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2014.11.07 07:06 22PoundHouseCat Things My Dad Says

**Description** Has your father ever said something profound? Hilarious? Inappropriate? Pay homage to the man who raised you by quoting him here!
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2015.10.15 21:42 Morydd Fathers of Loss

A subreddit for fathers who have lost children. We intend to offer support, strength, and whatever else you need to keep going after the loss of a child.
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2024.06.10 08:03 Tanpac88 The real John Fuda

This episode left me speechless. It’s one thing to throw each other under the bus but to have to sit and watch a father put his ego before his son, this show has hit an all time low.
This scene made me incredibly uncomfortable. A parent’s job is to protect their child at all costs. John fuda expressed his concern about the issues the rumours brought to his son and what his son had to go through. Only to say himself very specific details about his son’s mother to the show. I had no clue that his son’s mother manufactured crystal meth or that she pulled the wheel on him at 55mph and snapped his femur bone. Even Teresa of all people told John to stop as that was Jayden’s mom. His response was I don’t care and john continued to talk about his teenage sons mother, which at the end of the day only effects his son.
I want to watch petty drama,family moments and fun times. Not a man child throw his own child to wolves because his ego is hurt. This scene is incredibly damaging for that poor boy. Coming from a damaged family myself with substance issues. The confusion and emotions that come from having one parent not in your life is something else. It comes with moments of hate, moments of wondering if it’s your fault. Moments of wanting to know the other part of yourself. Moments of pretending it doesn’t affect you. The embarrassment and shame of having a living parent missing from your life. Well done to Rachel for stepping up and taking on the mother role but it isn’t a bandaid, and it doesn’t replace his missing mother. To navigate this and have your own father who you trust go and discuss personal details about your mother to save face about his own past on national tv is just something I cannot move past. This has to be one of the most disgusting moments I have seen play out on reality TV. I think this is the real John Fuda and he has no morale compass. His behaviour is indefensible. Leave these kids out of the darkness.
Just a side note: I’m not even a Teresa fan. We have seen Teresa go low, but she even had the sense to try and get John to stop talking about Jayden’s mother.
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2024.06.10 08:02 11chewwwy My brother in law has cancer I’m not sure what to do

For context me and my brother are twins and are adopted growing up our adoptive sister dated a guy who had a younger brother and since middle school all of us have been extremely close even after they divorced … me and my brother joined the marines at 20 and since February I have finished my contract. I decided to stay here in California tho I’m from New Mexico. My brother in law has always had a hard life back home so I thought it would be great to bring him out here and work while we share an apartment. Now I’m 24 and he is 25.. it seemed like a great idea but honestly he hit me with some heavy news. After the second day of being at my brothers house drinking and sleeping all day I had to speak to him about it because my brother has kids and he can’t be doing that here but he was so drunk that he confessed he has stomach cancer and has known since February. He was given 6-9 months to live and this has shocked both me and my brother. I’ve tried to convince him to tell his mother sister father and actual family even move back home to be with them but he wishes to stay out here with me until… well it happens… this hurts me seeing him like this. I started to spend a lot of time planning how to do this. I’ve just got a job to support myself so I’m still knew to it and I haven’t gotten my own place yet but plan to in the next month or two but I don’t know if I can support both me and him as much as I love him… Im worried and cried at night this past week my gf has even noticed… me and her have barely seen each other since I’ve spent a lot of time home with him. one night she was drunk after work so I took her home. She wanted to spend 5 mins to sleep in my car I allowed. I started to think about everything going on and broke down crying she was passed out next to me until the end she saw a few tears and became worried. I couldn’t tell her because she was drunk and it felt wrong or just not right so I told her I’d let her know next time in person when she wasn’t drinking… but after a day of texting she brought it up again. I didn’t want to tell her over text I felt it was to personal so I again told her it needed to be in person but with our busy schedules we didn’t know when that would be… somehow in the conversation she misunderstood my text. I had said something along the lines of I need to make myself be happy and feel safe. And she took it the wrong way. She misunderstood it as if she doesn’t make me happy or feel safe around her which isn’t the case I love her and I hate that she thinks that. She told me if that’s the case this relationship she doesn’t know where it’s going…. I messed up but I don’t blame her she doesn’t know anything going on and thinks it’s because of her…I tried to explain and fix but she was hurt and she said she needs time to think and hasn’t responded to my messages…. I spent this last night punching a punching bag until 3 of my fingers needed bandaids … I can’t drink because if I bring alcohol into this house I’m afraid my brother inlaw will start drinking again … I’m not really looking for anything just mad this had to happen to him sad for my relationship with the love of my life may be over and just ranting to get this feeling off my chest….i want to keep his wish and not tell anyone but I do believe he should tell people and prepare am I an ass for thinking he should move back home with his family so he can be cared for later on… instead of trying to work here with me until he can’t… i love him but I’m not sure what to do
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2024.06.10 07:56 Subject_Arm_571 My moms Viewing one day Dss took my kids the Next

Hey Everyone I’m C 26F Last July My mom passed An Then I had to take my 1 month old to the hospital bc he wouldn’t eat we were in the hospital for Two weeks Come to find out he was tongue tied and that’s y he wouldn’t eat an was losing weight well I never left his side except to go to my mom’s viewing My oldest 2 were at my Second borns dads house well after the viewing I got my oldest 2 C 4M an K 2M an went Bk to the hospital to N 2 Months M an the day After we was supposed to leave the hospital CPS calls They told me a few days before they weren’t gonna take my kids if I had someone else who can take them until I’m investigated but they didn’t give me a chance they took my baby from me at the hospital an went an took my oldest 2 from my brother in law an took them straight to foster care Ik my Son K’s Dad was the one who called he follows me everywhere to get my address’s an he told my aunt K he’s been trying to take him from me since I left him an he keeps telling ppl I kept his son from him Which is not true just a month before this I took the Boys to his wedding he didn’t see them for six months after we split bc he got a protection order against me an he did tht to try to keep my son away from me bc he thought he was getting custody the same day he probably would have went for the year one if he did so 6 months later I put him on child support an an he tried to bring up irrelevant stuff to try and get them to not put him on child support to keep the peace when they wanted him to pay 575. I lowered it to 300 and he still claimed that was too much. He only wants our son to hurt me. He never wanted him. He tells people I made him get me pregnant but bk to what’s going on Cps put them in foster care an didn’t let know one tht was family pick them up months later we went to court my attorney made me agree to K 2M to go to his dad but I wanted all my kids together they said the judge wouldn’t let my aunt get him an then months after tht my aunt got my oldest C 4M my baby was left in foster care they backed me in a corner an made me sign a paper saying I can’t live under the same roof an N 2 Months M if I didn’t sign tht my aunt couldn’t get him out foster care well now to today it’s been almost 11 months since my moms Death and since my boys were taken an there still trying to make me seem mentally unstable bc of her death an im taking another parenting like class bc they didn’t like tht the first one was virtual but this one is first steps which means im supposed to do this with my kids but surprise I still don’t have them an I have to pay for therapy which I had a mental evaluation last year and they tried to say I had postpartum, but I tried to get them to go get the proof I didn’t. They never did just like they won’t ever get the proof of my mental evaluation. I’m just glad all three of my kids didn’t get placed with my now three-year-olds dad bc his wife Called my oldest An MFer He was four at the time and he felt unsafe around them and the guardian enlightem tried to put them all there idk how they expected J 21Female to take care of her Newborn plus my 3 when k 32Male don’t help But anyway I have court Next Month in July There letting everyone speak against me there bc it’s permanence planning court so Hopefully I get my sons C 5Male K 3Male an N 1Male Back I’ve already missed there birthdays an some holidays I don’t want to miss more I’ll keep y’all up dated thanks for the support and letting me vent out here
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2024.06.10 07:51 tab_rick Corian vs Granite: A Comparison to 8 Important Differences

Corian vs Granite: A Comparison to 8 Important Differences
Presently, there are countless alternatives when choosing kitchen countertops. Amongst all these countertop materials, corian vs granite tops the chart of varieties of countertops because a lot of house owners usually select between the two.
In this write-up, 8 differences between the two countertop materials would be elucidated. On top of that, one of the most excellent corian suppliers would be recommended.

Corian vs Granite: Different Material Composition

Corian and Granite are made up of different materials. Granite is a naturally occurring material, while Corian is made up of various materials, binding resins, dyes, and other fillers.
Pure natural stone, such as granite or marble, is a natural material that is mined from the earth and cut into slabs. It is characterized by its unique veining and color patterns, high durability, and resistance to heat and scratches. However, natural stone is porous and requires sealing to prevent stains and damage from moisture.
On the other hand, Corian is not composed of naturally occurring material. It is composed of various materials and fillers that give texture and color. Notably, Corian being more artificial doesn’t mean it lacks durability or strength when used.
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Corian vs. Granite Countertops: Differences in Appearance

In terms of appearance, Corian appears more attractive than granite. Therefore, as a house owner who relishes aesthetic kitchen designs, Corian is the best when it comes to attractiveness. This is because corian countertops are made with different materials that bring about finer color and texture. Corian can be integrated with glass, stone, and wood and gives off a variety of colors from the materials used.
On the other hand, granite is not composed of different materials, so it is usually just natural granite and whatever color it comes with. On the contrary, granite doesn’t have color, texture, or pattern options when compared to Corian. Someone who loves attractive colors and patterns might pick Corian over granite.
In addition, Since artificial stone is artificially manufactured, it is easy to create specially designed shapes in the production process, but it is very difficult to change the shape of granite.

Solid Surface vs Granite: Different Installation

The installation technique of solid surface vs granite differs and one seems to be a lot easier than the other. Corian countertops are light so it is very easy to install in any kitchen or other countertop-needed room. In line with this, it can be installed with no visible seams by using seaming materials that match the product perfectly.
On the contrary, it is advisable to leave the installation of granite countertops to professionals. It is heavy and complicated to install and even professionals have a tough time making seams well-shaped, even and matched. Trying to install granite countertops is tasking and any slight mistake while cutting results in wastage.

The Durability of Corian and Granite

In terms of durability, corian vs granite countertops are both durable, but in different ways. For instance, granite countertops are resistant to scratching and heat. However, it is naturally porous. It can absorb spills which can cause permanent damage.
Corian on the other hand is non-porous and can be manufactured to achieve a seamless look. When acidic substances stain granite countertops, they might need to be resealed between 7-12 months while Corian countertops do not need resealing at any point.
Correspondingly, Corian countertops need proper management while using them. It can be scratched when the user slices things on it. So, it is advisable to use chopping boards to maintain it accurately. Granite countertops on the other hand don’t need such management because it is highly resistant to scratching.

Health Effects of Corian and Granite

Before choosing between Corian and granite, it is imperative to evaluate the health effects. Granite countertops can harbor bacteria over a long period while Corian does not harbor bacteria.
It is better to choose countertops that don’t harbor bacteria in the kitchen. For instance, KKR is one of the best Corian manufacturing brands and the Corian products are odorless, renewable, and non-toxic. They are also suitable for bathroom uses and are super healthy, easy to install, and easy to clean solid surface countertops.

Different Maintenance Requirements Between Corian and Granite

The means of maintaining corian countertops vs granite are quite different. Granite countertops are made from natural granites which makes them less flexible when it comes to its maintenance. Corian countertops on the other hand are versatile with their maintenance and much more flexible.
Corian can be wiped and sanitized with soap and water, alcohol, bleach, and even ammonia without any damage or retardness in appearance. On the contrary, bleach, vinegar, or ammonia should never be used to clean granite countertops. It reacts to these substances and begins to get dull or fade. In essence, Corian countertops are easier to maintain and keep clean and sparkling.

Corian vs Granite: Different Heat Resistance

Granite countertops are known to be highly invulnerable to heat. No matter the hotness of anything placed on it, it doesn’t react to it or cause any damage. On the other hand, Corian is not as resistant to heat as granite. Thus, it is advisable to check the temperature of anything placed on it because it can lead to discoloration or other damage.
For Corian, it is advisable to use hot pads before dropping hot pots on them. Anything above 325° Fahrenheit can destroy the corian. Granite is better when it comes to heat resistance but corian also has countless benefits.

Applications of Corian and Granite

Corian vs granite countertops are not applied completely the same way, although, there might be some similarities. The following are the applications of corian and granite:

Corian

Corian can be used for various applications. For example, Corian is used to make kitchen and bathroom countertops and sinks. It is suitable for use in hotels, restaurants, hospitals, and residences.
When used, it is easy to clean and maintain, and proper care and maintenance combats bacteria. It is more attractive and has different patterns which make it a top choice for tabletops, bar counters, restaurant counters, and solid counters in a hospital. The following are applications of Corian:
  • Kitchen Countertops
  • Bathroom Sink
  • Home Decor and Artwork
  • Furniture
  • Wall Cladding

Granite

Granite is more durable and heat resistant and this makes it a perfect option for classic kitchen countertops. In offices, granite flooring is used and it fits this application due to its strength and quality. Granite might be less attractive but it is used in modern fashionable kitchens as well as industrial kitchens. The following are applications of granite:
  • Kitchen and Bathroom Countertops
  • Monuments
  • Healthcare or Hospital Countertops
  • Floor Decoration

KKR, One of the Most Excellent Corian Suppliers in China

When skimming for one of the best Corian suppliers, KKR – Kingkonree is the brand to settle for. The company manufactures and supplies the best Corian countertops in the market.

KKR’s Products Throughout Over 107 Countries

KKR produces solid surface countertops, bathtubs, and wash basins. The products of KKR passed CE and SGS tests and satisfied numerous clients in the hotel industry. The company has already bagged GMC, ISO, and CUPC certifications which shows the company’s standards and affirms its reliability.

Various Size and Shape Can be Customised

Corian materials supplied by KKR come in various sizes and shapes and they can be customized to carry brand names and so on. Is Corian cheaper than granite? KKR gives the most pocket-friendly price for the customization of solid surface products. The Corian products are seamlessly constructed, durable, machinable, and easy to repair.

Conclusion

In a nutshell, choosing between corian vs granite is not a herculean task. House owners only need to select the one deemed fit to work perfectly for what it is needed for. The differences between the two have been explored and highlighted, various means of application have been illustrated, and a trustworthy corian manufacturer and supplier have been recommended. Hence, buyers can visit the official KKR website and get a quote instantly.
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2024.06.10 07:41 pessimisfit Bridesmaids Decisions

Short version: I have 5 relatives and 5 best friends. I am close to all of them. Will I be missing out if my besties are not by my side and I only chose my 5 relatives? Note they would all still be at the bachelorette party and other celebrations around the wedding.
Long version: I’m getting married next year in a church, and I need to choose my bridesmaids. I’ve always imagined my bridesmaids to be family. I never really thought of it as some sort of bonding experience that you should do with your friends. In my mind it’s always been just the people who stand next to me in the church.
I have three female cousins (one of whom is 14yo), one close family friend, and the sister of the groom in mind. That’s 5 people who are basically family. I also had in mind that my closest cousin will be my MOH.
I also have 5 very close female friends. 4 of them I have known since the age of 11 and have been with me through everything, and one of them is a college friend who made me her MOH in her wedding that just passed.
I am very close to all 10 of these ladies, and I want them there with me at my bridal shower, my bachelorette party, and the cultural celebrations the night before and morning of the wedding that only close friends and family go to (I am Arab born and raised in the US, so the wedding will have some Arab twists).
Will I regret not having my closest friends in my bridal party? My experience with my friend’s wedding was that being in the bridal party was a very bonding experience and a heck of a lot of fun because it was with friends, but it’s just not practical in my mind to have 10 bridesmaids, especially when there’s a clear split at 5. Plus asking all my friends to wear the same expensive dress that I picked out feels ridiculous to me.
Any perspective on what I would miss out on if I don’t have my best friends in my wedding party, and only have my relatives? I feel my view on keeping it to family is very traditional and suits my family-oriented personality, but I’d also love my friends and would love to have them by my side. Any ideas on how to navigate this? I heard one idea of making them my flower girls, but id need to do some convincing of my fiancé to pull that off 😆.
Also, one of my friends has already decided for herself that I should pick her as my maid of honor and that I’m going to be her maid of honor in her future wedding. She really wants to be in charge of my bach which she would be the best at doing for sure. I totally would choose her, but i can’t imagine my cousin not being right next to me at the alter… does the person who throws the bach need to be a bridesmaid??
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2024.06.10 07:38 GoAheadMMDay Jewish religion originated in Egypt... and was restructured in Babylon

Jewish religion originated in Egypt... and was restructured in Babylon
Before we begin, let me say I love the Jewish people and Christians, and I consider all of them my brothers and sisters, as I do all people from all religions and walks of life. We are all God's beloved children.
I thoroughly cherish the ancient wisdom contained in both the Old and New Testaments of the Bible, and in the sacred books of other faiths as well.
Yet over the course of several decades, I discovered numerous inaccurate teachings which I would like to review. It may not be what most people consider a "conspiracy". Nevertheless, these misconceptions must be revealed for the truth to be known.
Egyptian origins
Judaism - the Jewish religion - originated in ancient Egypt. A mixed group of people from multiple nationalities, including Egyptian, were expelled from Egypt, taking Egyptian beliefs and practices with them, including Egyptian temple designs.
This theory has been around for nearly a hundred years. Sigmund Freud, the famous Austrian neurologist and founder of psychoanalysis who lived from 1856 to 1939, wrote about Judaism's link to ancient Egypt in 1939, the final year of his life.
From Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Akhenaten :
"One of the first to mention this [theory] was Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, in his book Moses and Monotheism.[235] Basing his arguments on his belief that the Exodus story was historical, Freud argued that Moses had been an Atenist priest who was forced to leave Egypt with his followers after Akhenaten's death. Freud argued that Akhenaten was striving to promote monotheism, something that the biblical Moses was able to achieve.[235] Following the publication of his book, the concept entered popular consciousness and serious research.[240][241]"
In this post, I will provide my own arguments supporting Freud's proposition.
I started thinking about the link between ancient Israel and ancient Egypt many years ago during my Bible studies. I was also fascinated with the histories of ancient Egypt, Sumer, Babylon, and others.
Over the years, I began noticing some very significant overlapping beliefs that cannot be dismissed. Some of these points are already known and hotly debated; others are my own observations.
I will be brief, however. This topic is absolutely huge in scope - covering history, archeology and religion. If I were to cover the topic to its fullest extent, it would be a book. I will spare you that torture and simply give you the abridged version.
My purpose? I put this out there for debate and further research.
The exodus out of Egypt
In the late 1300's BC, a large group migrated out of Egypt in what is known as "the exodus".
The exodus out of Egypt
Who were the people who left Egypt in the exodus?
The Bible claims they were almost all Israelites who were living in misery in Egypt. But there is good reason to believe the majority were actually Egyptians, as I explain later.
Black box - where the exodus settled
The group who left Egypt eventually settled between the Jordan River and the Mediterranean Sea, forming the nation of Israel.
Three major similarities
Several similarities exist between ancient Israel's religion and ancient Egypt's religion. These similarities are so striking, I propose the Jewish religion actually originated in Egypt, and was brought out of Egypt in the exodus.
• 1) Let's start with the most glaring similarity... the temples.
Ancient Egyptian temple
Key features of the ancient Egyptian temple:
a) outer courtyard, b) two large pillars at front entrance, c) a grand hall, d) an inner shrine with statue.
Left - Moses' tabernacle / Right - Solomon's temple
Key features of Moses' tabernacle and Solomon's temple:
a) outer courtyard, b) two large pillars at front entrance, c) first hall called "the Holy Place", d) an inner sanctuary called "the Most Holy Place" where the Ark of the Covenant was housed.
The similarities between ancient Egypt's temples and Judaism's designs are too similar to dismiss. I conclude those who left Egypt in the exodus brought with them Egypt's temple designs.
• 2) Animal sacrifice is another similarity I propose was brought out of Egypt in the exodus.
"...some of the earliest archeological evidence suggesting animal sacrifice comes from Egypt." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sacrifice
• 3) Lastly, in agreement with Sigmund Freud noted above, I propose Jewish monotheism (worship of one god) was also brought out of Egypt by the migrants who left in the exodus.
Monotheism from Egypt? Wasn't Egypt polytheistic, worshipping multiple deities?
Not always. Egypt had briefly experimented with the worship of one God who was without form. And this period of monotheism in Egypt lines-up perfectly with the time of the exodus.
Egypt's brief experiment with monotheism
There was a brief period in Egypt's history when monotheism flourished. This was during the reign of Akhenaten, around the middle 1300's BC.
Prior to this, Egypt had always practiced polytheism. But Akhenaten reformed Egyptian religion, focusing on one god instead - "Aten" - who was elevated to supreme god, and "the sole god of the Egyptian state religion". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aten
There is much debate over exactly how monotheism was practiced during that time. As Wikipedia explains - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Akhenaten :
"The views of Egyptologists differ as to whether the religious policy was absolutely monotheistic, or whether it was monolatristic, syncretistic, or henotheistic.[14][15] This culture shift away from traditional religion was reversed after his death."
For this post, it does not matter how narrow or how broad Akhenaten's monotheism really was. What matters in this discussion is that Akhenaten's reign was an interruption in Egypt's religious system. Akhenaten reformed Egyptian religion, which did not sit well with the traditional priestly class.
After Akhenaten died, Egypt returned to its previous religious system. Akhenaten was vilified, his images chiselled and defaced. Wikipedia adds:
"They discredited Akhenaten and his immediate successors and referred to Akhenaten as "the enemy" or "that criminal" in archival records."
This is why today he is described as "the heretic king", referencing how he was considered after his death.
The exodus was an expulsion
I propose Moses was a high ranking member of Akhenaten's court, perhaps even a prince as the Old Testament describes him. Moses likely took over the leadership of the population of monotheists after Akhenaten died.
As Wikipedia notes (already quoted above) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Akhenaten :
"Freud argued that Moses had been an Atenist priest [a priest of the god "Aten"] who was forced to leave Egypt with his followers after Akhenaten's death."
I conclude these were the migrants who left Egypt in the exodus. They were Egyptians who practiced monotheism, lead by their high priest, Moses - who was also an Egyptian, and priest of the god "Aten".
The monotheists had become unwelcome in the land of Egypt which had returned to polytheism. Akhenaten's son - the famous King Tut - even changed his name to disassociate himself from his father and the monotheism he had introduced. King Tut's original name was Tutankhaten, which he changed to Tutankhamun after Akhenaten's death.
As Wikipedia explains - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tutankhamun :
"The cult of the god Amun at Thebes was restored to prominence and the royal couple changed their names to "Tutankhamun" and "Ankhesenamun", removing the -aten suffix."
The suffix at the end of their names indicated whom they worshiped, or the god they were associated with. Akhenaten's suffix was "aten", taken from the god "Aten" whom he associated himself with. Tutankhamun's suffix was "amun", taken from the god "Amun" whom he associated himself with.
King Tut thus changed his name to show he was not connected to Akhenaten or the monotheists who worshipped Aten. Egypt's brief experiment with monotheism was over.
Clearly there was a lot of hatred for that brief experimentation with monotheism. What would the atmosphere have been like for the followers of that monotheistic system after Akhenaten died? I imagine there would have been widespread persecution, or at the very least, discrimination.
I propose this lead to the expulsion of a large mass of people out of Egypt in the exodus. They were the monotheists of Egypt - composed mostly of Egyptians, but likely included foreigners living in Egypt who also practiced the monotheism introduced by Akhenaten.
Moses led this group of fellow monotheists out of an angry Egypt that clearly resented the upheaval Akhenaten had brought to Egyptian life. It must have been a forced expulsion, for they were driven into the desert where they were left to roam and fend for themselves. They would not have chosen to go there on their own.
The dates match
And the dates match. Akhenaten reigned from about 1352 to 1335 BC. Moses lived from about 1391 to 1271 BC. (The Bible writers claim he was 120 years old when he died. Could be true, I suppose.)
According to the Bible's account, Moses was 80 years of age at the time of the exodus, dating it to about 1311 BC. That somewhat fits, putting the exodus some 24 years after Akhenaten's death.
Personally, though, I do not see that it would have taken 24 years to expel a group of monotheists who were no longer welcome, whose founder (Akhenaten) was vilified, defamed, and so vehemently hated. I propose the monotheists were expelled right away, perhaps a year or two after Akhenaten's death.
King Tut - Akhenaten's son noted above - was only 6 years of age when Akhenaten died in 1335 BC, much too young to rule as Pharaoh on his own. It wasn't until 3 years later in 1332 BC when Tut finally ascended to the throne at the age of 9. During this brief interval of 3 years, Egypt's rulership was in contention. There was likely a power struggle. I propose it was during this 3-year period of upheaval when the monotheists were expelled.
Another link placing the exodus at the end of Akhenaten's life is a regional plague which struck Egypt and a large part of the Middle East during the last 5 years of Akhenaten's reign.
As Wikipedia explains - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Akhenaten :
"Following year twelve [of Akhenaten's 16-year reign], Donald B. Redford and other Egyptologists proposed that Egypt was struck by an epidemic, most likely a plague.[127] Contemporary evidence suggests that a plague ravaged through the Middle East around this time,[128] and ambassadors and delegations arriving to Akhenaten's year twelve reception might have brought the disease to Egypt.[129] Alternatively, letters from the Hattians might suggest that the epidemic originated in Egypt and was carried throughout the Middle East by Egyptian prisoners of war.[130] Regardless of its origin, the epidemic might account for several deaths in the royal family that occurred in the last five years of Akhenaten's reign, including those of his daughters Meketaten, Neferneferure, and Setepenre.[131][132]"
Sound familiar? The Bible's story of the exodus includes a plague which affected all of Egypt, killing even one of Pharaoh's children.
When Moses led the monotheists out of Egypt, he took with him many elements of the monotheistic system that Akhenaten had introduced. I propose this is why Moses' tabernacle looked so similar to Egyptian temples, with even more similarities showing up in Solomon's temple.
Joseph was Imhotep
Yet the Old Testament borrows more from Egypt than just its religious concepts. I propose it also borrows a very famous person... Imhotep.
Multiple similarities exist between Imhotep (a high ranking administrator in ancient Egypt) and the Biblical Joseph (who lived in Egypt before Moses). I propose, as many others do, that the Joseph of the Old Testament was based on Imhotep of ancient Egypt for 3 reasons:
• 1) Let's start with their names...
In "Imhotep", the 1st vowel is "i", the 2nd vowel is "o", the 3rd vowel is "e", followed by a "p".
The name Joseph in Tiberian Hebrew is "Yoseph", and in Aramaic is "Yosep". In both cases, the 1st vowel is "y" (pronounced as short-"i"), the 2nd vowel is "o", the 3rd vowel is "e", followed by a "p" - just as in "Imhotep".
Even the "t" in Imhotep and the "s" in Yosep use similar movements of the tongue.
• 2) Next, their status...
Imhotep occupied a very lofty position in Egyptian court. He was "chancellor to the Pharaoh Djoser, possible architect of Djoser's step pyramid, and high priest of the sun god Ra at Heliopolis". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imhotep
Joseph, for his part, is described in the Bible as having been elevated to the 3rd highest position in Egypt.
• 3) Finally, their great works...
"Imhotep was one of the chief officials of the Pharaoh Djoser. Concurring with much later legends, Egyptologists credit him with the design and construction of the Pyramid of Djoser, a step pyramid at Saqqara built during the 3rd Dynasty. [17] He may also have been responsible for the first known use of stone columns to support a building.[18]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imhotep
Similarly, the Bible describes Joseph as having supervised the construction of numerous large stone granaries in which to store "all the grain of Egypt".
Though granaries and pyramids differ in design, we have to acknowledge the similarity... both men were in charge of building massive stone structures.
Also, to the Israelites living after the exodus, when the Old Testament was written, the pyramids of Egypt likely looked to them like the remains of giant granaries of long ago. Thus, where the ancient Egyptians credited Imhotep with constructing pyramids, the Israelites credited Joseph with constructing the same structures - which they thought were old ruined granaries.
Yet there is one gaping hole in this theory that Joseph was Imhotep... they lived in different time periods. Imhotep lived in the 2600's BC (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imhotep), while Joseph lived in the 1800's BC.
Indeed, they lived centuries apart. But let's keep in mind that the writers of the Old Testament did not have such detailed information as archeologists have today. The writers may have placed Joseph in the wrong century, but they were right to place him a few hundred years before the exodus... just as Imhotep also lived centuries before the exodus.
The Old Testament writers were also correct in the phonetics of the name, the occupation, the works, and the elevated position of importance. I propose the Old Testament writers took Imhotep and claimed him as their own as Joseph.
Claiming Egyptians and others as their own
We can see why the writers of the Old Testament wanted to claim Imhotep as their own, as an Israelite.
Between 1550 and 1077 BC (which overlapped the time of the exodus), Imhotep was worshipped as a "demigod" - one of only a handful of non-royals ever to be deified. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imhotep) He was the equivalent of today's superstar. To claim Imhotep as a fellow Israelite gave them a tremendous boost of pride.
They also claimed Moses as their own. As the Old Testament account goes, Moses was born an Israelite, was sent adrift on a river to escape slaughter, was rescued by an Egyptian princess, and was raised as a prince in Egypt's court.
They also claimed Abraham as one of their forefathers, a Mesopotamian who lived in the city of Ur by the lower Euphrates river near the Persian Gulf.
Noah, too, was claimed as an even more distant forefather, when in fact the story of Noah, the ark, and the flood were copied from the ancient Sumerian text "The Epic of Gilgamesh". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epic_of_Gilgamesh
In The Epic of Gilgamesh, the Sumerian king Uta-napishtim survived a flood by building a large vessel which he filled with animals. As Wikipedia explains - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Utnapishtim :
"The story of Uta-napishtim has drawn scholarly comparisons due to the similarities between it and the storylines about Noah in the Bible."
But why did the Israelites claim all of these people as their own?
• The ancient-Sumerian Uta-napishtim (whom they renamed Noah),
• the late-Sumerian Abram of Ur (whom they renamed Abraham),
• the ancient-Egyptian Imhotep (whom they renamed Joseph),
• and the later-Egyptian Moses?
I propose it was to give the Israelites a sense of national identity. They were about to form a new nation.
Forming a new nation after Babylon
In 597 BC, Babylon besieged Jerusalem, taking several thousand Israelites captive to Babylonia. More Israelite captives were taken during the following 10 years. In 587 BC, Jerusalem and its temple were ultimately destroyed. Israel was no longer a nation; its people were captives in Babylon. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Babylonian_captivity
Nearly 50 years later, in 539 BC, Persian king Cyrus the Great and his armies conquered Babylon. As per his tradition, he benevolently released captives.
"Cyrus was particularly renowned among contemporary scholars because of his habitual policy of respecting peoples' customs and religions in the lands that he conquered." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyrus_the_Great
The Israelites were about to be freed. We can picture Cyrus' officials gathering the Israelite priests and leaders together, telling them to prepare themselves for their return back to their homeland west of the Jordan River.
After nearly 60 years in captivity, the Israelites needed to organize themselves into a new nation. They needed laws, a history, and a national identity. I propose this is when the first section of the Old Testament - the Torah - was written... in 539 BC in Babylon, just before returning to their ancestral land west of the Jordan River.
The Torah comprises the first 5 books of the Old Testament - Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy.
What makes this significant for the Israelites living in Babylon is that these 5 books cover everything they need in forming a new nation - a national history, a code of laws, a structured religion, and a pact with God for his protection - as explained in Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torah :
• Of the book of Genesis:
"At God's command ... Abraham journeys from his home [in Mesopotamia] into the ... land of Canaan. ... The narrative is punctuated by a series of covenants with God..."
This book was important, as it paralleled the journey the Israelites were about to make, leaving Babylon (which was Mesopotamia) on their way to the land of Canaan - just like Abraham had done himself some 1,200 years before. Yet they ought not be fearful, for they were the beneficiaries of multiple covenants with God.
• Of the book of Exodus:
"...modern scholarship sees the book as initially a product of the Babylonian exile, 6th century BC..."
In other words, it was initially compiled in Babylon during Israelite captivity.
"Carol Meyers, in her commentary on Exodus, suggests that it is arguably the most important book in the Bible, as it presents the defining features of Israel's identity: memories of a past marked by hardship and escape, a binding covenant with God, ... and the establishment of the life of the community and the guidelines for sustaining it.[31]"
In other words, the book of Exodus gave the Israelites valuable guidelines to forming a new nation.
• Of the book of Leviticus:
"...rules of clean and unclean ... the laws of slaughter and animals permissible to eat ... various moral and ritual laws ... a detailed list of rewards for following God's commandments and a detailed list of punishments for not following them."
In other words, Leviticus instructs the Israelites on matters of worship, cleanliness, and diet. Again, important information for a people about to form a new nation.
• Of the book of Numbers:
"Numbers is the culmination of the story of Israel's exodus from oppression in Egypt and their journey to take possession of the land God promised their fathers."
This parallels their situation at that time, in 539 BC, as they too were about to leave oppression in Babylon on their journey back to take possession of the same land.
• Of the book of Deuteronomy:
"One of its most significant verses is Deuteronomy 6:4 ... which has become the definitive statement of Jewish identity: "Hear, O Israel: the LORD our God, the LORD is one."
In other words, the Israelites leaving Babylon were reminded of their most identifying characteristic... their monotheism.
Borrowing from Babylon
Yet in preparing the first 5 books of the Old Testament - the Torah - the Israelite priests in Babylon borrowed much from Babylon itself.
They borrowed details from Babylonian creation stories, and copied the flood story from the Epic of Gilgamesh. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gilgamesh_flood_myth
They also added a code of laws copied from Babylonian laws, as noted in Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hammurabi :
"The Code of Hammurabi and the Law of Moses in the Torah contain numerous similarities."
Hammurabi was a king of ancient Babylon in the 1700's BC, some 400 years before Moses' time, and 1,200 years before the Israelites resided in Babylon. It wasn't really the Law of Moses, but the Code of Hammurabi - tailored, customized, and re-branded as the Law of Moses when the Torah was written in Babylon.
Preparing for the journey home
The purpose for compiling the first 5 books of the Old Testament was quite simply to prepare the Israelites living in Babylon for their journey back home.
This is why they referred to the land they were returning to as "the Promised Land", "a land flowing with milk and honey", and their "inheritance".
This is why the Torah contained examples of others who had left one land to go to another. Through the stories of Abraham and Moses, the idea of leaving behind a land they knew to go to a land they did not know was packaged and presented to the Israelites living in Babylon - who were now being asked to do the same thing themselves.
Abraham was born and raised in Ur, near the southern Euphrates river in Mesopotamia. That's the land of Babylon, the same land the Israelites were now living in. Yet he moved out of that land and went to the land west of the Jordan River, and the account tells how God blessed him for it.
In the time of Moses, a great many Israelites were born and raised in Egypt. Yet they moved out of that land and went to the land west of the Jordan River, and the account tells how God blessed them for it.
Do we see the recurring theme? After more than 50 years in captivity, most of the original captives were no longer alive. By the time of their release in 539-538 BC, most Israelites had been born and raised in Babylon. Babylon was the only land they knew. Most did not know the land to which they were going, west of the Jordan River.
But if Abraham and his family living in Mesopotamia did it, if Moses and the Israelites living in Egypt did it - that is, left a land they knew to go to a land they did not know - and it went well for them... then it would also go well for the Israelites being asked to leave Babylon, the only land most of them knew, to go to a land almost none of them knew.
And thus, I propose... The Old Testament was written to organize the Israelites exiled in Babylon into a new nation, encouraging them to pack their belongings and go to the land west of the Jordan River with zeal and courage.
This is why they took several persons from other cultures and made them their own... including Uta-napishtim (whom they renamed Noah), Abram (whom they renamed Abraham), Imhotep (whom they renamed Joseph), and Moses - giving them a sense of national identity and pride.
Many of the Old Testament's accounts, laws, and people were adopted from external sources, modified, tweaked, and repackaged to give the Israelites courage on their return to "the land of their forefathers" and the "Promised Land" - a testament and promise that God would be with them just as He was with Abraham and Moses and all the families who made similar moves so very long before.
I contend...
Yet I contend the most important piece of information was withheld from the Israelites living in Babylon... that their religion was started by an ancient Pharaoh of Egypt whom they did not even know... Akhenaten.
I contend their leader Moses was not of Israelite descent, but was Egyptian, a high priest of the Egyptian god Aten.
I contend the early Israelites were not descended from Abram of Ur of Mesopotamia, but were descended from Egyptians, monotheists who were expelled from Egypt when the founder of their religion - Akhenaten - died.
I contend the Israelites were first told they descended from Abram in 539 BC when the Torah was written, as they prepared to resettle west of the Jordan River. I further contend the only reason they were told they descended from Abram of Ur was to draw a parallel between Abram's leaving the land of Sumer (same land as Babylon) to go west of the Jordan - just as the Israelites were being asked to leave Babylon to go west of the Jordan in 539 BC.
I contend Jewish religion was shaped by Babylonian mythology, and their nation was built on Babylonian laws. I further contend had the Israelites not been taken captive into Babylon, they would not have had the law code they had, nor the same story of creation, nor the story of Noah's flood - for these were all Babylonian.
Even their temple and their monotheism were not entirely theirs, but were Egyptian.
As much as I cherish the ancient wisdom found in both the Old and New Testaments of the Bible, I must draw attention to the religion's origins... it originated in Egypt, with significant restructuring in Babylon.
Joseph Cafariello
PS... (June 9, 2024):
This section is to support my claim that Abraham was not known by the Israelites prior to the end of their Babylonian captivity, prior to 539 BC when the Torah and the bulk of the Old Testament were compiled.
As I explain in my post, I contend the stories of Abraham, Noah, and creation were derived from Babylonian sources, and were inserted into the Old Testament in 539 BC when it was compiled.
When preparing the Torah in 539 BC, the priests gathered together their sacred books and texts and compiled them together. These included the Book of Jasher, the Book of The Wars of the Lord, the Chronicles of the Kings of Israel and Judah, the Annals of King David, the Acts of Solomon, and many others. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-canonical_books_referenced_in_the_Bible
They also gathered the books of the prophets, such as Isaiah and others, and combined them with the newly written Torah to form the first version of the Old Testament, which was later expanded after their return to their homeland.
When compiling these dozens of works into one single work, I contend the Old Testament writers added stories from Babylonian sources, including the creation story, the flood story, and adapted portions of the law code of Hammurabi. I contend this is when Abraham appears in scripture for the first time - in 539 BC, as the Israelites were preparing to leave Babylon to resettle in their homeland.
To support my claim that Abraham made his first appearance in scripture in 539 BC, we need only look at the references made to Abraham in the Old Testament, and where these references are. Let us examine them...
The vast majority of the references made to Abraham appear in the Torah, the first 5 books of the Bible, which I have already supported in my post as having been written in 539 BC. Hence, none of the references to Abraham in the Torah refute my claim that Abraham made his first appearance in scripture in 539 BC.
Outside the Torah, there are the following references to Abraham to consider (I am using the Old Testament as it appears in the Bible):
• 2 references in the book of Joshua:
"It is not known when the Book was written... Some scholars believe it was written ... in 550 BC, at the time of the Babylonian exile, when there was a desire to remember and retell their own history." https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Joshua
I contend Joshua was also compiled in 539 BC, as multiple older texts were consulted and copied in order to establish a record of Israel's history. In either case... 550 or 539 BC, the 2 references to Abraham in the book of Joshua do not refute my claim that Abraham made his first appearance toward the end of Babylonian captivity.
• Multiple references in the books of Kings and Chronicles:
As I already noted above, numerous books and chronicles of the kings were consulted in 539 BC in Babylon when the bulk of the Old Testament was compiled. Thus, these references to Abraham in the books of Kings and Chronicles do not refute my claim of Abraham's late appearance in 539 BC.
• 1 reference in Nehemiah:
This one is easy, since the book describes the reconstruction of Jerusalem after Babylonian captivity. Hence, it does not refute my claim of Abraham's late insertion into scripture.
• 4 references in the Psalms:
"While many of the psalms contain attributions to the name of King David and other Biblical figures including Asaph, the sons of Korah, and Solomon, David's authorship is not accepted by most modern Bible scholars, who instead attribute the composition of the psalms to various authors writing between the 9th and 5th centuries BC. ... the book was probably compiled and edited into its present form during the post-exilic period in the 5th century BC.[5]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psalms
Psalms is similar to the books of Kings and Chronicles noted above, which were compiled along with other scripture in Babylon in 539 BC. And here too, references to Abraham do not refute my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
• 4 references in Isaiah:
"... there is evidence that much of it was composed during the Babylonian captivity and later.[2] Johann Christoph Döderlein suggested in 1775 that the book contained the works of two prophets separated by more than a century,[3] and Bernhard Duhm originated the view, held as a consensus through most of the 20th century, that the book comprises three separate collections of oracles:[4][5] Proto-Isaiah (chapters 1–39), containing the words of the 8th-century BC prophet Isaiah; Deutero-Isaiah, or "the Book of Consolation",[6] (chapters 40–55), the work of an anonymous 6th-century BCE author writing during the Exile; and Trito-Isaiah (chapters 56–66), composed after the return from Exile.[7]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Isaiah
3 of the references to Abraham in Isaiah are located in chapters 41, 51 and 63. As noted in the Wikipedia reference above, these chapters are considered to have been written during and after Babylonian captivity, and thus do not refute my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
The one remaining reference to Abraham in Isaiah appears in chapter 29. This may very well be the only reference to Abraham which refutes my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
However, we must be aware that the scribes compiling the scriptures in 539 BC consulted dozens upon dozens of scrolls and manuscripts, which they made mention of by name. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-canonical_books_referenced_in_the_Bible
Edits and additions were absolutely needed to make sense of the works which were all being compiled into one work for the first time. Since not all of their material was in sequential order, gaps in the record needed to be filled by the scribes at the time the works were being blended together into one single work in 539 BC. We can easily see how this one reference to Abraham could have been added to Isaiah 29 in the year 539 BC, in the interest of harmonizing such a large quantity of scrolls into one work.
• 1 reference in Jeremiah:
"It is generally agreed that the three types of material interspersed through the book – poetic, narrative, and biographical – come from different sources or circles.[16] Authentic oracles of Jeremiah are probably to be found in the poetic sections of chapters 1-25, but the book as a whole has been heavily edited and added to by followers (including perhaps the prophet's companion, the scribe Baruch) and later generations of Deuteronomists.[5] The date of the final versions of the book (Greek and Hebrew) can be suggested by the fact that the Greek shows concerns typical of the early Persian period, while the Masoretic (i.e., Hebrew) shows perspectives which, although known in the Persian period, did not reach their realisation until the 2nd century BCE.[7]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Jeremiah
In other words, the book of Jeremiah can be divided into 3 sections - poetic, narrative, and biographical - each written by different people. As the quote mentions, "the book as a whole has been heavily edited and added to".
Chapters 1-25 are likely the original portion written by Jeremiah (or others of his time) around the beginning of the Babylonian captivity period. But the 1 reference to Abraham appears in chapter 33, in the section that was added later.
How much later could these additions have been made? Two versions of the book exist - one in Greek, the other in Hebrew.
The Greek version "shows concerns typical of the early Persian period" - which is after Babylonian captivity. Cyrus the Great who freed the Israelites from Babylon was king of Persia. The "early Persian period" refers to the period shortly after Israel's release from Babylon.
The Hebrew version "shows perspectives which, although known in the Persian period, did not reach their realization until the 2nd century BCE".
Both versions of the book of Jeremiah, therefore, can be dated to after Babylonian captivity at the earliest. Thus, the 1 reference to Abraham in the book of Jeremiah does not refute my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
• 1 reference in Ezekiel:
"The Book of Ezekiel describes itself as the words of Ezekiel ben-Buzi, a priest living in exile in the city of Babylon between 593 and 571 BC. Most scholars today ... see in it significant additions by a school of later followers of the original prophet. According to Jewish tradition, the Men of the Great Assembly wrote the Book of Ezekiel, based on the prophet's words.[16] ... it is the product of a long and complex history and does not necessarily preserve the very words of the prophet.[2]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Ezekiel
Here again we have a book with "significant additions by ... later followers". And such additions "[do] not necessarily preserve the very words of the prophet". Here too, this reference to Abraham does not refute my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
• 1 reference in Micah:
"Some, but not all, scholars accept that only chapters 1–3 contain material from the late 8th century prophet Micah.[10] The latest material comes from the post-exilic period after the temple was rebuilt in 515 BCE, so that the early 5th century BCE seems to be the period when the book was completed.[14] ... Still later ... the book was revised and expanded further to reflect the circumstances of the late exilic and post-exilic community.[17]" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Micah
In other words, only the first 3 chapters can be dated to the prophet Micah's century (8th BC). The remainder of the book was "revised and expanded" in the late Babylonian captivity and post-Babylonian captivity periods.
Where is Micah's one reference to Abraham? In chapter 7 - the portion of additions. Thus, here too, this reference to Abraham does not refute my claim that Abraham first appeared in scripture in 539 BC.
Of all these references to Abraham, only one could possibly refute my claim that Abraham was invented and inserted into scripture in 539 BC in Babylon at the time the Torah and other early Old Testament books were compiled.
Only one exception to my claim? For such an important figure as Abraham? The one who received the promise?
Indeed, there is only one reference that could possibly prove Abraham was known to the Israelites prior to 539 BC. Yet, as I considered above, even this one reference could have been an addition inserted at the time all these sources were consulted in the writing of the Old Testament in Babylon in 539 BC.
Given the absence of any other pre-539 BC reference to Abraham, I still must contend Abraham was "invented" and added into scripture for the first time in 539 BC, for the sole purpose of drawing a parallel between Abram's leaving the land of Sumer (same land as Babylon) to go west of the Jordan - just as the Israelites were being asked to leave Babylon to go west of the Jordan in 539 BC., as I describe in the last section of my post.
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2024.06.10 07:36 Weathers_Writing What Looks In

I'm writing this as a warning.
This warning only applies to those who are sleeping in a house / apartment / enclosed space with another person.
If you wake up between the hours of 2 AM and 4 AM to the sound of your door opening, beware. The person who looks in may appear to be another member of your household: a parent / roommate / guest, but that’s only a facade.
The thing masquerading as a person will stare in at you for 5 to 7 seconds. If you acknowledge its presence, it will come for you. If you shift in your bed too noticeably, it will come for you. If you get up and turn on the lights, it will come for you.
You must remain perfectly still and quiet. Pretend like you're asleep. And whatever you do, if you see it enter your room… Don't struggle.
Struggling only makes it worse.
***
The above was copied from the front page of Maddie’s digital notepad collection, titled, “THEYRE WATCHING ME,” which was collected by police shortly after her and her roommate Rebecca's sudden disappearance a few days ago. The following logs were from the same notepad.
Note 1
It’s currently 5AM and I just had the scariest experience. I’m not sure if I’ll ever show this to anyone, but in case I do, I’ll give you some context.
My name is Maddie. I’m 24 and living in [redacted] Wisconsin. I live in one of those two-story house apartments: the ones where you have an anteroom with the mailboxes, then you walk in and there’s like 4 doors to different living spaces. I live in room “B” with my roommate Michelle.
Michelle and I both graduated from [redacted] one year ago and decided to find work in the local area. We were actually in the same sorority—that’s how we met—so rooming together to save money was a no-brainer. The only concern I had at the time was her boyfriend, Nick, who was attached at her hip. But she said he wouldn’t be a problem (meaning he wouldn’t be our third roommate) and luckily he found his own place the two of them could rendezvous at. I’m not sure why they didn’t just move in together, it’s not like they’re waiting till marriage or anything, but I guess that’s a question for another time.
I went to sleep around midnight after watching a few episodes of Bridgerton. I’m the type of person who can’t sleep if there’s even a wink of light on in the room, so after I turned off the TV, I laid a book up against the blue dot which was permanently embedded into the bottom of the TV panel. Then I made sure the blackout curtains were covering the window completely. I saw Michelle in the hall and asked her if she was going to sleep. She yawned and said she was, then she went into her room and closed the door. I did the same.
I put my phone up to charge and turned it over so the “charging” light was facing the nightstand. Then I slipped under the sheets (a comforter, two normal bedsheets, and a weighted blanket,) and turned off the lamp. It had been a long day of work, and there was another one waiting for me tomorrow. Before I knew it, I had drifted off.
In my dream, I remember running away from something. I’m not sure what was chasing me, but I was overcome with a sense of fear, and the knowledge that if it caught me, it would eat my soul.
Then I heard something. At first I attributed it to the dream, and I tried to figure out what the assailant was doing, but then I realized I was awake. The world around me was pitch black, as usual, and I was about to turn and check the time on my phone when I saw the bluish-white tint of the hallway night-light reflecting off the wall in front of me. Michelle and I had installed that light so we could see in the hallway should we wake up at night and need to pee. And now it was lighting up my room…
Which means someone opened my door.
And not just opened it. As I stared half-delirious at the wall, I realized there was a body-shaped shadow hovering in the center of the light. Someone was standing in the doorway, watching me.
I stayed absolutely still. My mind raced through the potential scenarios. Was it Michelle? Doubtful. She wasn’t the type to joke around like that. An intruder? Maybe, but why just stand there? Could it be that Nick had stayed over and . . . and, what?
Just then, I heard the most awful creaking sound, as if thousand-year-old hinges were whining shut. I saw the blue light fade from the wall, and then with a click, it was gone. The entire world fell completely dark. Completely silent. And the only thing I could think was…
Did they come into the room?
It’s around this time I noticed my bladder was full, but I held it, remaining in a perfectly petrified state for hours until I built up the courage to move. I reached for my phone, half-expecting to feel a hand grip mine as it left the safety of the mattress. But I was able to pick it up and check the time. I considered using the flashlight, but I was still too scared to look around. So I watched some Tik Tok videos, trying to take my mind off my full bladder, but it was on the verge of exploding. I stood up, fully intent on marching into the hall, but after two steps I thought I saw a witch’s face in the darkness, so I immediately jumped back into bed and piled the covers over my head. I’m writing this now from the safety of my little blanket bubble. I don’t have to pee anymore. And I’m already loathing the idea of going to work on basically no sleep. Maybe I’ll call in. Hell, maybe I’ll just stay here all day. I feel like I should confront Michelle, but to be honest, I’m afraid.
I’m more afraid than I’ve ever been in my whole life.
Note 2
So I ended up staying home. Let me explain.
After I heard Michelle head into the kitchen, I decided it would be as good a time as any to leave my dream fortress. I was more tired than scared at that point and frankly a little angry that I had let what was probably my imagination rob me from a good night's rest.
When I reached the kitchen, I saw Michelle bent over with half of her body inside the refrigerator. I had a sudden, disturbing feeling that this wasn't Michelle, and when she popped out of the fridge, her face would be missing. The only explanation I have for my feeling is the dream from the previous night. Whatever was chasing me didn't have a face. That's why it wanted to eat me and take mine.
But when she pulled out a carton of eggs and some shredded cheese, her face was perfectly intact. "Oh, hey Maddie," she said, surprised. Then she smirked and said, "Were you checking me out?"
The sudden snap of Michelle's whimsical personality broke open the dam of tension that had been erected last night and I burst out laughing. It took a solid minute for me to be able to get a handle on it, in which time Michelle asked me if I was okay (twice), then started laughing herself, then came over to pat me on the back, then laughed again (this time anxiously), and then finally started the whole loop over.
"I'm okay," I said, and held my hand up to wave an invisible white flag. "I just—" I started, but suddenly my mouth was filling up with hot saliva. I hardly had time to react. I took three steps toward the kitchen sink and spewed acidic chunks all over the floor, then the counter, and finally down the sink drain.
While Michelle helped me clean up the mess (which I told her she didn't need to do, but she insisted), I asked her if Nick had come over the prior night.
"No. As far as I know he was at his place. Why?" Michelle asked.
"Oh, no reason," I said. I hesitated telling Michelle because I honestly felt a little ridiculous admitting that I had ruined a whole night's sleep over a fear of the dark. But after a second to think about it, I realized I did want my friend to know. "I mean, there was this thing that happened last night."
"Thing?" Michelle raised an eyebrow.
"Yeah, I thought someone had opened my door in the middle of the night. I work up and—you know the blue hall-light? It was projecting into my room. I even swear I saw someone in the doorway, watching me. Then I heard the door close, and I was so afraid that I couldn't sleep all night."
"You didn't sleep?"
"Not a wink."
"Oh, Mads. That sounds horrible. But I swear Nick wasn't here. Unless he's become a secret stalker. And I hope you don't think I'd do something like that."
"No, I know you wouldn't. I just—I don't know. It was so vivid."
"Well, how about you take the day off. You've been working lots of overtime lately. You're clearly not well. When I get back tonight, I'll bring some soup and we can watch some movies. How does that sound?"
"That sounds great Michelle. You're the best."
Note 3
Holy fuck.
I ended up taking a nap then waiting for Michelle to get home. She arrived around 8:30 PM, and when I asked her, she said she'd stopped by to see Nick. She also forgot the soup, but that's a little point.
The big point is that, after watching our movies, we both went to bed. I was confident that the whole incident the night before had been a case of a bad nightmare mixing with reality, so with the aid of 5mg of melatonin, I was asleep a little after 1 AM.
I recall having the same dream as the night before. This time, the faceless person got closer. I was running through an empty office that was built like a labyrinth, with random assortments of cubicles—all empty except for me and the monster chasing after me. I would turn a corner into a new room, this one without any dividers, and immediately scout out the next exit. Just as I made it to the other side of the room, I saw the thing enter. My heart was pounding.
And then I heard my door open. Somehow, I had turned so that I was facing my door this time, and the blue hall light beaming into my eyes. I stared, completely breathless, as the figure from last night stepped into the doorway. I wanted to scream, but for some reason, I couldn't move. I was absolutely petrified. And my fear only increased when I saw the figure's head enter into the room, its long neck protruding, its expression leering. With the light in the background, its face was almost purely black—faceless—except, it wasn't. I could make out some features. And that's when I noticed her hair. She had a pixie cut, the same way Michelle styled it. And then, as her head retracted, I saw the silhouette of Michelle's chain earring.
My heart was thumping in my throat. I couldn't believe it really was Michelle. How could she do something like that and lie about it so easily? I wanted to get up and confront her right away, but I couldn't. I was still absolutely petrified. And a little voice in the back of my head was still saying: maybe it's not her. Maybe that thing just looks like her.
But that's crazy talk.
Right?
Note 4
Well now I have no idea what's going on.
Michelle barged into my room this morning and claimed I had looked into her room. I assured her that she was the one who looked in my room, but that accusation was only met with a sneer and a "don't pull that shit again, Maddie." Then she slammed my door shut. I tried going after her, but she grabbed a banana and was out the door before I could stop her to talk things through.
The weight of everything that has been happening really made it impossible for me to function at work. I was effectively two days behind on my e-file and decided to stay a few hours late to try and make up as much as I could. I'm pretty sure that I'm a certifiable insomniac at this point, but what am I supposed to do? Now my own roommate and best friend had turned on me. And worse, she was accusing me of doing something she did. Or at least I think she did. Honestly, I'm not ruling anything out at this point.
I decided to stay over at my other friend's house tonight. Her name's Shelby, and she lives with her husband, Tony, and their three dogs. Yeah, they moved pretty quick. They were engaged by Junior year and sealed the deal the Summer after graduation. He is an electrician, so he's been making a steady income for a little over three years now, which is why he can afford to drop fifty grand on a downpayment for a mortgage.
Anyway, I told Shelby about what's been going on, and she's as freaked out as I am. She offered her guest room for as long as I need it. I thanked her but said it would probably just be a day, two at max, until I caught up on sleep.
I'm writing this now from the guest room. I'll admit, even here, in a house with two people and three dogs, I'm scared. Part of me hopes that it really is just Michelle trying to prank me, or even get under my skin. That would be a preferable explanation to any of the alternatives I've come up with. Maybe I'll tell you about those later. I'm so tired.
See you on the other side.
Note 5
It's been over a day since that last note. I'll try and recount everything as clearly as I can.
That night I stayed at Shelby's, I didn't have any dreams. Actually, my entire sleep felt very strange. I don't know if you've ever experienced this, but I felt like I was sleeping and not sleeping at the same time. Like, I was conscious of the fact that I was laying down, but I also couldn't move, and I felt like I was in a shallow sleep state.
I woke up the next morning basically feeling the same as when I'd gone to sleep. Maybe even worse. I felt restless, as if I'd been running around all night. When I went to the bathroom, I saw my eyes were bloodshot red, and there were two purple purses strapped underneath them. I took a cool shower, as my body felt extremely hot, then went to get dressed.
I didn't really notice anything until I went downstairs to get breakfast. I was expecting to meet Shelby and Tony at the kitchen table, but it was empty. Where did they go? I called for them, but no one answered. I checked my phone, but I didn't have any new messages. They were just… gone.
I ended up toasting a bagel and eating that on my way out. I was going to be late for work again. At this rate, I would be fired by next week. I sent Shelby a text thanking her again for hosting me. I considered asking her where she had been off so early, but I thought that might come across as rude, so I pulled that message and instead asked her to dinner, my treat.
By the time work ended, I hadn't received a text from Shelby and I was starting to get worried. I was just about to call her when my phone rang. It was Michelle.
"Michelle?" I answered.
"Hey, Mads. I—"
There was silence.
"Michelle? Hello? I think you cut out."
"No, sorry. I just… wanted to apologize. I miss you."
"Oh," I responded. "I miss you, too."
"Come home?"
I clicked my tongue. "Um, yes. I mean, I will, but I was about to call Shelby. Have you heard from her? I stayed over at her place last night and now I don't know where she's gone."
"Probably just went camping with Tony. You know they like their spontaneous trips."
"Sure…" I said doubtfully, "But, like I said, I stayed over. You'd think she'd at least send me a message letting me know where she was off to."
"It's Shelby, Mads. She's always off to somewhere."
I considered this. It was true that Shelby was known for being a bit sporadic, but this was definitely more than just sporadicism. And Michelle was being awfully pushy on the subject. Still, I did want to go home. I was exhausted, and I couldn't wait to sleep.
When I stepped in the door, Michelle was waiting for me on the couch. She was crying.
"What's wrong?" I asked.
She rushed up and hugged me. "It's Nick. We broke up."
"What!?" I shouted. "What do you mean you broke up? Who? Who broke up with who?"
"He broke up with me. He said he was interested in someone else."
"He said this today?"
"Yeah,"
"Oh, Michelle, I'm so sorry."
I stayed up with Michelle and listened to her spill her guts about the relationship, telling me all sorts of things I didn't know, and some things I could have gone without knowing. Neither of us wanted to be alone, so we slept on the couch together, both of us dozing off to a Netflix movie.
Or at least I thought that's what happened.
I woke up sometime in the middle of the night in my bed. I touched the spot to the left, then to the right of me, and I couldn't feel anything. Where's Michelle?
Then I heard her scream from outside my door. Her voice was trailing off, as if something were hauling her away. I got up and tried the knob, but it wouldn't open. I saw the blue light filtering through the crack underneath the door. It was faint, but there were footsteps moving in the light. I dropped down so my head was on the ground and stuck my eyeball in the crevice. I could make out two large, tree-trunk feet standing directly outside Michelle's door, but nothing else. I stood up and tried the handle again. It still wouldn't budge. This time I tried looking through the crack between the doorframe and the door itself. And what I saw through that tiny slit chilled me to the bone. The monster from my dream was standing there, holding my roommate up in the air, siphoning the life out of Michelle's face into her own blank visage. It was as if her entire face was a giant, toothless maw, gaping, sucking in the prey whole.
I didn't realize I was holding my phone, and when it dropped to the ground, I felt my soul flee my body. The monster stopped sucking my roommate's essence, and in an audible snap of its neck, its face rotated 90 degrees in my direction.
I backed away from the door, watching the two dark stumps grow larger in the blue light still seeping in along the carpet. I fell back down on my bed and watched in horror as the door knob twisted, and twisted, and… the door opened.
Michelle smiled at me from the doorway. She was definitely Michelle. There was not one imperfection in her facade. Yet I knew it was that monster. The monster had taken her appearance. I waited for the demon to take a step into my room, to come and take me the way it had taken Michelle, but it didn't. It only stood there, seemingly waiting for something. After seven seconds or so of absolute torture, the Michelle clone grabbed the knob with one hand, and with her other, she lifted her finger to her lips in shushing motion. Then she giggled and closed the door.
I was once again in the dark.
Note 6
Michelle was gone. And judging from the circumstances surrounding her disappearance, I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that Shelby and Tony might have had a run in with the demon as well. I sat on the couch for a long time, contemplating what I should do. If I was right, then the only common denominator in all three of their disappearances is me.
But why?
I looked in the mirror again and saw that my eyes were almost completely red. My teeth were also starting to yellow, and while I've never had any cavities, I could see quite a few hollowed out holes in my molars. My fingernails were growing much faster than normal. I had only cut them last week and now they were so long it seemed like I was wearing acrylics. Was I becoming a monster? Was I becoming that monster?
No, I couldn't take that.
I called my work and told them I was quitting. They didn't seem very surprised, moreso annoyed that I had spent a week calling out before I decided to just up and leave. I didn't stay on the line to explain my circumstances. I was too busy plotting for tonight. You see, if I really was this monster, then it wouldn't be able to hurt me without hurting itself. On the contrary, I could hurt others without knowing it. I had created a kind of blood pact with me somehow, and now it was tied to me. At least that was my working theory. So, I just needed to confront it and either bring it or myself close enough to death so that it was no longer worth staying fixed to me.
I gathered up the tools I thought I'd need, including every lumable appliance in the apartment (and some bonus lights from the store) all connected to a single switch, a knife (sharpened), a box of matches (just in case), and a whole bunch of caffeine pills. I set up the lights so they were facing the door. There were 3 LED lanterns, two remote spotlights, a halogen work light, and a bunch of Christmas lights which I used to decorate the ceiling. Then I took the sharpened butcher knife and placed it underneath the pillow next to me. Finally, I set the box of matches on the nightstand.
At around 9:00 PM I took a few caffeine pills. I didn't know if I actually needed to be asleep or not for the entity to come, but I was hoping if I feigned it, that would be enough. Especially because I think falling asleep is how it claims control over me.
I watched videos on my phone until around 1:30 in the morning. Despite the caffeine, my eyes were starting to feel heavy. It took a conscious effort to keep my eyelids from shutting, and when they shut, it felt like climbing up a hill to open them back up. Another ten minutes passed. Then another ten minutes. Then I was counting single minutes, then seconds. Then…
I was back in the office, standing by the vending machine, when all the lights went out.
"Hello?" I called out.
But there was no answer. I waited to see if the lights would come back on, but instead I heard the sound of footsteps shuffling maybe ten feet in front of me. They were running away from me. Further and further, into the next room.
"Hello?" I called again.
The footsteps froze. Then, slowly, they walked back in my direction. A nice, slow walk. Then a speed walk. And then they were sprinting at full speed directly at me.
I shot up in bed and saw the faceless figure staring at me from the doorway. This time it didn't have a facade.
"Got you, bitch," I scorned and pressed the switch, activating all of the lights. They turned on in a glorious beam, and I saw the faceless demon actually recoil from them and back up into the hallway. I ran to the door and slammed it shut.
It's been maybe ten minutes since I scared the thing away. At least I know its weakness now. I think… hang on, I still hear it behind the door. What is it doing?
The following is a voice recording saved to Maddie's phone at approx 3:17 AM:
Guys, can you hear me? I don't know if I'll be able to write this, so I want you to listen. I'm going to try and kill it.
[Door banging in distance]
You hear that? It's trying to get in. The bitch forgot I have light. I—hang on, the lights are flickering. Fuck, what's happening?
[Door banging gets louder]
Shit, okay, plan B.
[Shuffling sounds]
Okay, I got the knife. I'm going to see if hurting myself will work.
[Door slams open and lights audibly click off]
Take this! Ow, ow—damn, that hurts.
[Lights click back on]
Oh, shit, it's not—wh—what is it doing? Oh, it's laughing.
[Laughter audible as low gurgling sound]
Yeah? Well laugh at this, bitch.
[Strikes match, flares. Entity releases an anguished roar]
Yeah, back the fuck up. I mean it. Back up. Back—
[Enraged roar. The lights click off again. The sound of furniture crashing against the walls]
Hey, cut that out. Cu—
[High pitched whirring sound]
No—please, no. Not that
[silence, followed by gurgling sounds]
[sounds of flame billowing]
Audio cuts out
***
The police responded to a 9-1-1 call at 3:46 AM claiming their neighbor's apartment was on fire. The fire department showed up and confirmed this at around 3:54 AM. The fire was promptly extinguished, and rescue men entered the premises, looking for survivors. There were no bodies found.
Maddie's phone and laptop were recovered from the wreck, and after searching both for clues as to her whereabouts, these files were found. The most eerie thing about the files is that they make repeated mention to a "Michelle", who was supposedly Maddie's roommate, but multiple other sources, including both victim's parents, have told us that Maddie's roommate was Rebecca [redacted], leading to confusion as to who Michelle really was. Or if there really was a Michelle at all. Which begs the question:
Who was looking into Maddie's room?
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2024.06.10 07:33 Evening_Profile_6096 Did i do something wrong ? [I(28F) left my bf(30M) after 2 years of being together in an (LDR)] ?

Why do I feel so unsettled? Did I do anything wrong?
Its been a couple of months since my break up. I left him after 2 years of being together. (LDR ) But I wanna know what i did wrong. I gave him love, communicated openly like he wanted, but got treated like shit for it. I sent him a video of our favorite hang out spot. (before entering the relationship) For which i again received shit, along the lines that I'm romanticizing stuff. Well who doesn't have disagreements with their partner? of course there were bad bits but there were good bits too. Its upto us what we choose to see? I told him to focus on the good memories, the memories that brought us closer. But he said i was just focusing on the good shit and not remembering the bad. to which i replied why would i? the bad was insignificant and the good brought us closer. well, I slid this conversation then. But i felt bad because he turned a good gesture into something so awful.
There were other things too which i let slide, I told him i was traveling and have travel anxiety and that i was traveling after 11 years. I am an independent working woman. I was able to manage my anxiety very well. But as a partner what should've my bf done? at least asked if i was okay? or "have a safe journey" "did ya eat" ? Well i didn't get anything.
I came back home i asked if he'd missed me. "oh i was caught up with work". and i did tell him about all the above that i felt bad. and was still feeling that way. But i get "Not everything is about you".
He called me, and even though what happened(above) bothered me, he was feeling low I talked to him, supported him. (I was asleep, i woke up just to talk to him) But i get you're this you're that. I told him not to lash out on me because of his personal frustration. I told him that i woke up just to talk to him. And i get "I didn't ask you to" "You woke up on your own, so don't give me crap" (lol, yeah, but because of him!). Who willingly gives up sleep for someone else? Can't I even get a little gratitude?
Then i said that all this that had been happening was wrong and that i deserve appreciation and a little accountability for his behavior. To which he said that he's having a depressive episode. I understood and I apologized (for pushing him for being treated like shit) and gave him space. With limited communication the space zone was up for 3 days. Not once did he reach out and apologized for the mistreatment. I waited like a fool for him to take responsibility for his actions. Does he think it's okay to treat people like crap because of his mood?
If he was feeling cold or distant, I would have asked what's wrong. But mistreating, treating my love and efforts like shit, being rude, and then expecting me to magically understand his erratic behavior when he was being a dick. If he wanted space, he could have just said so! I'm not a mind reader! And on top of everything, he's not even sorry for how he treated me.
He never cared about me. I don't even know if he ever loved me. Every time i wanted to talk to him about something. I received - "Are you on your period" or "you love starting fights"
I heard phrases like - "are you even worthy of me", "prove your worth", " be worthy of my love"
I am battling depression too. But i never used it as a shield to treat people poorly. There was a time when i was attempting suicide. and all he could say was "i am in a meeting" and "If that's the case, then I don't want any guilt on my head."
TLDR: Does mental illness give people a pass to treat people like shit ?? Like i was literally giving him love and i get walked all over because he's feeling a certain way.
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2024.06.10 07:30 Mysterious_Pack4210 Can a dead fathers name be added on a child born out of wedlock birth certificate after birth?

My baby's father passed away a few weeks ago and I am currently pregnant. His family who lived abroad would like his baby to have his family name too. Is it possible in mauritius?
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2024.06.10 07:28 Nortie-tortie (WTS) Some high, medium, and lower end knives to fine folks who didn’t blow their load at blade show

What’s up swap, got a few that need to go to new homes as I don’t carry them and they are collecting dust now. Figured I’d drop some possible heat for those who missed blade show and need to scratch that knife addict itch.
Ships USPS to 🇺🇸 (including Hawaii and Alaska because it’s the same price) within 48-72 hours of payment. PPFF/Venmo/Zelle, will accept PPGS but buyer pays the fee, absolutely no notes when paying. Please send payment within 30 minutes if you claim a knife.
No trades.
Timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/f9nRS4d

Eutsler D.U.K. (Honeycomb, Magnacut)

https://imgur.com/a/MAMJlnR
Received this in a trade about 6 weeks ago and loved it. The action, fit, finish, and even the weight of the knife are top notch workmanship. I am at least the second owner, has been carried to an office and used to cut tape and paper, blade is still razor factory sharp with no snails. Scales clean and the finish hides any marks very well so there could be some light snails, BUT I can’t find any. Clip is clean as well. Comes with knife, COA, and box.
SV: 825

Eutsler Neutralizer (Magnacut)

https://imgur.com/a/gx1uOnm
Eustler Neutralizer in Magnacut with honeycomb scales. This is from early January 2024 FCFS drop, second owner Hasn't been carried or cut, but has been disassembled and had skiff installed. Also it has been flipped a lot at my desk. Comes with box and original bearings. This is centered and has amazing action. There are some clip snails I tried to highlight in the video but it’s a little tough to see them, knife arrived to me this way
SV: 825

CRK Umnumzaan DP (Magnacut) DOB: April 17, 2023

https://imgur.com/a/ZwqwEMi
Got this DP Zaan off the swap about 5 weeks ago and haven’t reached for it at all. I added a JH2 backspacer and a NGMCo clip hoping it would bump my Tanto magnazaan out but it didn’t. I’m at least the second owner, has been carried and cut with by previous owners, blade is still factory sharp, and the scales have snails on them. Has been dissembled to have normal maintenance on it plus the install of the J2H. Comes with box and all the normal CRK goodies.
SV: 575

Spartan Blades Plague Doctor (Blue / Full sized)

https://imgur.com/a/LrP23SB
I have searched and waited for a Plague doc for a long time, finally got one and dammit it’s just a tad too big for carry which means it doesn’t get to stay. I am at least the 3rd owner on this one and it has been carried by previous owners with some light use by them as well. Blade, clip, and scales are all clean to my eye. Lock up is solid with a little side to side play if you sacrifice the nail drop action. Comes with knife, box, and a little plastic baggie for the knife.
SV: 400

Mcnees PM Mac2 (3.5)

https://imgur.com/a/vCMDRlV
Got this about 4 weeks ago to try my hand at another Mcnees. It is an awesome knife with an excellent action and looks practically untouched, just isn’t for me. I am at least the second owner, no cut or carry from either of us, action like I said is excellent. The scales, blade, and clip are all clean with no snails I can see, blade is factory and is hair popping sharp. Comes with box, COA, and Knife.
SV: 400

Sparrow Strix

https://imgur.com/a/bsOh9AL
Picked this up recently to finally try one out and while it’s an awesome blade, it is too beefy for me to carry or really enjoy so I’m passing it along. I’m at least the second owner, first owner had a stripped pivot and when getting a new one it didn’t match correctly so I’m sure you can reach out and get a correct one but I personally like the black pivot. Scales have a few light snails, some snails on the blade and clip as well. This one has been disassembled by the previous owner to install skiffs (that’s where he stripped the pivot and needed a new one). Blade is factory sharp and magnacut with a nice hollow ground shape. Comes with box, docs, COA, knife, and OG bearings.
SV: 375 SOLD

Piratech Kraken

https://imgur.com/a/m905Zmq
Picked this up about 4 weeks ago I am at least the second owner, awesome knife with an interesting construction. No external screws, all screws are under the Ti scales which are held on by magnets. Really fidgety and fun to carry, disappears in the pocket and has a strange resemblance to a Sebenza x BM 940. I have taken the scales off to see the insides but no true disassembly past that. Blade is factory with some snails from carry on it. Lock up is usually solid but sometimes the cross bar doesn’t fully seat and there is some play, however I haven’t messed with it since it arrived and I’m sure the stronger springs it comes with would fix this easily. Comes with the box, leather slip, extra springs, COA, and knife.
SV: 220 SOLD SOLD

Leatherman Arc

https://imgur.com/a/dHePL60
Got this in a trade maybe 6 months ago, attempted to carry but I’d rather have a pry bar and knife. Barely used, mostly kept in the pouch in my knife gear drawer. All tools are basically untouched except the bit driver and knife to see how well they sharpened their magnacut (it’s sharp). Comes with the multitool, pouch, the extra bits and holder, box, and instructions.
SV: 190 SOLD SOLD

Lynch NW Best case scenario V1.3 Frag Prybar

https://imgur.com/a/Y3FilKA
First owner, purchased this direct from Casey’s website and thought it was awesome. Carried it in my paradrop (it was a little big) for a week or so and then NGMCo popped up on my IG and I tracked down a side piece and ladyfinger which are my jam. This one hasn’t been used and I can’t find anything wrong with it. Ships as just the pry bar, these retail for $107 and are out of stock so if you want it I’ll send it your way for…
SV: 80

Beketen Umnumzaan CLONE (VG10 and glass blast)

https://imgur.com/a/8nfvmIc
Second owner on this guy, picked it up to see how they are keeping up with the real ones. Very nice clone with some excellent machining and running on bearings. Lock up is solid with no play and drops to the nail with a light shake to close. Blade, scales, and clip are all clean to my eye. Comes with knife, disassembly tool, and soft taco pouch.
SV: 60
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2024.06.10 07:26 No-Contract-8556 AITH for meeting a close friend without telling my girlfriend

Hi everyone, so here's some background. In my first year of college, I made a good friend, she was already in a relationship for 3 years. Let's call her "A". So, I never saw her as my girlfriend, just pure good/best friend vibes. Things got a little worse during COVID when she stopped talking to me that much for a couple of months(due to some reasons), I was attached to her, so I wanted to talk about how I missed her, and I did that with one of her friends(let's call her "B") to whom my friend("A") wasn't talking as well. Now I and B got closer with time, I used to help her with all sorts of assignments including her sister's.
Fast forward to 3rd year of college, I and B got into a relationship. Eventually, A got better, and again she became one of my closest friends, I mean she already was, but for some time, we weren't talking because A was going through some family problems. Now my girlfriend thinks, that A is more important than her, though that's not the case, but somehow she always brings that up whenever I talk about A. A is sweet memories of my first year, B wants me to cut A off from my life, and I don't want to. I have made my conversations with A very less now, we talk very less, and sometimes a couple of months have passed by, and we haven't talked.
I work from home, so I went to meet my girlfriend. A and B live in the same city, I asked my girlfriend multiple times, can I meet A?, it's been a while. It was her birthday, she kept saying. We both went to her party, but I wanted to meet her in person, and A wanted to meet me as well. I stayed in her city for a couple of months, and just before going I gathered some courage and went to meet A, and took a birthday gift. And my girlfriend checked my phone and found her picture.
Now, things have gotten worse, she will probably break up with me, If I don't block her from all possible platforms, she wants me to cut A off from my life completely. And I just don't want to, I don't even have any siblings with whom I can share stuff, and A is the only good close friend for me other than my girlfriend. whereas my girlfriend has a couple of siblings closest to her who are standing there with her no matter what does. That's not the case for me. for me, there's just A. Things have gotten worse, I am not sure, what should I do?
Is B doing too much, or AITH for having a close friend of the opposite gender? I know A is more important to me than she should be, but we have been friends for 5 years now. And she is in healthy relationship for 7 years and is about to get married next year with her bout. I just can't cut her off completely from my life.
Please advise!
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2024.06.10 07:23 Crafty_As_8411 What I think are this movie’s influences

Oct 31 is Dec 25
It's fucking crazy that this 90-minute film has a subreddit to itself. I don't know how I feel about it but I guess I'm posting in it, aren't I? I might be a trans girl and might not be so this film clarified a lot for me. Besides that on a purely critical level I believe this is one of the most impressive works of indie filmmaking I've ever seen. I wrote about it here if any of you are interested, not very coherently but I got off some good lines. I just wanted to go through what I perceived as some of the film's influences and see if you all agreed.
"Candle Cove," Kris Straub, 2009 - this one is pretty obvious and somebody already mentioned it on here. I touch on it in my review. It shares roughly the same premise (backwards-gazing adults discover that their childhood TV show is haunted) although ISTTG takes it in a much different direction. Owen's narration throughout pretty explicitly positions the movie as part of the creepypasta tradition and is depicted as a product of his dysphoria. A really big difference is that, unlike Candle Cove and unlike Schoenbrun's debut (or technically sophomore) feature We're All Going To The World's Fair (God, what a title), the Internet is basically not a factor in this movie at all. The one time it properly appears is when Owen is rewatching TPO on a streaming service; in Candle Cove it's the entire framing device.
The Doll's House, Neil Gaiman/Mike Dringenberg/Malcolm Jones III/Chris Bachalo/Michael Zulli/Steve Parkhouse/Dave McKean, 1989-90. I was extremely unsurprised when Schoenbrun mentioned The Sandman as a point of comparison for their upcoming novel. The image of cutting out the heart is an obvious inheritance from the older work. Isabel is not a lot like Rose Walker, who is dryer and more sarcastic, but the climactic scene with Unity Kinkaid reminds me a lot of the scene on the football field. It's a dream, but it's also real.
Inland Empire, David Lynch, 2006. I’m not a real film girlie and this is my only Lynch to date, so I can’t speak on the much more obvious comparison, Mulholland Drive. But Maddy’s monologue reminded me of Laura Dern talking to the little man in spectacles. The flat, banal, and atrocious content of the monologue (in that movie, the casualness with which Nikki talks about stabbing a man is startling, as is the coolness with which Tara talks about killing herself here) contrasted with the profound wonder and admiration with which the camera records it. I have not seen this comparison made a single time in a review and it drives me nuts.
Pale Fire, Vladimir Nabokov, 1962. This is at best a tangential connection, but Schoenbrun in the aforementioned monologue invented a new formal way to depict death. (The zoom outwards when Tara talks about getting farther and farther away from her body is a beautiful and moving way to visually describe the process of dying.) And idk, although the two texts are connected only in the sense that they both find novel ways to depict death (the missing final line of Shade’s poem, in Nabokov’s case), I feel like I should shout out Schoenbrun’s achievement nonetheless. It’s not everyday that an artist finds a new way to depict death, it’s been 10000 years of civilization and we’re still finding new ways. That’s pretty sick IMO.
Picnic at Hanging Rock, Peter Weir, 1975. Some people might raise their eyebrows at this comparison since the premises of the two movies are very different. But I think, structurally, they are the same. They both focus on a central pair of girls who disappear under mysterious circumstances. This disappearance is eventually revealed to be a kind of falling: the difference between the two girls is that one of them falls up (Tara/Miranda) and one of them falls down (Isabel/Sarah.) I titled my review with a quote from this movie.
Blood Simple, The Coen Brothers, 1984. Another tangential connection but that shot of the TV burning in the backyard is kinda like the shot of the furnace at the beginning of Blood Simple.
The work of Stan Brakhage?? I guess?? All those shots of flames and whatever? Idk you can tell I’m kinda running out of steam here.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Joss Whedon (fuck him), 1997-2003. Obviously.
If you have any more books or movies of TV that you think are interesting comparisons to ISSTG, let me know in comments. Also if you have feedback on my actual review I would love to hear.
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2024.06.10 07:08 No-Travel4499 A chill and chaotic 35-day trip in Dec/Jan (with LOTS of photos)

Last Dec my then-fiance and I married and went to Japan for our honeymoon. It was my husband's first time and my third time, but I was a young kid so basically they didn't count because I have a memory of a goldfish. We went to Tokyo, Yokohama, Osaka, Nara, Kyoto, Takayama, Matsumoto, Nagano, Fuji, and day trips here and there. It was some of my life's best and most chaotic times. I'll tell you why a little later.
Tokyo - Part 1 (4 days) Shinjuku, Shibuya, Tsukiji market, Gotokuji
The best part of this leg was the quiet backstreets and suburbs of Tokyo, like the Gotokuji temple, Yoyogi Park, and the delicious food. After exploring Shinjuku on our first night we already established that we are not city people. Mostly because of the crowds. There were some fun moments too, like the extraordinary view of the Shibuya sky, the pretty fishies from the art aquarium in Ginza, and the Hie Shrine in Akasaka. We also went to Togoshi-Ginza shopping street in Shinagawa to fill our tummies. We scoffed the skewers and the croquettes down before I could take a photo. I think we also went to a pudding place called Tommy's pudding. If you were ever there you should try them.
Yokohama (2 days) Gundam factory, Chinatown
Our time in Yokohama was short but very fulfilling. The Gundam factory has to be the highlight of this leg and we genuinely feel sorry for those who missed out. Our thoughts are with you. Food in Chinatown was great, but every 50 metres or so the same food and shops reappeared. For a moment I thought it was because I was so tired that I was seeing things. A big thank you to the post office staff who helped us out and gave us a cute dragon soap as a honeymoon gift. I wish I remembered to ask for their names.
Osaka (5 days) TeamLab Botanical, Dotonburi, Hiroshima/Miyajima day trip, Den Den town, Namba
Our first time riding the Nozomi Shinkansen. Beautiful view and on the right-hand side (Tokyo to Osaka) you'll see Mt. Fuji if you're the few lucky ones.
The TeamLab botanical garden was something else. We didn't go to the Tokyo one but I'm so glad we went to the Osaka one. The next night we headed to Dotonburi and goodness me it was jam-packed. We mustered our strength and visited Hozenji and called it a night. At some point in this leg, we also went down to Hiroshima and Miyajima. The deers were a lot more timid than their buddies in Nara. Before leaving we hit up Den den town and Namba Yasaka shrine.
Nara (4 days at the end) Nara park, Hasedera, earthquake, and being chaotic
This leg was unforgettable for a couple of very unusual reasons.
Before the trip, I read how much people loved Nara, but I didn't feel the same way. Maybe it was the crowd, or maybe because I was psychic and knew shite was about to go down. Whatever reason it might be, Nara in my memory was underwhelming.
Saying that, if you travel south for about an hour you'll find a little town named Hase and its Hasedera temple. It was the best thing out of the trip for us. We did our fortune reading and (ironically) aha! Daikichi, the best 100 yen I'd ever spent! Husband got the number 69 and we giggled like a pair of naughty children.
On our way back we could hear alarms going off from people's phones. The station's signs and ceiling lights were swaying fairly aggressively back and forth, and we realised it was an earthquake. We learned that it was the Noto earthquake later on. Thinking back I'm grateful we went to Nara. I included Kanazawa and Toyama on our very first itinerary but eventually discarded them because I didn't want to be rushed. If we followed that instead we'd have been near Noto100%.
I also somehow injured my cornea on the very same night. I won't bore you with the details but I was in agonising pain and couldn't open either of my eyes. The good thing that came out of it was learning the Japanese ambulance was free. The bad thing was we couldn't move to Kyoto as planned. We ended up staying in Nara for two extra nights while I was pretty much bedridden. The staff was extremely helpful and offered to check in on me, making sure my husband didn't actually just stuffed me in a suitcase. Jokes aside, he was a champ. Before leaving we gave the hotel staff a souvenir we bought earlier as a thank-you gift.
Kyoto (5 days at the end) Central Kyoto, Gion, Uji, Shiga prefecture
Losing three days meant that we had to cut the Kyoto leg short. Since we didn't like the cities as much we decided to explore Kyoto another time, and went ahead with the day trips instead. Uji was another favourite of mine. Walking along the river made me feel like I did not have a worry in the world. Lake Biwa from the Shiga prefecture was majestic. We stopped by Omihachiman before heading to Hikone. On the very last night in Kyoto we were lucky enough to see the snow falling (but it didn't stick to the ground).
Takayama (2 days) Snow!
At this point of the trip I was slightly let down by the lack of snow we saw, however, Takayama did not disappoint. We tried Takayama beef that night and visited the Showa-Kan museum the next morning. It was snowing the whole morning and by the time we got to the Hida no Sato open-air museum it was truly a winter wonderland. I know most people prefer Shirakawa over the open-air museum, but we and another couple were the only people there. We had the whole place to ourselves, and that was extremely rare in Japan.
Matsumoto & Nagano (4 days) Matsumoto castle, Wasabi farm, Snow Monkey Park
If I have to use one word to describe Matsumoto it would be nogastic. It's so cozily small that I'd love to live in a city like that, not to mention it's nestled in the gorgeous Alps. We headed to the Matsumoto castle before dark. The next day we headed out to the Daio wasabi farm in Azumino. I got to give it to them for turning a farm into an attraction... Afterwards, we hopped on a train towards Hakuba with no particular destination in mind. The view we got on the train was stunning.
Despite being nearby, getting to Yamanochi from Matsumoto wasn't the most convenient because of the mountains I think. We were surprised by how 80s the train station and the train were in Nagano. It started snowing heavily when we got to our ryokan and continued while we were at the snow monkey park. After returning to the ryokan, it was time for the onsen and dinner. Funny to think that was all of our dinner - lol there were at least 7 courses hidden in the kitchen. I almost lost my balance walking out of the dining hall with my belly waiting to burst. Needless to say the next morning I was hungry again. My husband was like I couldn't eat anymore and I was like yeah yeah me too while demolishing all my plates. Before we leave we of course had to dip into the onsen.
Mt. Fuji (4 days) Fujiyoshida, Fujikawaguchiko
Since it's our honeymoon and probably one of the only few times we get to take a month off to travel, we went all out on this leg.
My husband found out about the gran class on the Shinkansen and looked at me with his puppy dog eyes, who am I to say no to that? That was honestly better than some of the business-class seats. We stayed at Bessho Sasa and everything about it was beyond phenomenal. We had another 10-course meal. Obviously did not learn our lesson. And for the next three nights, we had the most amazing time of our lives.
Just kidding.
Turns out that the time we visited Mt. Fuji was also the time many hotels and resorts did their maintenance, which meant we only got to stay one night there. I was like no biggie I can find us another nice hotel. So here was where I, as I quoted my husband, made the biggest mistake of the century. Looking at the photo you might think it wasn't that bad, but what I didn't show was all the stains and dust. The only saving grace was its view. It wasn't cheap either. If the day before we were in heaven then surely we had fallen to hell. We meant to stay for three nights but after the first night, I put on my best-acting face and checked us out. I know we could've stayed but it was our honeymoon and it just wasn't worth the misery. The new place was more like an Airbnb stay and so much better. We headed to the local supermarket so we could make our meals for the next couple of days and discovered exactly how much we get scammed in Australia.
Lake Kawaguchi was relaxing but so windy while we were there, luckily we had the local specialty hoto noodles to warm us back up. Mt. Fuji was feeling a little shy on the day we left.
Hakone (2 days) Lake Ashi, Hakone Checkpoint, Owakudani
Hakone was beautiful and better than I expected. What I didn't realise was how scattered all the attractions were. From our hotel we took the bus to Owakudani. It was exposed to some strong winds that made my heart skip a beat. I prayed for our souls and safety multiple times. Because of the hotel's location, we would pass Owakudani every time we went to the attractions and came back. We had a nice walk from the Hakone Checkpoint to Lake Ashi. While not as impressive as Lake Biwa, Lake Ashi was different with the view of Mt. Fuji and the Torri gate in the same picture. Hakone-Yumoto was okay, tofu ice cream had to be the second best ice-cream flavour just after lavender. The best part would be the hospitality of the people there. We couldn't get a taxi after our dinner one night and the very kind elderly couple asked their son to drive us back. We couldn't say thank you enough.
Tokyo part 2 (3 days) - Asakusa, Sensoji, Tokyo Skytree, Sumo tournament
Our hotel was right at the Rokku Yokocho and only a three-minute walk from Sensoji, so we never really wandered far on our last leg. We chose to visit Sensoji at night to avoid the crowd, and I honestly think people miss out if they only visit the temple in the daytime. We spent our last full day watching a sumo tournament. People went crazy for a few wrestlers. We had Kura sushi twice during this leg and no photos because I was being a piggie.
After the trip
To be honest both my husband and I were very travel fatigued by then and just wanted to go home. My brain is also a bit fried writing this post, so forgive me if I wasn't as detailed as some of the earlier legs.
We are so grateful to be able to experience Japan and the hospitality of the Japanese people. We are planning to return and drive to the countryside of the Tohoku and Hokkaido regions next time. We'll see you next time.
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2024.06.10 07:07 Whole-Brilliant5508 Supervisor makes me hate work. Should I quit or wait it out?

So for context; I am a pharmacy technician at a closed door, private pharmacy. I am currently in the Cycle Department so I am not actually filling or compounding anything like at my previous pharmacy job. My responsibilities are solely checking the monthly cycles for any errors or mistakes in the bubble packs, checking for anything we missed such as other medications that need to go with this cycle and refilling them so they can get filled and go out, sending refill authorization requests, and then bagging up the cycles so our drivers can deliver them. I swear I'm a technician even though it doesn't feel like it sometimes. For even more context; I am currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. I live in San Diego, CA and she lives in Orlando, FL. I am actually planning to take the plunge and move in with her at the end of August so we can finally be together and start planning for a future. I just need to sort a few things out such as passing my PTCB to make it easier to find work in Orlando. There's also my current job. I notified my supervisor and HR that August 21st will be my last day working at the pharmacy before I move the following week. However my supervisor is becoming increasingly insufferable. She's lazy, petty, pushy, moody, always complaining about everyone, talking shit about them behind their backs, and just bringing in bad vibes overall every time she comes in. She also has piss poor communication skills and even worse managerial skills. Several of my other coworkers are getting sick of her attitude. Even one of my coworkers in my department (who is practically her #2) is going part time to go back to school so she can ultimately leave the pharmacy because of my supervisor. It's at the point that we dread her coming in because we know she's going to bring nothing but bad vibes and constantly distract us from doing our tasks. Hell, she didn't come in this past Thursday and Friday and I feel like we got way more shit done than when she's here. She also didn't oversee or partake in any of my training when I started in January. She just dumped that responsibility on my coworker even though it's not in her job responsibilities to train others. Why is she still here, some of you may ask? Well, apparently she does bring in business to the pharmacy via some of the long term care and assisted living facilities we have contracts with. How? Beats me. I don't quite know what her connection is to these facilities. So my question is this: Do I put up with her nonsense until August or should I just quit or resign sooner than originally planned?
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2024.06.10 07:02 Safire-who Lost my cat in a ridiculous accident.

I have borderline disorder and my orange cate came into my life 5 years ago after very rough years, being institutionalized, etc.
I really progressed and did pretty well thanks to him who helped me get organized, maintain healthy routines, etc.
About a month ago, a neighbor started complaining my cats would go sun bathing to his condos roof. So I added a bamboo fence in my balcony and avoided letting any of my cats go on the balcony unsupervised.
This past Tuesday, my teen son left my orange cat outside, in the balcony, shutting the window and being a teenager. Hours later, my cat bored and urging his litter box or something, tried jumping to the neighbors roof, falling and hitting his head, dying almost instantly.
My son phoned me while I was already heading back home from work, and arrived a fee minutes after he passed away.
Suddenly a stone wall fell on me, I couldn’t breathe, stand up, nothing. I’ve lost all energy, and its been a struggle trying to keep up with my daily healthy routines. I can’t eat and my meds are pretty strong. I can’t get out of bed and try to work and as soon as I stop working from bed, I can’t stop crying.
I know I am an adult and should cope with loss. Everyone in my family is dead, he is my emotional support cat and I can’t really find a way to understand what happened. And I feel awful for not being able to understand it was an accident and not my son’s fault. I feel sad, and angry.
I can still hear my sweet cat meow or see his fat furry tail behind the sofa, walking as he usually does.
I see his pictures and watch videos of him purring and I refuse to believe he is gone.
Its driving me crazy, the pain is impossible to bear. And everyone keeps saying I am an adult and should be like this.
They are also afraid of what I could do being borderline. And makes me sadder I can’t even grieve in peace because they treat me like a crazy person. I am really feeling miserable and its the first time I can’t be resilient. I miss my cat and want to hold him as I do every night to take him to bed, and hear him purr by my ear.
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2024.06.10 07:01 SharkEva My negligence cost my partner her life, and I'm about to lose everything. PS I am not a cheating, lying, thieving, abusive AH at all.

I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/WeakSignal99 posting in TrueOffMyChest
Ongoing as per OOP
Content Warning : death
Thanks to u/Spiritual_Country_62 for finding this BORU
1 update - Medium
Original - 1st June 2024
Update - 8th June 2024

My negligence cost my partner her life, and I'm about to lose everything.

I (35m) have been married to Lisa (28f) for 3 years, together 7. A year ago, I fell deeply in love with Amy (24f), and had been planning to end my marriage for her. I know it's terrible and not what my wife deserves, but we were the real thing.
Two weeks ago, she had an allergic reaction when we were getting food after work, but she used her epipen and seemed mostly okay afterwards. She usually gets checked at the hospital after a reaction, but I asked if I could take her home and she could get her friend to drive her there because my wife was expecting me back.
All I know is that she had a secondary reaction that evening and died. I didn't even find out about it until the following Monday, through a work email. It has been eating me up ever since and I will never forgive myself for not sacrificing an hour of my time to possibly save her.
I sent some childish messages to Amy when I didn't hear from her over the weekend because I thought she was angry I didn't take her to the hospital. I am thankful she never saw them and ashamed that I assumed the worst. Our relationship was great and the highs far outweighed the lows, but I have always hated being ignored and I lose my cool when it happens. It is not a regular occurrence and I would have more than made it up to her.
Yesterday at work, HR and legal were in the CEO's office all day and my manager ended up cancelling our project meeting because he was with them all afternoon. I was on edge, but an affair isn't exactly a corporate crisis and I thought something would have already happened if anyone knew. I am now 99% certain it was about me.
A few hours ago I received a message from Amy's phone which said "This is Amy's brother, Tom. I want you to know it was me". I tried to call but it went straight to voicemail, and none of my messages have been delivered.
I tried to call my manager more times than I should have and he sent a message saying "Please don't contact me until Monday morning. I can't discuss anything with you right now". So it looks like my universe is going to collapse. I am going to be fired and my wife will definitely find out why. All I can do is hope that Amy's brother only showed them the messages from that weekend, and they were bad enough. I have no family except my wife and daughter and nowhere to go. All of my friends are either people I've met through my wife, or my colleagues. On Monday, everything I've spent over a decade working towards disappears. I can't stop it. I can't talk to anyone about it.
So here I am. I know cheaters are the devil so I'm not expecting sympathy, but this is making my chest hurt and I need to get it out there.

Comments (there is a lot of comments from OOP, I've only included some of them), general theme is the same (me, me, me)

ExtensionFun7772
Tom has real Olenna Tyrell energy. True king shit

Whiteroses7252012
Realistically? I can’t blame him. His sister is dead because Cheaty McCheaterface over here had other things to do. He can’t have him arrested, but he can otherwise ruin his life.
OP: the absolute worst thing here isnt losing your wife, family, job or support system. It’s living with your guilt. Best of luck.

agents_of_fangirling
This except the last part. Worst of luck actually.

here4mysteries
Can you imagine your beautiful, sweet daughter marrying a man who she thought loved her, he made vows to her and had a child with her. Only he found a young, impressionable little thing at work who he decided was one percent better than her and therefore was worth neglecting her and their child, cheating on her for, risking his job by getting her promotions she wasn’t qualified for and was planning to leave her for. This person was only one percent better.
Your daughter - cheated on by a POS who only thought with his d!ck. What would you say about that?
OOP: Amy was not a child. She was an adult woman who was capable of making decisions for herself. We had every intention of building a life together as equals.

Msp1278
You're making it very clear that you were not anywhere close to be a gentleman with your mistress. You blackmailed her and threatened to blacklist her. I am going to bet you coerced her to have sexual contact.
Man, was your father this sh\tty to his mistress as well???*
OOP: Those arguments went both ways, and there are plenty of messages as well as my actions which show I treated her extremely well. Why would she commit to building a life with me if I was horrible to her? She had all the power.

Msp1278
YOU THREATENED TO BLACKLIST HER!! YOU HAD ALL OF THE POWER!!!
OOP: She had months and months of evidence of our relationship, including intimate images of us together. I may have been higher up at work, but it is completely fair to say she was the one with the power.
My life is about to be ruined and she could have pulled that trigger anytime she wanted.
I also didn't actually threaten her. It was a stupid comment about what would happen if our relationship came out, as well as another I incorrectly believed she was having. It's not exactly a threat to remind someone that sleeping with multiple managers in a niche industry isn't a smart career move if it comes out.

Msp1278
YOU THREATENED HER!!! YOU INTIMIDATED HER!! You were willing to take her down to save yourself. She was in no danger beyond losing her job if this came out. You, on the other hand, would lose it all in your industry. You will never be trusted. Do you know why she didn't come clean? Because she trusted that you would have left LISA for her. If you left LISA and got together with your mistress, it all would have come out anyway. You're so worried about your life, but what the 2 lives you are about to completely ruin.
OOP: You seriously think losing her job is the worst thing that would have happened if it came out she had a habit of sleeping with managers to get where she was? Her career would have been over right there with mine.
Just because I was more senior in the business it doesn't mean I was in a position of power. She could have taken us both down just like I could have. We were on completely equal footing. You're desperate for her to be some weakling who just mindlessly went along with it all. She was an intelligent and capable person who signed up to us navigating this situation together. We were a team.

shebebutlittle555
You literally fucking promoted her, you moron. That is the DEFINITION of having power. Her career was in your hands and you both knew it.
OOP: Surely getting a promotion she didn't deserve was an example of her power and not mine? I had faith she would grow into the role because she assured me she would. She took the lead in that whole situation.
Like I said, my career was in her hands too, but I had much more to lose. I was more established in my career, have a wife and child, own a home etc.
Power was never a consideration between us, we were always equals.

The_Asshole_Judge
No. It was an example of you rewarding her for gobbling your knob.
OOP: Is buying your partner a birthday present rewarding them too? Is taking your partner on holiday just them cashing in their knob gobbling airmiles?
Showing care and support to someone you love isn't transactional, and it doesn't happen because you owe them one. Everything I did for Amy I did because I loved her.

shebebutlittle555
Your relationship was inherently abusive. Everything about it, starting with the way it was set up. You “fell in love” (yeah I bet) with a woman twelve years your junior, promoted her unethically, and then fucking blackmailed her with that promotion. Whether you physically assaulted her or not is irrelevant.
OOP:I never blackmailed her with the promotion, I shouldn't have set it up in the first place and it wasn't going to last. Our messages show me telling her honestly when she first brought it up that I didn't think she had the skills or experience to make it work. She gave me lots of assurances and basically talked me into it. That is reflected in our messages.
did bring it up a few times in arguments, but I wasn't suggesting that she would be demoted because of problems in our relationship, it was always because of her performance in the role and the way she secured it. Obviously that wasn't an appropriate arena to raise what were real issues that didn't relate to our romantic involvement.

Update - 7 days later

I have been consistently harassed for an update since posting, so please take it, gloat because you're such wonderful people in comparison, then stop following me around reddit. I am suffering in the wake of my infidelity and unprofessional behaviour as I knew I would. I understand that it is an appropriate outcome and I am taking full accountability.
I was suspended from work on Monday, and I'll probably be fired sooner than I thought. I'd hoped to be able to save money as HR built their case but it looks like Amy's brother basically performed the entire investigation for them. After an excruciating 3 hour run through of everything they had, I spoke to the founder, and he recommended the solicitor I am now using.
The issue is that the company has to come down hard to protect themselves, because even though Amy's family doesn't have much chance of a claim, any suggestion of a cover up could cause damage regardless. The founder still thinks my offer to pay them back will keep it out of court, and some more information has come to light, so it's not certain I won't be prosecuted but I'm quietly hopeful. I can't afford to keep the solicitor if this goes much further, especially with a divorce on the horizon.
Things are not good with my wife. I'm still committed to making this as easy as possible for her, but I had to draw a line when it came to my daughter. When I got home from being unceremoniously escorted out of my office, she already had a bag packed for me. She wouldn't let me wait at the house until my daughter was back, she wouldn't let me check I had everything I needed, she wouldn't let me take the car, and she didn't care that I had nowhere to go.
I spent 2 nights in a hotel then went back when she refused to let me see my little girl. She tried to stop me, but we own the house jointly and it was my only option. My wife has family she could stay with, but she won't leave our daughter here and she's absolutely not taking her, so we're at a stalemate right now. I'm keeping out of her way as best I can, which I appreciate is the least I can do.
The Amy situation is quite difficult to talk about, and a lot hasn't sunk in yet. It turns out that she didn't love me as much as I loved her, if at all. Her brother sent me images of her talking to her friends about me, and it's hard to believe they came from the person I loved, but they are real.
Sorry to those who were heavily invested in me being a predatory abuser, but she and her friends had a good laugh about her manipulating me for money and a promotion. The role came with a big pay rise, and it looks like her plan was to treat it as free cash, then go work with one of her friends when it fell through. She knew I'd come under scrutiny whenever she messed up and assumed I'd keep stepping in to save her. She was right.
Obviously I am completely humiliated. I was planning to give up everything to build a life with her, and she was treating me like a joke the whole time. My feelings are complicated so please don't feel entitled to any expansion on this, but I no longer feel guilt over her death.
Reddit acted like I kept her hostage whilst she begged for help. What actually happened was that I asked if she could ask her friend to take her to the hospital because I had to go home, she said that was fine because she needed to get some clothes back from her anyway, and I dropped her off as normal. Ultimately she was an adult who had a better understanding of her medical needs than I did. I still don't know what happened between us saying goodbye and her death, but whatever it was, it had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry for her family's loss but I bear no responsibility for her passing.
After Amy's messages to her friends were passed around, a few people quietly reached out with words of support. I assumed everyone would write me off like reddit did, as an abuser and predator. Now it's clear that Amy was using me, they see me as a fool who had then lost it all. It's beyond humiliating, but I have learned I'd rather be pitied than despised, and it improves my legal position with work.
They're small mercies but I'll take what I can get. I remain filled with regret, and I will have learned many lessons by the time I get through this. I may have been deceived, but I am a grown man who made my choices, and I take full responsibility for them.
Tl;Dr I am currently suspended from work, but will certainly be fired. It's unclear whether I am in serious legal trouble. My wife and I are not navigating the end of our relationship brilliantly, but for my daughter's sake, we will get better. Amy turned out to be a better manipulator than she was a project manager, and her brother outed her whilst trying to ruin me. Life is deservedly hard right now but I'm working through it.

Comments

Nervous_Internal_581
“The founder still thinks my offer to pay them back will keep it out of court…”
So did you steal money from your company on top of abusing your authority at work?

OOP: My expense account largely funded my relationship with Amy. It wasn't unusual in the company we worked at, but now there is a potential scandal, they're suddenly shocked and appalled by my actions.

TALKTOME0701
He was using company funds to fund all of their little trips. So he's hoping if he pays back the funds he embezzled, they won't file suit He plotted how to cover it up in his many many text messages to his soulmate Buffoon

Direct_Surprise2828
Boy, he sure is all kinds of stupid isn’t he?

TALKTOME0701
But you don't understand. Their bodies fit together. Like puzzle pieces

SKETCHBENDER
Bro went from" she was the love of my life " to "shes responsible for her own death" in under a week lmao this post reads exactly like how i imagined it would

vancitymala
“I want to make this as easy as possible on my wife”
but also in refusing to leave our house so she has to see me, the person that was planning on leaving her and imploded our lives, cause I didn’t think through inevitable consequences

There is lots of gems from OOP:

I have certain legal rights I was willing not to use in order to make this easier for my wife to navigate, which is absolutely appropriate given that my actions caused the entire problem. Living in my home was the most relevant one. I left immediately and by choice, and the only thing I asked for was regular access to my daughter until we made a formal arrangement.
She didn't provide that access, and she gave a stupid and petty reason for not doing so. I had one single, solitary, and perfectly reasonable boundary, and she didn't respect it. Now I use the right I always had, to live in the house I own.
I understand that I'm not exactly in a sympathetic position, but if you're a genuinely reasonable person, I don't think this is one for the "reasons OP is a bad person" list.
I didn't refuse to leave the house. I left willingly and immediately and had no intention of going back, despite the fact that I own the home jointly.
I had one condition, and it was completely reasonable, that I be allowed to spend time with my daughter regularly. My wife declined, so I was left with two choices - Go without seeing my daughter indefinitely, or move back into the house I have every right to occupy. Easiest decision I've ever made.
In short, no. My wife and her feelings are entirely separate from our daughter.
I made it clear I didn't expect access to our home, that I would only contact her about our daughter, and that as long as I had reasonable unrestricted access, she would remain in the driving seat throughout this whole process. She fell at the first hurdle and denied me access, so things have changed and I make no apology for that.
My solicitor told me very early that being completely truthful would benefit my case. Do you know what I did in response to that? I was completely truthful, because it was made clear to me that it would make my life easier.
My wife was basically told the thing, only me seeing my daughter is what would have put her in the best position. She chose to go against that, and now she's living with the results of that.
I am not going to be vindictive at any point here, because I am well aware that the situation is largely of my own making, but I am going to make it extremely clear that my child will not be weaponised against me. My wife's discomfort is not a consideration in this one very specific area.

dontspeakmyname
Actually curious.. Why do you think your wife should trust you with your daughter? Should she not be concerned after having her entire world turned upside down by you?
OOP: You're asking the wrong question. She doesn't have to trust me with my daughter, because she is not the sole decision maker on that front.
If she had genuine concerns about me being around our child, she could launch an emergency petition for sole custody. She won't though, because she knows she doesn't have a leg to stand on.
Again, being a bad husband doesn't make me a bad father.

I am not the OOP. Please do not harass the OOP.
Please remember the No Brigading Rule and to be civil in the comments
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2024.06.10 07:00 Difficult-Resort4294 Why am I like this.

This might get a little trauma dumpy and I know my experience is nothing special but I need to spill everything onto something. I don’t wanna dump all this onto a friend and be selfish but I need let it all go.
I don’t have a great relationship with my family and it makes me upset. I feel embarrassed for my parents to have me as a daughter. I feel embarrassed for my brother to have me as a sister. I feel embarrassed for my friends to have me as a friend. I don’t contribute anything to anyone. I’ve never left like living my life. I’ve never felt like my life was worth living. I’m always disappointing someone and I’ve tried to act like it doesn’t bother me but it does. I feel embarrassed about my weight and embarrassed for my family to have to accept someone like me. Sometimes I wish I didn’t have a family so no one would be forced to love me. I don’t believe I am lovable. I’ve never been in a relationship and I don’t think I ever will. I don’t want to become someone’s embarrassment of a girlfriend. I hate living with myself.
I’ve been living with this mindset for years and its crushing me. Everyday I pray its my last. I hear stories of people passing in their sleep and I wish that will be me. I pray I go to sleep and never wake up, but I always do. Why do I continue to use up resources and space.
I’ve always felt lonely. Never had someone to call my best friend. I don’t have someone to cry to. I cry myself to sleep everyday. I feel embarrassed for my own body to deal with me.
I recently lost a childhood friend. We weren’t extremely close but I was always thankful for her. She helped me when I was getting bullied. I’m sad she’s gone and I don’t know who else to live for. My father just scolded me abt how I’m extremely lazy. Its true. He told me I need to start losing weight or pick up more shifts so I’m not home as much. I can tell me hates me as a daughter. I was going to lose the weight eventually but I just wanted to grieve a little longer. Everything I do is embarrassing someone. Maybe it’ll all go away sooner or later. I’m aware something is wrong with me and dumping all this on strangers on the internet isn’t ideal, but I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t wanna live like this. It’s embarrassing to be so embarrassed about myself. Sorry I keep using the word embarrassing so much, idk how else to describe this. If anyone read this, thank you for reading up to the end. I just needed to let it out.
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2024.06.10 06:59 RoseBlack2222 Out Of The Apartment (Part 7)

Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 Part 5 Part 6
It's a good thing we have some battery packs with us. Otherwise, my phone would be dead by now. I've been making sure to keep it charged and off unless necessary. We don't want to repeat what happened to Drake at the gym. If I ever end up getting torn apart by zombies to a song I want it to be something more fitting like heavy metal.
Anyway, Jeff and his group were an okay bunch and let us spend the night. We knew we should’ve kept moving, but free weed is free weed. Besides, we were safer in a group than braving it by ourselves. We were enlightened about The Unplagued. It had a long and rich history, dating back to about a week ago.
Jeff and the others saw shit going down and decided, “Fuck it. Let’s live in the woods”.
I don’t quite see the appeal. Then again, it’s not my place to judge, for the most part. Drake and me were sitting with Jeff, playing a round of Go Fish.
“Any fours?” I asked.
“Go fish,” Jeff replied.
I drew a card. While it wasn’t what I wanted, it did match another card in my hand. I put down a pair of sixes.
“By the way, “we meant to ask you this other night. Did any of you happen to see a guy named Van pass through here?” Drake inquired and gave a brief description of Van’s appearance.
Jeff’s confused expression broke into another wide smile.
“Oh, you must mean the chosen one.”
“The what now?” I asked.
“The ceremony will begin at moonrise. You will find out everything then.”
In hindsight, we should’ve taken that as our cue to skedaddle. Instead, we stuck around. Drake ended up winning our game and afterward, Jeff ordered everyone to gather. He then got up onto a tree stump.
“Everyone, Drake and Gus here have been wonderful company among us. Have they not?”
At that, there were cheers of agreement.
“But they are still unaware of all of our customs. What do you say we demonstrate them so that we may have a lucrative harvest? Let the ceremony begin.”
The cheering grew louder, worrying us that it would attract some zombies. We remained safe, though so things proceeded. Everybody started chanting and dancing like the people on Spooky Island from the first live-action Scooby-Doo movie. As this happened, we observed a large square object getting wheeled out covered in a bedsheet.
Everyone stopped and pointed at the sheet that was then yanked off, revealing a wooden cage with someone naked inside, curled up in the fetal position. Upon realizing who it was, our eyes squinted in disbelief.
“Van?” we said in unison.
Feebly, he lifted his head, recognizing us. To put it bluntly, he looked like shit. Dirt, bruises, and cuts covered him. A piece of cloth was gagging his mouth. He muffled something and we assumed he was trying to say, “Help me”.
“Okay, that’s it,” Drake spoke up. “Does anybody want to tell us what the hell’s going on?”
“Friends, there is no need for this confusion,” Jeff told us. “The answer is simple. Van here is the chosen one and his noble sacrifice will yield us healthy crops.”
“Wait, did you say sacrifice?” I asked, a bit concerned.
“Why yes. It is a great honor and your friend here was worthy enough to be chosen.”
While we were far from friends with Van, especially at this point, the idea of him getting murdered didn’t sit well with us. At most, we wanted our money back and maybe to rough him up.
“Take him to the pit,” Jeff commanded.
The crowd parted, revealing a massive tarp surrounded by torches with abandoned construction equipment near it. The tarp was pulled back, revealing a hole filled with snarling zombies. The sacrifice part of things was making more sense now.
“Hey, quick question,” I told Jeff.
He raised a hand, prompting the others to become quiet.
“Yes?” he replied.
“Let’s say hypothetically we weren't exactly comfortable with all this and wanted to get Van out of here. What would happen?”
We thought Jeff would be offended by what I said. To our surprise, however, he was ecstatic.
“Why, nothing would make us happier.”
“Okay, well, in that case-”
“Solidarity is a truly noble gesture.”
“Wait, what?”
“Triple the offerings means triple the harvest.”
The next thing we knew we were surrounded and grabbed.
“What are you doing? Let us go,” Drake demanded.
Jeff ignored him.
“To tell you the truth, we were going to throw you in the pit tomorrow night anyway.”
We froze.
“You were going to kill us?” I said in disbelief. “How do you all even know this whole sacrifice thing works?”
“It’s quite simple really.”
Jeff explained that when The Unplagued was founded, there was little food. One night, a member tried sneaking off with all they had, and in their attempt to flee didn’t notice the pit and fell in. Zombies were already in it that devoured them alive,
“Would you believe that right after seeing this, we were blessed by finding bags of beef jerky and cans of beer?”
“Not be rude, but how do you know that wasn’t a coincidence?” I asked, trying unsuccessfully to appeal to what little remained of the crowd’s reason.
“Because we sacrificed someone to the pit the night after before going into town the next morning. Not only did my followers and I find supplies, we remained safe while doing so. Therefore, it is now our custom.”
If there’s anything this past week has taught me, it’s that things can go to shit fast. Van was taken out of the cage and lifted into the air. We could only watch in horror as he was crowd-surfed to the pit and tossed in. The zombies were all over him like ants to sugar water. As he was getting his insides eaten, the gag was ripped out of his mouth, making his shrieks echo throughout the woods.
It was only as we were getting pushed toward the pit that I found the ability to speak again.
“Can’t we talk about this? It’s not exactly a fair deal for us,” I shouted.
“Of course, it is. After this, you will be in paradise.”
“What proof do you have of that?”
“Our faith. Drake, Gus, your noble offers will not be forgotten.”
“How about you forget us being offerings in the first place?” Drake frantically asked.
“What’s done can not be undone.”
All of our careful planning just to be killed by some cultist nutjobs. At least, that’s what would’ve happened if not for another streak of incredible luck on our part. Storm clouds had been gathering during this ordeal. Following a clap of thunder, rain began pouring down, causing the dirt to become mud. People slipped on it, falling into the hole.
They piled into it, giving the zombies a means of climbing their way out. What followed was two minutes of mayhem. The Unplagued was no longer a fitting name. We were being held by two people each at the time. When the person on my left arm and the other on Drake’s right were tackled away, we seized the opportunity and freed ourselves.
Drake punched the guy holding him in the throat and shoved him to the ground. I stomped the foot of the person holding my arm and then kicked him in the crotch. He doubled over, groaning in pain. Then he was dog-piled by the zombies.
“Gus, look,” Drake said, pointing.
Our stuff was resting by a tree. We rushed over, grabbing our guns. Zombies tried attacking and Drake smashed onto across the face with the butt of his rifle while I shot another with my handgun. Fighting wasn’t easy given the limited visibility except during lightning flashes which meant we were going mainly off sound. Anything we heard coming towards us was getting the pump action treatment.
“Didn’t we pack some flashlights with us?” I asked, then yelled “Oh shit” as a flash revealed another zombie lunging at me.
I put a bullet through its head as Drake was rummaging through his bag.
“Got it,” he exclaimed in triumph and turned it on. “Catch.”
I caught it when he tossed it to me and kept the light on him as he got his weapon ready.
“On your left,” I told him as he was cocking his rifle.
With one turn and pull of the trigger, half of a zombie's face disappeared in a cloud of red mist. To think, a mere few days ago such a sight would’ve made us blow chunks. I guess we’ve become more resilient since then. I don’t know if that’s necessarily a good thing or there might be even more psychological shit we’ll have to deal with later down the road. Either way, it’s helped us survive this long.
Maybe I just shouldn’t think about it too much.
“God damn it, they got us all disoriented,” I said. “Which way should we head?”
After a brief discussion, we decided to go east while the cult members were getting devoured. Along the ground, I noticed someone had dropped the calumet and picked it up.
“Hang on, do you see that?” I asked, shining the flashlight on a nearby bush.
Checking it showed us Van’s stuff. We took the money from his wallet and left the rest of his things behind. We kept running until the cries of people and zombies alike were out of earshot.
“I think we’re safe for now,” Drake said as our lungs were getting some rest. “We need to find someplace to hunker down for the night.”
“Not exactly many options when it’s poring.“Guess all we can do is keep moving.”
We hoped the rain would let up soon. It didn’t and continued all night. We were miserable being soaked from head to toe and having our pants covered in mud. I would have given my right nut for a warm place to dry off and change.
“Rain’s stopped finally,” Drake commented as the clouds parted, revealing the first rays of sunlight. “Hey, Gus?”
“Yeah?”
“Did we grab any energy shots at the store?”
“I think so.”
“Oh, thank Christ.”
We each downed an 8-Hour Energy, temporarily alleviating our fatigue. However, our feet were still screaming at us. Therefore, we decided to sit on some nearby logs for a bit.
“How far do you think we have until we’re out?” I asked.
“Gus, I don’t know. We’ve been traveling for over two days now. We have to be close at this point.”
“I hope so. Hey, do you think maybe we should do something when and if we make it out of here?”
“Like?”
“Well, even before all this, we were spinning our wheels in the mud. I think we deserve to treat ourselves.”
“I get what you mean, man. Tell you what. After all this, let’s get some of that good shit for the peace pipe.”
“Hell yeah.”
We had breakfast, a bag of mixed nuts each with some water. Then we got moving again.
“Hold up,” Drake said. “Is that smoke?”
By this point, another two hours of us waking had gone by. I took out the binoculars from my pack and handed them over.
“Holy shit, it is,” he said ecstatically while looking through them.
“But where's it coming from?”
He gave them back to me. Raising them to my eyes showed me a cabin in the distance.
“Someone's living all the way out here?” I asked.
“Looks like it. They probably want to be off-grid. Let's see if they'd be willing to help us.”
When we reached it, we were met with a medium-sized one-floor log cabin.
“Hello, is anyone there?” Drake asked, knocking on the door. “Sorry to bother you, but my friend and I are in bad shape.”
No answer came. I gestured to the knob. Drake shrugged and tried it, finding, to our surprise, it to be unlocked. He turned it, pushing the door open to a home shrouded in darkness.
“That doesn't make any sense,” I said. “We just saw smoke coming from here.”
“Maybe whoever made it left.”
“Should we wait for them to come back then?”
At the noises of ravenous zombies in the distance, we decided it'd be a safer bet to try explaining our unlawful entry. We went inside, shutting the door behind us.
“Help me find the light switch,” Drake said and I heard him feeling along the wall.
There was a click and the lights came on.
“Good going, Gus.”
“That wasn't me.”
Suddenly, there was laughter coming from someone whose voice was eerily familiar. When he spoke, it chilled us to our core.
“Drake, Gus, it's been too long.”
Our heads whipped in the direction of that voice. Stepping from the shadows was the grinning face of Erickson. His fingers were wrapped around the handles of a glass tank containing a severed head he referred to as his wife.
“I take it you’ve enjoyed my virus?” he asked.
“Your virus?” Drake replied, shocked. “You’re the one responsible for the zombie outbreak.”
“That’s right. To tell you the truth, I wasn’t expecting you both to survive this long. Of course, I knew contaminating the water would take care of most of this town’s residents.”
“The water?” I said, realization splashing me in the face, no pun intended.
I thought back to before everything went to hell in a handbasket. Our faucet had acted up and therefore we switched to drinking bottled water. As far as we knew, Roscoe and Van were only drinking bottled water as well. The latter made sense, seeing as how he had higher standards. As for the former, I think he mentioned once that he didn’t drink from the tap because he heard it would make him gay.
I don’t quite understand his reasoning. To each his own, I guess.
“Give us one reason we shouldn’t blow your head off right now?” Drake asked, pointing his rifle at Erickson.
The mad doctor only smiled. My face broke out in a sweat at the noise of several weapons being trained on us from the darkness.
“You didn’t think I’d be so careless. Did you?” Erickson asked.
More people came out of the shadows. Only then did it dawn on me how oddly lit the place was. The majority of them were a form of cop or security profession. Then there were two that stood out. The first we recognized.
It was former mayor Bill Schneider. With him was a woman sporting a viper smile.
“Why is the mayor here?” I asked.
“Yeah, and why do you look like Hilary Clinton?” Drake added to the woman beside Schneider.
“Now that he mentions it, she does remind me a lot of her,” I thought.
Erickson gave a sinister laugh.
“All will be answered in due time,” he told us. “ Now, would someone be so kind as to show our guests where they’ll be staying?”
At that, we were both struck across the face with batons, making everything go dark. I can’t accurately say where I was taken. I faded in and out of consciousness as they were dragging us away. What I did glimpse, shakes me to my core to even describe. There were windowed rooms with different zombies.
I thought what we’d encountered thus far were abominations. These go against Mother Nature herself. The worst ones I saw were a fused zombified family and one guy without any skin clawing at his window. He was moaning as he did it and I got the harrowing sensation it was due to pain. All my weapons were taken away and I was thrown into this room.
It’s similar to the ones in hospitals with a bed and a sink. I still have my phone on me. I’m not sure why. I guess they don’t realize I have internet access. Either that or they missed it outright.
In any case, I’m able to upload this post. There’s a wifi signal down here. The password wasn’t difficult to crack. It was “EricksonIsAGnnuis_1234”. I have no clue where they took Drake.
I can only hope he’s staying strong. Knowing that Erickson is behind all this and whatever’s in store for us is making my nut hairs bristle. If I don’t get a chance to update again, I want to end with this message. No justice. No Peace. Fuck the police.
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2024.06.10 06:59 lurkingpandaescaped Naive, unprepared, and an inherited family farm

Cross post
My grandfather died back in May. He has a small, yet unique farm in Colorado. I am in over my head with grief and have little to no understanding of much of what is happening. My Uncle is the main trustee and i feel like he is double talking me, manipulating me and i am hesitant to trust him.
Here's what i know:
-My grandfather continued to live on the farm until he died this year in 2024.
-all parties would like to sell.
My Uncle is the estate manager. He is claiming that there was unpaid estate taxes? From the time of my grandmothers death in 2004? He said it was my grandfather responsibility to pay them? Or potentially his secretarys wife?
From the little bit of research i have done on IRS.gov and being in the State of Colorado, the farms worth does not exceed 13.6 million and therefore does not require estate taxes? This is one of my big questions.
Or does that reflect back to 2004 at the time of my grandmothers death? Or the original purchase price of 200,000$ and the appreciation?
My uncle is saying thay because of the unpaid estate taxes, the farm is not worth what everyone thinks. I don't know whether to trust him or if his statements even make sense. I understand we would face capitol gains taxes and have to continue to pay property taxes. But something doesn't feel right. He claims after the unpaid estate taxes and capitol gains taxes we would only end up with a minimal (less than 6 figure profit) if we sold it.
I am definitely going to seek legal counsel. But what type of lawyer do i need?
What questions should i ask of my uncle? My intuition is telling me he is trying to screw me over or manipulate me.
Any advice is welcome. Please ask me questions. Please offer advice.
I am trying to protect my mom and little brother and also myself.
Again i apologize if there is missing info, tell me what additional information is needed. And what questions i should ask
Thank you all
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2024.06.10 06:55 cheesemonger-_- What kind of bit is the worst for horses?

Hello, I remember before my father passed, as a child, he talked about a bit that was made to have more control with the horse, but if the rider was rough it would tear up the horses mouth and sometimes even make them bleed.
I ask because the horse guard who post with their riders sometimes seems really uncomfortable with their mouth. So I'm wondering if they have that type of bit that is rough on the horses.
This bit would be from the mid to late 70's if that makes any difference.
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2024.06.10 06:55 Reasonable-Cancel-37 My MIL isnt just from hell... she runs it.

Let me preface this by saying this isnt just about my MIL, but my husbands whole family. How such a wonderful and kind man came from this insanity is beyond me.
My husband, lets call him Daniel (26M), and I (26F) have been married for almost seven years. We have three beautiful children, and a happy life together. But our history is straight out of a telenovela. See, my husband and I met in high school. We are both members of the LDS church, so we come from similar religious backgrounds. My MIL never liked me. From the moment we met, I had an intense desire to be friends with Daniels family, and I was always met with disdain. I spent a huge chunk of our seven years married, plus six years dating, trying to get on the good side of my inlaws.... and most recently I have drawn a line.
In the beginning of 2024, on my youngest daughters first birthday to be precise, we were evicted by our landlord (long story short, there was a difference in the definition of "up to health code" when he tried to raise our rent and he took it upon himself to kick us out because of our picky nature about the mold and roaches. But I digress.) In this moment of panic and in need of help to get everything out in our allotted three days, I called upon my inlaws and my family to see if we could get some help. My mother in law offered to watch the kids, while my father in law offered to come help. Now, to understand this next part, you need to understand that my husband and I are avid gamers. We play video games together, as a family, with my brothers, and with friends from around the world that we met on the game and that weve come to know as family. This is a big no-no in Daniels family. So to "teach us a lesson" my FIL came to help, but decided to sit on his phone the whole time. I later learned that he even told Daniels siblings not to come help. He was trying to show us that video games waste time, but what he did was hurt us in a time that we had no time to be taught lessons. We spent the whole day doing everything ourselves. My family didnt come, and my friends were busy since it was such short notice. The only time my FIL got off his phone was when I asked him to drive my kids to his house so MIL could watch them. But heres the kicker.... he only got off his phone to start the car. Continuing to play his phone, he not only didnt listen when I said these are my precious babies in the car (1yr, 3yrs, and 4yrs), he also ran a red light and couldve killed us all. When I confronted him about it, he told me that he was just showing me how video games are a waste of time. I never, in any of my years of playing games, have touched my phone while driving. Nor have I treated someone else as if they werent important. I dropped everything when my MIL was having seizures and stayed with them for three weeks without games so you would think they would see that my life isnt just me being stuck to a screen. But whatever.
Later that day, after we had gotten everybody settled and everything out of our house (it was two bedrooms and my husband and i were working through the frustration), my brother in law decided to step in to speak with Daniel. We thought it was going to be fine, but no. Daniels brother is 17 and a senior in high school. He decided that we needed to know that Daniels decision to not serve a religious mission and attend a college, and instead get married and enter the workforce immediately was the worst decision of his life. Now, ive been told many times that im the biggest mistake hes ever made. This doesnt necessarily bother me anymore. Its when my MIL and FIL stepped in to let us know that hes right. They asked Daniel "what about those other more appropriate girls you were dating before you got married?" and this has thrown me through a LOOP. I was outraged. I let them know that this is not the time nor the setting to have a conversation about our marriage and our decisions. Daniel and I make enough to pay for our family and the things we need. But because we were just evicted and had nowhere to go right away, we instead let them have their words with us and accepted their offer to let us stay there for a while. Was this the best decision? No. But it was the only option we had.
We found a little apartment to rent inside our budget, but it wouldnt be available for a few months. In order to save money, we decided to bite the bullet and take the kindness that was given to us and stay where our kids would be fed and safe, and we would just get by on each others love and God. But we didnt realize just how hard the bullet was that we were about to be chomping. The next several weeks, we were met with many, many.... MANY issues. First off, we were willing to give up our video games while we were there, since my inlaws had views that they were satanic and hey, their house their rules. This isnt a huge issue, as we saw them as a hobby and not as a necessity. It wouldve been a non issue if they didnt let their son (17) and their daughter (13) stay up all night playing video games. Second, my inlaws are HUGE into religion. We are church goers, but were not going to say youre going to hell because you believe something different or you live something different. However, Daniels parents are AGRESSIVE. If you missed even one Sunday at church for any reason, you need to repent. As we tried to live peacefully through the next few months, we did everything Daniels parents asked. It was when I started to see more hypocrisy happening that things circled the drain.
My husband is known as the geek of the family, and this makes him the black sheep. Everyone else is what could be known as "popular". They are having parties constantly. His parents cared when Daniel did something like stay out too late, but when it comes to his siblings they are very out and open about sneaking out of the house to drive to another state and makeout with a girl, stealing doughnuts from krispy kreme dumpsters to throw at cars driving down the highway, and trying to hotwire peoples cars. These are all REAL THINGS that Daniels siblings have done that nobody cared about. I try to raise my kids as normal and polite, so i tried to keep them away from the stories that got told and got passed off as fine. Daniels little sister had friends over pretty often. Now remember, shes 13. She would be watching scary movies all the time. With my inlaws being super religious and judgy at any game they thought was innappropriate, I thought this was pretty weird for her to be allowed to do. So whenever she did this, I took my kids to the park or to a friends house. I didnt want them having nightmares. One day, my MIL asked me where I was going. I simply explained that because there was a horror movie playing in the room where my kids toys were, and I didnt want them getting upset because they wanted to spend time in that room, I was just going to take them to play at the park. MIL asked why. I told her that my view is that its not my job to judge what she allows her kids to watch, but I dont want my kids seeing that stuff until theyre old enough to be able to handle the thoughts and feelings they would get from it. She went BALLISTIC. "MY DAUGHTER IS NOT WATCHING A SCARY MOVIE, SHE WOULD NEVER, SHE ALWAYS TELLS ME WHAT SHES WATCHING." And when Daniels sister even said she was watching a rated R movie about the antichrist, MIL still didnt believe it and said I was being ridiculous for taking my kids out of the house.
From there it did not get any better, as MIL began to attack our parenting. My husband removing my son from the room while my daughter got dressed made him physically abusing (all he did was pick him up and walk out of the room.) My kids going into the kitchen to get cereal in the morning instead of asking me for help made me neglectful (I genuinely cant watch them if Im not woken up when they get up). But this is where I drew the line, and where my AITA question comes in. My daughter has been working on going potty for a year. Seriously. A year. Weve been slowly getting it, but shes stubborn and the eviction kind of messed it up and reverted back to just diapers for a while because hard times can do that. Weve been patient, and Ive been doing a lot of reading and researching on how to help her feel comfortable for this. I read that letting her go around in a diaper and not worry about her pants and shirt can really help. So I did that. She was in a diaper. We also incentivized "big girl panties" and getting rid of "baby diapers" for good. Do you want to be a baby forever? No! Lets go be a big girl and go potty! As far as i know, this is normal. But her being in a diaper in the summertime inside the house is incredibly abusive, and when my back was turned, my MIL put one of her shirts on my daughter. This thing was huge, and even more in the way than her own pants would be. So when I saw it I was like hey can you not? Im trying to help her potty train and be a big girl so shes not a baby. This set MIL off. SHE IS NOT A BABY, SHE IS A TODDLER. Well, yes, we know that, but my daughter is still only 3 and she needs clear distinction between baby and big girl to help her potty. WITHHOLDING CLOTHING FROM A CHILD IS ABUSIVE. Im not withholding clothing, Im just helping her with the initial step of recognizing that she needs to potty and only having one thing to remove could be helpful to her. THIS IS MY HOUSE AND I WILL TELL YOU WHEN I SEE THAT YOU ARE BEING A BAD PARENT AND THESE ARE MY GRANDBABIES. WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO MY SON TO MAKE HIM AGREE TO BE ABUSIVE AND TREAT HIS CHILDREN IN THIS WAY. This... This was the final straw. I told her exactly this "I genuinely dont care who you are or who you think you are to my children, if you do not start to respect my husband and me as people and as the parents of our three children, I will take our kids and I will walk out that door and we will never return." She said "fine, go." And we did. This was the last time we saw any of his family, back in March.
She didnt think we were serious. Shes shown up at my moms house (who sent her away because my mom took my side) and she has texted my husband. She even texted me out of nowhere calling me a rat. Thats fine. Im a happy rat who is living without the intense drama and stress of my husbands family. I have told my husband that i will never stop him if he wants to see his family, but I will not be joining him. My kids can join if he wants that but I strongly suggest no for now. My husband has taken my side and has made that abundantly clear.
Now heres my question. Ive always been a people pleaser. Ive always wanted the approval of my inlaws because I thought that it would make our family stronger and better if we all got along. AITA to them for cutting them off? AITA to myself for giving up on my dream of a many generational happy family? Or should I even be feeling guilty? There was so much that I didnt even include in here, and so much that i felt like i was within my right to stand up for myself and my husband, but i feel like cutting them off has made a rift in the family and it makes me feel guilty. Should I try again later down the road? Theyve treated me like this for 13 years now.... Im always the one who apologizes and takes the blame...
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2024.06.10 06:55 justplantiredofit Just looking to vent about my life to this point.

Throwaway because ya i dont want my main to have this shitshow on it.
When i was 16 my family taped me to become my grandfather's caretaker on the weekends and over the summer. I didn't have a car or job at that time so I went with it. I took care of my grandfather until the last 2 weeks of his life where my mother and her brothers stayed with him and a hospice nurse. His passing negatively affected me.
By then i had a cheap $500 car my grandparents helped me get and my grandmother made me pay her back every cent of it. Granted it was interest free but eh. Anyway my uncle took grandma up with him for 6 months and everyone again decided I would live with her until something changed. Well grandma was a drunk and had dementia.
My 19 year old ass had to baby sit her every second I wasn't in school or work. They even wanted me to move her to the Northeast to be closer to family up there. Thankfully she had a massive breakdown that night and while her and my mother fought I finally lost it on both of them. After that my family decided to move grandma into my parents home and build me a room in our garage. It wasn't the worst idea but inadequate ventilation in a florida garage not the best of plans.
But at that point i met and started dating my now wife. After a few months I moved in with her and her father. See my wife is disabled and I was her most the time careguver except when working obviously. Now her dad did want me to pay rent which i did. Granted we are talking almost 25 years ago so it was something like 200-300 a month. Again no major issue with that. But what got annoying was he always found something to get on me about. Nothing serious just things like, i should dust the house 3x a week, vacuum the rug every week, wash dishes everynight regardless of if i was the cook or even ate their that night. Kinda normal chores shit. It did grind me that i felt like i was being used as his personal maid for the house on top of working 50-60 hours a week and taking care of his daughter everyday. But again i live here i can chip in as well.
Well it got way worse over the years because we couldnt afford to move out due to her being disabled and the house we live in was mostly designed with her in mind. Any place we would have to rent we would need accomodations for her and even possible renovations so she could shower, have a lift to assist her into bed and bars so use the restroom by herself. Needless to say there are not many places like that and even less landlords willing to allow us to renovate ourselves. So we delt with him. It was clear to me he had dementia but my wife and her brother wouldnt hear of me talking about it.
Well it got so bad for him i ended up being his caretaker as well. After a few years and fights with doctors he was finally diagnosed as having alcoholic dementia. And he got to the point it wasnt safe to live with him as he got violent and attacked me everynight and when he threatened the kids (yes we have kids) my wife finally said ok we need to go somewhere else. I tried to see if we could spend some time at my parents house but my sister suddenly found herself homeless with her two kids. So we moved to south FL for a few months waiting on her brother to help us.
Now her brother finally took over helping and worked for 4 months to get him help and it ended up with him in a home due to his violent tendencies and his lost grasp of reality. We were able to return to our house (he father left it to her specifically because she was disabled and it was built new specifically to help her) and my father got very sick. We tried to make up for a summer of not being there but in the end my father passed right before christmas. That was a really hard day. Somehow I managed to keep it together and helped in the planning of my fathers funeral. In the end almost none of my ideas or photos got used. The next year due to issues with my wifes caregiver I ended up losing a job. Getting a new one only to get injured and be out of work for 9 months. Then once i finally healed up from injuries and heartache covid happened.
A year later her father passed. After all the covid crap finally cleared up Im now my wifes full time caregiver. We have zero help from most our familes. Her mom who is bipolar decided to sell her house in south florida and moved in with us. She doesnt really do anything and when she does its some batshit idea she came up with. If we shoot it down she will sulk in her room for several days then come out interact with us like a normal person and suddenly come up with a batshit idea the next day.
Sorry this is going on so long i just needed to vent. Im not sure exactly why today is my day to let this loose but almost 30 years of holding it in isn't working anymore so i needed to just say it.
My family has used me as a errand boy for most my life. Need something fixed no problem tired will do it. Need a ride? Again he's got no plans get him. Oh your homeless and want to move into a 3/2 house with a family of 5 already in it? More the merrier i guess. Oh something didnt work out exaclty as planned well unload on him cause fuck him right?
Honestly i never minded being a caregiver. In some ways it makes my life more fufilled because Im helping and I like to be the helper. But god damn sometime people that advantage of that then shit on me when things go wrong. Im not a damnit doll. Im a fucking human being. I know over the years I haven't accomplished much but god damn its hard to try to for example go to school for a degree when you cant get a second of freetime to study or work and when it eventually fails im laughed at and belittled for not trying harder. Hell the firrt time i went to college before my wife was even in the picture my family decided they where not going to pay for it because I failed a english class. A subject ive struggled in my entire life. Hell i even tried to access the schools resources for people like myself that have learning disabilities but they even with 8 years of previous documented learning disabilities decided nah your good. Also never mind for the first time im my life i got As in every other class I took. Nope a single F and i wasnt trying. As i wasnt trying they wouldnt help. Oh student loans you ask? Didnt qualify because drum roll my parents made too much i was too young and they need to help. Pay for yourself you say? Didnt have 2500 every 3 months to register. Or a few years later and no longer living with my family. I got loans but after 2 years of school i was still 6 months behind to graduate (mostly math and english two classes i have learning disabilities it) and mt school recommended i take a semester off to get myself rested and ready to finish. Well the school got shut down before i could go back and as it wasnt a real college (itt-tech scam) i couldnt transfer my credits. Now i owe a crap load of money and no degree to use to improve my employment status. Tried again a decade later and well father in law madenit impossible to study or do work so guess how that turned out.
Honestly im just tired. Tired of being looked down on by our familes because im the loser who couldnt finish school (verbatim spoken by a family member). Im the guy that when they really needed me turned them down because i just couldnt for whatever reason. Well thats enough to cut contact with me for 2 months.
Now i dont want people to think my family or my wifes family are all compelte assholes. They aren't, for example my parents payed off a car loan I had. Mostly because my other grandmother passed and they got an inheritance so they did something for me. However same time my sister who had a job paying more then my father made at the time. Lived with them rent free and didnt contribute to any house hold bills including food. And as she had 2 young kids at the time that was alot.
My wife and I early into our marriage got into a very bad place. We ended up separating for 2 months which i lived with my parents. At that time my sister and her babydaddy lived there as well. I payed my dad 400 a month in rent and gave him enough extra to cover 2-3 of the utilites as well.. when i moved back I got roasted because i only covered the power bill for the next month and didnt give my parents more. Guess who roasted me for this? Hint it wasnt my parents.
God this got really long. Kinda feels like ive unloaded on a therapist again. Havent had that ability in over a decade. Anyway ill stop ranting here. I dont really want people to comment. In the end of the day Ive got the family I created. Ive got a house and I am doing ok. I just needed to write this out just because because. Please dont think im looking for something here. I am not injust needed to unload nothing more.
Thanks if you managed to get all the way down here. This honestly started as a reply to another post. When i saw it was going into adhd rant land i decided to post it by itself. So i end this here and say be excellent to one another.
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