning and in the evening, once your PH levels get to 7.4 alkaline stop the drink until your PH levels drop again.
This has definitely worked as my mom’s thriving and people don’t even think she’s sick now when they see her. It is possible! You have to heal your body. Another good thing is to take one teaspoon of magnesium hydroxide powder add to seltzer water, shake it and place in fridge for 30 mins after 30 mins shake it again, keep in fridge for 8 hours, then you can consume. Don’t shake anymore and avoid white setiement at the bottom.
They say that when you’re deficient in magnesium the cancer progresses quickly. And magnesium strengthened the T cells against cancer cells it helps fight off the cancer!!
she has been taking digestive enzymes. Digestive enzymes is what helps break down your food and we believe that it helps break down the cancers as well. Once she is feeling crappy we make sure she does a coffee enema cleanse to get the toxins out her body. Look into Nicholas Gonzalez studies on digestive enzymes.
Another thing she does she had in the beginning a golf ball sized tumor on her chest and it has noticeably shrunk more than half.. it’s nearly flat.
My mom is thriving while we still have a long way to go but I am telling you the things we are doing are working! And cancer treatments is a billion dollar business so they don’t really help people!! Just cutting out the cancer and not changing anything about the way you’re living you have high risks of dealing with it over and over again! Our bodies are meant to heal ourselves if you just give it the right tools to do it. Look into Barbara oneil she talks a lot about these types of methods. IT WORKS! There’s hope! Don’t give up!
You’re seeing this message for a reason, please spread this info far and wide because big pharma and the government want to poison us and keep us sick! I’m not saying be anti all cancer treatments but HEAL YOUR BODY and find what works!
Good luck, Godspeed.
2024.05.15 08:55 Key_Music_6720 Aha I messed up again lol
My ex and I ldr 4 years broke up 3 months ago and kinda went no contact for 2 weeks 3 weeks it’s been on and off today I receive and message from her telling me that we had a place in her heart those 4 years and thought it will never come to an end then proceed to say that this is the way how the universe has set us on showing I wasn’t ready to move in ( I’m moving in to her state in such a short notice) and how I wasn’t because I needed one more year to spend with my family before making a big jump she wishes that the fate for us doesn’t change and that she’s letting go of the past and instantly responded instead of giving thought just basically saying how I refeclted into the relationship how we are 2 broken people constantly trying to make work two young kids learning what love is and say no matter what I’ll support you no matter what bruh I’m hurt
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2024.05.15 08:55 BatDouble2654 Think I’ve been pathologized for connecting easily with parts by therapist
So I discovered ifs on my own after I was finding schema therapy that my psychologist did too limiting. It didn’t describe my parts. And I knew intuitively that even my inner critic was just trying to protect me. My psych was accomodating of me and allowed me to share my actual parts stories. And then I got suddenly dropped after some protectors shared some trust issues I was hoping to work through.
Now it suddenly feels like it’s possible they think I have some kind of serious condition like a dissociative disorder. I don’t know for sure but I’m basing this off the fact that suddenly they are making a big deal about some things (minor dissociation but seriously I am very stressed after being dropped I think that’s reasonable!) they had always normalised before. They also looked at me funnily when I was trying to argue I wasn’t that complicated when they said they didn’t have the skills to help me. And now emails keep reminding me to connect with my parts etc when before she didn’t really mention them much. It feels in some ways like I’ve perhaps been discriminated against for being kind of ‘good’ at connecting to my parts and finding it so intuitive. I don’t think I have anything very seriously wrong with me. Some complex trauma sure. But now it feels like I’ve been too honest or something about the things in my head. My parts do feel very real to me. But they still feel like I could just have a very active imagination that’s creating them. Honestly I don’t know I’m so very confused about what’s ’real’ or not. I have one last appointment and I intend to directly ask this. But has anyone else go through this? I feel like maybe the issue is because they weren’t trained in ifs they don’t fully understand that everyone has parts even though there’s also parts in schema therapy but maybe they are meant more as metaphors. I do have parts that are scared though there is something more seriously wrong with me. But mostly that me being so passionate about this therapy has now mislead them to think theres something more wrong with me than then actually is.
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Now it suddenly feels like it’s possible they think I have some kind of serious condition like a dissociative disorder. I don’t know for sure but I’m basing this off the fact that suddenly they are making a big deal about some things (minor dissociation but seriously I am very stressed after being dropped I think that’s reasonable!) they had always normalised before. They also looked at me funnily when I was trying to argue I wasn’t that complicated when they said they didn’t have the skills to help me. And now emails keep reminding me to connect with my parts etc when before she didn’t really mention them much. It feels in some ways like I’ve perhaps been discriminated against for being kind of ‘good’ at connecting to my parts and finding it so intuitive. I don’t think I have anything very seriously wrong with me. Some complex trauma sure. But now it feels like I’ve been too honest or something about the things in my head. My parts do feel very real to me. But they still feel like I could just have a very active imagination that’s creating them. Honestly I don’t know I’m so very confused about what’s ’real’ or not. I have one last appointment and I intend to directly ask this. But has anyone else go through this? I feel like maybe the issue is because they weren’t trained in ifs they don’t fully understand that everyone has parts even though there’s also parts in schema therapy but maybe they are meant more as metaphors. I do have parts that are scared though there is something more seriously wrong with me. But mostly that me being so passionate about this therapy has now mislead them to think theres something more wrong with me than then actually is.
2024.05.15 08:53 Equivalent-Coast6788 Ignored, invalidated, dismissed
I’m afraid of competition: outright. Don’t challenge myself. Take the easy way. Don’t like being compared. Seen as less. Less than who? My sister? Am I competitive with my sister? Did I feel I had lost? Jealous? Insecure.. but of my father’s validation with problems being solved in her favor though I was younger? .. of my mothers validation? Same. Problems solved in my sisters favor. I felt put against her or we clashed, and my actions would be charged misbehavior and my sister being told she was right. She called me a brat had me express anger and alarm, protest and hurt, no I said he was acting like a brat. Oh totally ok.. and when I raised alarm physically hurt by my sister no support either. One day he’ll be bigger than you is all she was told. My alarm was ignored and my experience invalidated, dismissed. When I was lost I raised alarm and my family peaked out from behind where they were hiding. Who the fuck would do that to a three year old?? So I had lost. Lost my family being safe then and there. The one memory I have of my sister where I recall liking something she did; when we were out at a restaurant and I said I wanted to go and my aunt reprimanded me. My sister turned to me and said, she just wants a cigarette. I felt such relief. I must have been 8. That and some vague memory of playing and some video games. Running around the neighborhood. Joy was there but not personal. Safety, Love never felt real. It made me distrustful. Maybe not joy then. Maybe It was contentness in action and inclusion. It’s all a blur. So what’s stillness and alone? What I’ve come to value. I haven’t known her in so long. My Sister. Why? Distraction and avoidance of competition. That I may act my emotion and raise the alarm at her and have her praised and my experience ignored , invalidated , dismissed. So I take the easy way and not trust the blur.
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2024.05.15 08:52 TieKey9617 AITAH for worrying about my Sister in laws cousin??
For some background info, my Sister in law, Maya(fake name) is my husbands half sister. Mayas cousin, jess(fake name) is on her dads side so in no way is Jess and my husband related.
We see jess a lot because she’s lives on the same block as me and my husband. Jess is a really calm and friendly person and is cousin best friends with Maya.
They started coming around the house together very often and Jess would talk to my husband more than me. Of course she spoke to me and never ignored me, it’s just she followed my husband around like a puppy which I don’t even do.
I’ve seen a bunch of things like Jess always having to talk to my husband, she follows him, she often touches his hand, chest, arms, and his face sometimes so much.
I don’t worry about my husband because he always pulls away from her + he’s a fool for black woman(I am too).
What do I even do, do I bring this up to him or just stay quiet? AITAH for worrying about her?
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We see jess a lot because she’s lives on the same block as me and my husband. Jess is a really calm and friendly person and is cousin best friends with Maya.
They started coming around the house together very often and Jess would talk to my husband more than me. Of course she spoke to me and never ignored me, it’s just she followed my husband around like a puppy which I don’t even do.
I’ve seen a bunch of things like Jess always having to talk to my husband, she follows him, she often touches his hand, chest, arms, and his face sometimes so much.
I don’t worry about my husband because he always pulls away from her + he’s a fool for black woman(I am too).
What do I even do, do I bring this up to him or just stay quiet? AITAH for worrying about her?
2024.05.15 08:52 Annual_Sea3676 AITA for expecting relationships
AITA? Let me tell you why.. During June 2023 I fall in love with someone that I was talking long distance over the phone for a year. We (40M and 41F) are both single. I am an anxious and he is a dismissive avoidant attachment style. For less than a month we hugged each other and at the end of the month, I kissed his lip and told him that I love him. He replied “you are beautiful I also love you but not in that way, I don’t want relationship and commitment”. July 26 a month later of that conversation we slept and he initiated. Next morning he said it was a mistake and he doesn’t want commitment and relationship. After that almost a year until April 2023 we continued sleeping and didn’t discuss about commitment. I changed my country and came to his country with a job. He helped me in relocation and many other things. He signed the apartment contract together with me. Bought all the necessities of our apartment whatever he feels like, without discussing with me. Im paying him back slowly. We behaved like bf-gf. Even we went for a trip together, it felt like honeymoon. His eyes were always sparkling, his body language was nothing but loving, showed extreme care. He lives with me only few days in a month. When he does not live with me, we talk for 2-3 hours over the phone and I have to send him text that Im back home, etc. Our bonding just becoming stronger with time. I started hoping that we can start a relationship, as we were showing vulnerability to each other, dependence build up. The love and care I experienced I have never felt that way in any of my previous relationships. In April he went to another country for training and I told him, a friend (male) wants to visit me and may stay in our apartment. He got furious, he asked how close is that person with me that he wants to stay! I booked a hotel for my friend. He didn’t like that either telling me why I am so keen to please that guy. The next day he said he found a girl in the dating app and will go for date. He went out with her 4-5 days and had lunch or dinner together. I told him as we are not committed he can go for date but should not have sex as it may not be safe for me. He said with anger that he is not committed he will do whatever he wants to do. After he came back his sparkling loving eyes are gone, I can feel a total shift of his loving energy, still we slept again. But I am feeling very insecure wondering if he slept with someone else. My questions: a) should I ask him if he has slept? How should I ask this question, while respecting myself? b) if he says ‘yes’ he had unprotected sex with someone else, then how can I continue sleeping with him? c) will his love towards me come back? Or this is the end of our romance, and what is left is just sex? d) he said he told me from the very beginning that he doesn’t want commitment, I should not have expected anything else? e) am I the asshole that I didn’t take his ‘non-commitment’ tag seriously and totally emotionally invest on him?
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2024.05.15 08:52 lindamaa Scammer on buying/selling thread
 | Hi guys! There is a person that is actively selling her tickets on the buying/selling thread and I will attach a picture of her comment and her twitter below. I highly suspect her of being a scammer, here is what happened: I have been looking to buy a txt la vip1 tix and this morning, I saw her comment of selling her vip for 500. I asked her is it for vip1 or vip2 and she said vip1!!! Then I asked her for proofs so I added her twitter. The proof that she sent me was apparently fake (look at the pic attached below) but I tried be nice and told her that something is wrong with her tix and that I’m not going to buy them. On twitter, I also posted a wts post for my txt Washington DC vip2 tickets then she was suddenly interested in buying them and wanted to negotiate the price a little bit. After all that, I asked her for a down payment. It was rlly obvious to me that she is a scammer so I was trying to use the scammer’s strategy to her! lol! Then she asked me for proofs. I sent it to her and asked her if she wants to see anything else (look at the chat history). Her words came out of nowhere that she wants me to buy hers and she will buy mine so that we will both be happy. Like wtf is this girl thinking???? I have not hear back from her yet! But guys! This is rlly suspicious right? I have been scammed a few times so it is now rlly apparent for me to tell if someone is a scammer. I hope no one will be scammed and if u have seen a scammer on the buying/selling thread, plz comment below so we can help each other out and not let scammers to get any money!!!! submitted by lindamaa to TomorrowByTogether [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 08:51 AcrobaticJellyfish92 At my (28m) wit’s end with Gf’s (30f) jealousy
Gf lives with me and we have been together 1.5 years. I am previously divorced, no kids.
Gf has many amazing qualities to her and I am happy 98% of the time. The 2% however is very dark and generally rooted in jealousy and insecurity.
She frequently accuses me of checking out other women when I am not. Any action I do to another female is considered flirtatious. She refuses to has friends of her own and says that all friends do is betray you, family is all you need (she is hispanic).
Last night got out of hand. I work a high stress job with a significant mortality rate and already had leftover stressors on my mind throughout the week. The morning before, I woke up to a text from a longtime female friend where I had asked her about activities we could do as couples in the area. Gf insisted I didn’t need to ask her for ideas since I have google. She then told me then I should have this friend make me dinner instead of her.
Later that evening, she demanded access to my phone. I denied her this request as I found it unreasonable and have never given her a reason to mistrust me. She then refused to let me use the bathroom without her standing in the doorway to make sure that I wasn’t doing anything i shouldn’t be doing on my phone and accused me of not trusting her and hiding something.
Then she told me that she saw me look at a 13 year old female child in a sexual way in a restaurant three months ago. I had absolutely no idea what she was talking about and was horrified to hear this. She then said something to the effect of “maybe I should tell your boss about this.” I then had a panic attack. I called my parents even though I was unable to speak. I am not close to my parents but did not know what else to do.
My dad rushed to me even though I said he didn’t need to come over. He found me in a mess and eventually after I gained some composure, I asked him to ask gf why I was so upset. She repeated the accusation to which my dad was disgusted. She then implied she didn’t really believe it but just said it because she was keeping it inside her.
After my dad left, gf was inconsolable. She then said we should break up because she was “embarrassed” and that she never would have involved her parents in our problems the way I did. The next day, she went back to how much she loves me and wants to be together.
She recently has begun seeing a therapist due to the insecurities and her own traumas of past domestic violence. She has admitted the jealousy is a problem and toxic. I am now living in fear that she will make an accusation like described above again when she is upset. The trust I had is shattered. I really love this girl and I now am scared.
What can I do to save this or should I?
TL;DR Gf has extreme jealousy issues that now make me fearful of her.
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Gf has many amazing qualities to her and I am happy 98% of the time. The 2% however is very dark and generally rooted in jealousy and insecurity.
She frequently accuses me of checking out other women when I am not. Any action I do to another female is considered flirtatious. She refuses to has friends of her own and says that all friends do is betray you, family is all you need (she is hispanic).
Last night got out of hand. I work a high stress job with a significant mortality rate and already had leftover stressors on my mind throughout the week. The morning before, I woke up to a text from a longtime female friend where I had asked her about activities we could do as couples in the area. Gf insisted I didn’t need to ask her for ideas since I have google. She then told me then I should have this friend make me dinner instead of her.
Later that evening, she demanded access to my phone. I denied her this request as I found it unreasonable and have never given her a reason to mistrust me. She then refused to let me use the bathroom without her standing in the doorway to make sure that I wasn’t doing anything i shouldn’t be doing on my phone and accused me of not trusting her and hiding something.
Then she told me that she saw me look at a 13 year old female child in a sexual way in a restaurant three months ago. I had absolutely no idea what she was talking about and was horrified to hear this. She then said something to the effect of “maybe I should tell your boss about this.” I then had a panic attack. I called my parents even though I was unable to speak. I am not close to my parents but did not know what else to do.
My dad rushed to me even though I said he didn’t need to come over. He found me in a mess and eventually after I gained some composure, I asked him to ask gf why I was so upset. She repeated the accusation to which my dad was disgusted. She then implied she didn’t really believe it but just said it because she was keeping it inside her.
After my dad left, gf was inconsolable. She then said we should break up because she was “embarrassed” and that she never would have involved her parents in our problems the way I did. The next day, she went back to how much she loves me and wants to be together.
She recently has begun seeing a therapist due to the insecurities and her own traumas of past domestic violence. She has admitted the jealousy is a problem and toxic. I am now living in fear that she will make an accusation like described above again when she is upset. The trust I had is shattered. I really love this girl and I now am scared.
What can I do to save this or should I?
TL;DR Gf has extreme jealousy issues that now make me fearful of her.
2024.05.15 08:51 QueenDianaSpencer I know it’s bad to talk bad about parents and siblings and family in Islam …but
But what if like, say, your in laws ask you about your family? Like they corner you with questions in their own house
“what was your mother like. Why did she leave you? Why did she divorce your dad, why did she abandon you? Why did she make everyone gang up against you? How long has she she abused drugs? How could she possibly do such vile things to you? Wow that’s despicable”
I’m so honest to the point it’s sick and I don’t know how to make boundaries but I feel guilty for exposing the ugly truths of my family members. I felt cornered and pressured by my in laws and I feel disgusted of myself and guilty. I didn’t purposely paint a bad picture, I was just saying the raw truth and each question they ask led me to over share.
Is this haram? How can I ask Allah to forgive me if it’s haram? The fact I feel guilty is probably allah’s way of telling me it was wrong to dish out my entire family business like that. How can I stop over sharing like an innocent idiot when my in laws ask me sensitive questions?
Will I be punished by Allah for oversharing the dirty truths I experienced growing up, about my family?
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“what was your mother like. Why did she leave you? Why did she divorce your dad, why did she abandon you? Why did she make everyone gang up against you? How long has she she abused drugs? How could she possibly do such vile things to you? Wow that’s despicable”
I’m so honest to the point it’s sick and I don’t know how to make boundaries but I feel guilty for exposing the ugly truths of my family members. I felt cornered and pressured by my in laws and I feel disgusted of myself and guilty. I didn’t purposely paint a bad picture, I was just saying the raw truth and each question they ask led me to over share.
Is this haram? How can I ask Allah to forgive me if it’s haram? The fact I feel guilty is probably allah’s way of telling me it was wrong to dish out my entire family business like that. How can I stop over sharing like an innocent idiot when my in laws ask me sensitive questions?
Will I be punished by Allah for oversharing the dirty truths I experienced growing up, about my family?
2024.05.15 08:50 SamVoxeL 9 year old attacked at school for 'not being and Muslim'
 | In Savage, Minnesota, a 9-year-old girl was reportedly attacked by fellow schoolchildren at Hidden Valley Elementary School. The assailants allegedly targeted the girl because she was not Muslim. The girl’s mother, Shawna Larson, has expressed her outrage and is seeking answers after her daughter was “jumped” on the school playground by a group of girls. The school did not report the incident to the police, so Larson took it upon herself to do so. The attackers themselves reportedly told the teacher that their motive was related to the victim’s race and religion. The incident, which occurred on April 29, left the young girl with bruises and a black eye. Larson’s account of the event highlights her daughter’s inability to defend herself due to threats from the attackers. submitted by SamVoxeL to exmuslim [link] [comments] https://www.wnd.com/2024/05/alarming-mom-outraged-daughter-attacked-not-muslim/ |
2024.05.15 08:50 Fingernail7672 Why do Jewish girls usually wait longer until sex in a relationship?
My girlfriend and I have been together 3 months. I always use to joke (before we met), “you need to meet a Jewish girls grandparents before you can have sex with her”. Quite literally was the case with my girlfriend. I went to her Passover seder and she came to mine. This was before we started doing the deed.
From my personal experience, non-Jews are out here having sex on first, second, third dates. We waited 10. Was she waiting for us to be in a committed relationship? Was she waiting to develop love? Why is there such a contrast (again from my experience)? What are Jewish girls waiting for? Are they raised differently to only have sex in committed relationships? Do they need family approval?
For the record, I’m not complaining. I love my girlfriend and things progressed very naturally. I’m just curious why this is the case. We’re both Ashkenazi, not religious, in our 20’s and come from stable homes.
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From my personal experience, non-Jews are out here having sex on first, second, third dates. We waited 10. Was she waiting for us to be in a committed relationship? Was she waiting to develop love? Why is there such a contrast (again from my experience)? What are Jewish girls waiting for? Are they raised differently to only have sex in committed relationships? Do they need family approval?
For the record, I’m not complaining. I love my girlfriend and things progressed very naturally. I’m just curious why this is the case. We’re both Ashkenazi, not religious, in our 20’s and come from stable homes.